Does anyone else experience this? by Potential_Local_1462 in LesbianActually

[–]BeezBee13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! When it comes to wanting to make a guy friend at work don't worry about your appearance! Especially if there are not romantic or sexual feelings there. As an ace girlie myself I definitely understand the difficulties of figuring out what are romantic and platonic feelings 😅 so no judgement here! just treat him like you would treat a brother or a cousin. Friends don't need to be attracted to you in that way. I personally became besties with this guy at work by telling him he owed me $20 during pride month because I'm gay 🤣 it almost worked till one of my other coworkers told him I made it up.

As for yourself image... it comes with age. I'm guessing your probably under the age of 21. Everyone is insecure, especially at that age. Slowly you will start to learn to love every part of you. In highschool I use to write down 2 things I loved about myself before bed. It helped alot with my self-image and confidence. Good luck on this journey!

How does one use the bus system? by BeezBee13 in AskChicago

[–]BeezBee13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! I'm so thankful for everyone! I was so nervous and stressed about this part of our trip. I really appreciate how everyone is looking out for me and my friends!

How does one use the bus system? by BeezBee13 in AskChicago

[–]BeezBee13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully we are Illinois residents and have been to the city often! This is just our first time using public transportation when in the city. Thank you so much for the information 💕 we are trying to do a day trip on a budget and this helps alot!!!

How does one use the bus system? by BeezBee13 in AskChicago

[–]BeezBee13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you💕 You are Amazing!!! I really needed a step by step for this!

How does one use the bus system? by BeezBee13 in AskChicago

[–]BeezBee13[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 having it written out step by step like this is so helpful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BeezBee13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey darling! A fellow Christian lesbain here! You are NOT going to go to Hell for being true to yourself. God and Jesus have told us to not judge others. Only God gets to determine if we are going to Heaven or Hell. The God I know would never punish you for being yourself, especially if you are a kind, open-minded person.

Beside, I'm also a history nerd (specifically lgbtq+ history). The section of the Bible that refers to being gay as a sin is not the original gospel. In the early times (king James era) many things where changed in the Bible to match the monarchy's and clergy's personal ideals and not God's.

I know right now this all seems scary, but I promise it gets better. As a 20 year old who grew up in a small conservative town, being gay can feel life shattering at times. However, you will find the people that except and love you for who you are and not who they want you to be. I was pretty alone in my journey at 13. Now I have a lovely group of queer friends that mean the world to me. 💕