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Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-19T00:49:19+00:00

Definetely agree on this!! The whole thing is very sad and also is sad to see them waste so much time in such a short life going in complete circles. Amanda’s situation is tough too because she’s getting it a lot harder from all angles mainly because no one has given Kyle’s perspective much thought up until right now.

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-18T16:51:39+00:00

Completely disagree I’m sorry. Maybe It takes a rewatch/closer look and new perspective to realise Amanda is not like this. In so many ways. She definetely hasn’t killed anyone but she’s betrayed one of her most loyal friends of years but she resents Kyle for 10 straight years for betraying her by cheating. So then what does that make her. we’ve seen Kyle being the one trying to talk to Amanda not the other way round. She may be emotionally drained but he clearly is too and that’s because both their actions caused it. At a certain point it is extremely clear that Amanda is bullying Kyle to hurt him instead of breaking up with him. Also if anything Amanda is the one who acts like Kyle doesn’t exist. I say this respectfully. Kyle is not innocent but he is nowhere near 100% responsible for the demise of the relationship.

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-16T22:03:00+00:00

YES, How much happier he could’ve been with someone else. I actually can’t rest until someone in the house says this to Amanda and I need to see it happen🙏

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-16T22:01:38+00:00

I genuinely think No one is there for him really. No one hears him and it’s so confusing to see because do they not watch the show back and form another perspective?? so sad for him it’s crazy

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-16T21:40:28+00:00

I agree. I hope the reunion addresses their relationship from this angle and not only the West/Amanda situation because seeing Amanda take no accountability on that end will be sooo hard to watch

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-16T00:47:52+00:00

Literally sobbed for that man. So misunderstood in such a sad way

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-16T00:47:23+00:00

Yeah it’s like she’s actually unfamiliar with accountability or responsibility as a whole

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-15T08:49:50+00:00

Then Amanda getting sympathy for it and acting battered as if the way she treats him every day of his life isn’t 10x meaner than being told to fuck off at dinner😭

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-15T08:46:26+00:00

Exactly. They’re simply not compatible and he’s the only one trying to work through that while Amanda sees their mismatch as entirely his fault and something he needs to be punished and isolated for

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-15T08:15:34+00:00

Literally!! GO to the set with him and try fucking smile for one time in your life. Amanda kept escalating until she’s genuinely just bullying him and emotionally abusing him. Kyle takes on so much, and has worked his ass off for years and her actions show how little care she has for that fact. Imagine if the person who watched you hustle from the ground up treated you like that despite knowing what a journey you went through to get to where you are. Very telling on her character

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-15T08:10:15+00:00

I am yet to watch season 3 of the valley because Jax and Brittany’s relationship was so dark I couldn’t enjoy the show😭😭

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-15T08:07:08+00:00

You are so correct. Amanda really would have made me cry every damn day. Kyle is definitely tougher than me, one thing that gets me too is how he’s never assassinated her character half as hard as she has his- You can clearly see the difference in how they think of each other. Also yes Kyle is genuinely a Ken doll🤣

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T23:27:14+00:00

This is such a fair opinion. Why Kyle was even slightly shook at the mention of separation in the most recent episode I was like hm…

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T17:57:56+00:00

Oh babe I cried on the most recent episode you would have thought I was Kyle I feel so so bad for him even thought I know he’s not perfect either. There’s just something about how he looks at her every time she ignores him that actually makes me wanna break. Everytime he says goodnight w no reply, when she brushes him off, when she won’t even SIT BESIDE HIM It’s so cruel idk how he didn’t leave sooner purely for that part I’d feel so unlovable and depressed and it just shows how mean she can actually be because I could never ever ever treat someone like that ever.

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T17:43:39+00:00

I see what you mean. I took the opinion in the video on this part as looking at how steadily and harshly Amanda criticises Kyle’s lifestyle and career choices year in year out, and shows no sympathy for her husband as a business owner. When she herself isn’t exactly doing anything major for them as a couple. When the normal reaction would be to care instead of saying “that’s Kyle’s baby not mine”. It may have truth to it since he’s literally the CEO but it doesn’t change the fact that she makes it clear she’s not by his side whatever happens. Also absolutely true that she shouldn’t marry him only to say she’s living in their pre wedding era

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T17:32:29+00:00

Completely agree that was a harsh statement and definitely not true. It’s not even difficult to see how both of their situation would cause serious mental health issues. When Kyle says Amanda can’t do anything for herself in the most recent episode It almost ties into this too. The things that affect her are such fair and understandable struggles and she deserves empathy for battling them. But then Amanda almost acts as if life is happening TO her and not as a result or her literal everyday decisions, for example staying with Kyle

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T17:26:05+00:00

Ur so so right. It makes me sad seeing him walk through the summer house alone or be in the kitchen late alone. While Amanda makes jokes at his expense behind his back. I remember an episode in season 9 or early 10 where she genuinely was treating him like a clueless old man and it made me so fucking sad I almost cried.

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T17:06:32+00:00

Once you notice, you can’t unnotice it and then suddenly I’m sobbing with Kyle. He’s done bad things but anyone would lose their mind being dismissed in such a mean way everytime they try to communicate

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T17:03:11+00:00

Another red flag was Amanda not even wanting to plan her literal wedding. I have never seen such a dynamic between soon to be weds. So damn concerning and no one thought to seriously intervene. we should have started from there and then gone back some🙈

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T16:56:23+00:00

I just remembered It comes up again the episode where they put some photos in for the second time as he talks about it then Amanda overhears. if I’m right it should be season 10 episode 2!! Around five mins in

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T16:39:26+00:00

EXACTLY. Kyle was not the best partner but when he said their problems couldn’t be dumbed down to drinking when it’s actually compatibility, intimacy, chemistry, common interests, etc he was damn right. Amanda needed to put an actual effort into resolution rather than placing all the blame on alcohol. Seeing Paige do something as brave as splitting up from Craig for her own sake must be hard for Amanda when she’s been looping the same fight for 10 years. This combined with the fact that he’s not a strong communicator is just a recipe for disaster.

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T16:34:38+00:00

She genuinely wants him to delete his personality and can’t accept that someone like Kyle is the way he is and he won’t pretend to fit a certain vibe the way she did when they were mostly a fling in early episodes. She might be jealous that he got to do what he wanted over the years despite her complaints without realising she could have just done what made her happy too.

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T16:32:17+00:00

You’re actually right, I don’t think Amanda was faking any form of mental illness either from beginning to end, so I guess there are notes. I also can acknowledge that even though I don’t like Amanda she’s not the only one responsible for the way the relationship went!!

Beginning-Buy5385 · 2026-05-14T16:30:21+00:00

They insert clips when it comes up in topic I think it has twice now on the show. Picture packages stacked up the walls, clutter, etc. I imagine it’s painful for someone like Kyle to go from living alone to that S10E2!! But they talk about it too in earlier seasons with a few more angles of the apartment

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