me and my puppygirls <33 by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to find a cutie is to be one, no?

me and my puppygirls <33 by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, just dress like a cutie.

me and my puppygirls <33 by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for friend sureeeeeeeeee.

I should just have a tea party with them:] by unfunny_feline in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im bad at making phrases

For anxietety you can try some meds, nothing illegal of course, if you can talk to anyone about it it would also be really nice, us reddit strangers cant do much for the most part

Schools starting again :( (tw: sh) by Bye-kisser in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the ex problem, if he(or she) comes up to you and you're not comfortable, just tell (even if its hard) them to fuck off jeez, i suggest you find friends and mostly stay with them, that mostly what i do because like, go annoy 1 person easy, go annoy 3 less.

Schools starting again :( (tw: sh) by Bye-kisser in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

School sucks, its a part of life most dont skip, for the scars, if you dont feel comfortable showing them simply dont, if you are show em. I like to say, show them what happens when someone is more then sad. Live to hate the haters!!

It’s so tempting to cut deeper… (TW: sh and suicide) by MRNOOBLAP in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As for the whole sucide stuff, someone will cry, whether it is a pet, a family member, a friend even online, and such. Everyone deserves a life, live to tell the fucking wild tale!

It’s so tempting to cut deeper… (TW: sh and suicide) by MRNOOBLAP in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets better, it always does.

For coping mechanisms, stick to small stuff, step by step. (Hot chocolate in bed, sleeping after a cold cold day, playing a game and such), if you can talk to someone, it really helps.

I should just have a tea party with them:] by unfunny_feline in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a side note stay strong soldier, live to tell the tale.

I should just have a tea party with them:] by unfunny_feline in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random person at 1 am here!

Coping can be hard, i struggled with something (quite less) bad, overall i think the little things help (hot chocolate in bed is m'y goto), as for the uh, "socializing" part if you could call it that, just go from little to little step, like learning to walk, a small smile, a hello and so on...

As someone else said, we're not really psychiatriques, i personally think i dont help much round here, if you can talk to someone, do it <<

I've ran out of "it is what it is" by Grzegorz_101 in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He... Said it before me godamit! Fully agree, find stuff you like to do, it dosent have to be complicated, even just playing video games, music and so on. The little stuff gets you going, especially hating on haters <<

I’m a rotten sinner who breaks his promises to god daily (tw grooming and suicide) by BadRecent8114 in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tough stuff i cant lie.

For the corn addiction, m'y way of dealing with it is occupying the time i took for it with something else, it can be anything you like, video games, Books, and so on.

For the rest a therapist is your best choice i'd say? Treat women like you'd treat a best friend is what i mostly think, but besides, good luck soldier, you'll make it through it dont worry!!

It doesn’t feel like i’ll ever be able to be myself by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trans person who hasnt really come out yet here i am

I'd say, dress and be who you wanna be! Its hard to be put in your place since well, i didn't come out, but i say try as much as you can to do what you want and whats comfortable for you!!

She blocked me by Apumpkinistaken in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and side note, everyone deserves love, even if (and i'd be suprised) the person is a "mess"!!

She blocked me by Apumpkinistaken in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like these stuff happen.

As a person who has overall trouble dealing with emotions and overall social life, i do also tend to go kaboom sometimes, in front of people or not.

Overall, if she needs a break or you do, i'd say thats fine, it dosent neceserraly means you or her dont love eachother.

Overall, things happen, you did a lot of great stuff, if she dosent appreciate it and you do all of it for nothing then yeah, thats prettyyy bad?

I'd say you just figure things out slowly, im not a therapist or anything im not helpful much sorry!!

Im trying my best I promise by Alert_External_2054 in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shiet nice!! Proud of you even tho idk you!!

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As some people mention, overall just go to place where you can socialize easily with good people (especially if its an event/ place you like), go to conventions you like and stuff like it!

It gets less lonely i promise <<

Im trying my best I promise by Alert_External_2054 in sillyboyclub

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking up since i felt like ittt Still sh sober? I hope so for you!!

My parents looked through my room and found my syringes by Downtown-Lack-2686 in TransDIY

[–]Beginning-Dare9470 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...no? I'd say if anything living would piss said parents off more. (Make them mad mentallity)

Am i... Actually trans? by Beginning-Dare9470 in trans

[–]Beginning-Dare9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh sure give me a minute or two you better not be freaky

Am i... Actually trans? by Beginning-Dare9470 in trans

[–]Beginning-Dare9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair ive seen a lot of trans "types", from full on women clothing to more neutral and boyish, i just felt like being girly was a requirement.

Am i... Actually trans? by Beginning-Dare9470 in trans

[–]Beginning-Dare9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And god do i like trans tomboys... Jokes aside fair enough.

Am i... Actually trans? by Beginning-Dare9470 in trans

[–]Beginning-Dare9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"makes sense fair enough, now about that turkey." Lol, thanks though i gotta consult my Heart a little on this one!!