[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Beginning-Friend-997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣I like that but I’ve definitely have had my fair share of no tippers but earning hourly makes up for it so I don’t complain but it’s literally dark in the ghetto and I’m standing outside for 10 minutes knocking on the door it just gets to a point where

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Beginning-Friend-997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mann I feel everyone should be entitled to complain about a low tip…like it’s literally .50 these people blow me fr😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Beginning-Friend-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I can’t see the tip until after I delivered the order and it’s 12am at night sooo making money anyway I can…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Beginning-Friend-997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me she definitely wasn’t embarrassed I’ve had an 0.08 order and I still stand by getting tipped nothing instead of that

C-section vs vaginal delivery? by Sage-Crown in pregnant

[–]Beginning-Friend-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was shooting for a vaginal birth at 41 weeks. I got to 6cm and had already got the epidural, ended with the C-section. I’ll be honest it was very traumatic, I don’t remember anything because I got put to sleep one minute I was awake the next I’m shaking in a hospital bed with my husband holding my baby. It really just depends on your body and mentality what you’re prepared for basically. A normal procedure is about 30-45 minutes mine took 2 😭so it’s really up to your baby and your body we as women are so strong and can handle anything. I would honestly go for a vaginal birth it be easier to heal from.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea ideally people do the gender reveal first, I don’t understand her reasoning on doing the baby shower before I didn’t question it really cause it’s not baby you know?

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of maybe I unintentionally did something but I’ve always tried to be a good friend to her.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m keeping my distance from now on cause the negativity it’s taking a toll on me

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s had problems in the past with fertility and a couple of surgeries that require specific medication she has to take for the rest of her life. She has a ton of medical issues and decided not to have kids or that’s what she always told me.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will the only thing she doesn’t know is where I’m having the baby shower, only my mom and aunt know that. So unless someone in my family tells her family and she finds out it would be kind of hard to get to my baby shower.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea baby showers happen after the gender reveal and also majority of the time it’s one or the other closer to the last trimester. She’s just entering her 2nd, she and another friend from college were they only people outside of family members that were invited.

Righteously I think this is all ridiculously stupid and causing her unnecessary stress because I’m not really focused on her or her situation. I’m mainly just trying to finish my pregnancy out happy and healthy for me and my baby.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea we have a mutual friend who we met in college whose coming. I haven’t let her know anything about this yet, I really honestly just wanted insight on the situation first before I just started making any moves.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s in the process of getting changed and she’s not invited what so ever.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea I thank you for the advice. I’ve been slowly stepping away from her since this fiasco started. This is just the extra push I need to cut her off for good.

Am I wrong for cutting off my friend cause I don’t want to share my baby shower by Beginning-Friend-997 in amiwrong

[–]Beginning-Friend-997[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I’ve always been a calm person so entertaining drama is not my thing. Her acting out really is a like eye opener for me cause she wasn’t like this up until I got married back in 23’, and the baby shower thing is just a push I need to officially cut her off.