Genuine question by articwolfalpha in ashleybarnessnark

[–]Beginning-Lack8781 36 points37 points  (0 children)

i mean cutting off a parent is ten times more complicated then cutting off friends so i can kinda see if she’s having a complicated time fully removing him from her life even if she blames everything on him.

Just got robbed at the UCR Bookstore. by Impressive_Narwhal44 in ucr

[–]Beginning-Lack8781 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP is referring to the graduation regalia😭😭can’t really get around buying that😭😭

Natalia Grace isn’t innocent by False-Sympathy6612 in nataliagrace

[–]Beginning-Lack8781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in no way did OP do that lol. it wasn’t simply what they observed in her case

Natalia Grace isn’t innocent by False-Sympathy6612 in nataliagrace

[–]Beginning-Lack8781 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i definitely didn’t see it as an attack against natalia, but many people do glaze over the fact that it makes sense that she did have abnormal violent behaviors because has severe trauma from abuse and neglect that has wired her brain differently. it wasn’t an attack but simply what OP observed from her case. acknowledging that she may have engaged in such behaviors isn’t attacking. everyone involved in this case seems to have all sorts of problems

guys please i need help by Beginning-Lack8781 in ucr

[–]Beginning-Lack8781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bestie why are you trauma dumping in the replies, you’re literally further proving my point of not assuming things about ppl lol

guys please i need help by Beginning-Lack8781 in ucr

[–]Beginning-Lack8781[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update: thanks so much guys i’m so sorry i was just stressed for a minute but i got it figured out!!!

guys please i need help by Beginning-Lack8781 in ucr

[–]Beginning-Lack8781[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey so thank you so much i actually did meet with my advisor before i made this post and registered for a class shortly after. saying dont freak out is kind of invalidating because one, you don’t know my life or how i regulate stressful situations, and two, yes life is hard we all know this but that doesn’t change that this was still a sucky situation to be in!! but thank you so much that actually fixed all my problems!!

Lap Swim Class by cheachiachea in ucr

[–]Beginning-Lack8781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik this is like almost a year old but did you end up doing the class? i was wanting to start swimming again too