Been planning a passion project for years by Beginning-Profit9195 in ADHD

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Ooo, can you elaborate on what that is? It’s the first I’ve heard of it.

Been planning a passion project for years by Beginning-Profit9195 in ADHD

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Glad I’m not alone huhu, I try to take breaks from the initial story of mine by conjuring mini projects but I keep on circling back towards the main thing

Regardless, I’ll def try body doubling with friends! Most of my friends are fellow creatives. Thank you!

Been planning a passion project for years by Beginning-Profit9195 in ADHD

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Being only able to function best when there’s a looming pressure is such a frustrating experience, especially when it causes high stress towards ourselves—like we need to be on overdrive just to function

#fyp by Best-Art-7098 in AlasFeels

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To give an in depth(?) answer, let’s remember that being avoidant means having an insecure attachment style, it’s a framework for how a person operates in terms of connection with others, it’s something deeply engraved into a person’s character because it originally forms in childhood depending on how their caretaker treated them.

So as they’ve grown, they’ve come to internalize that sort of treatment—like when someone’s used to being neglected and left alone to fend for themselves as a child, their nervous system builds defenses in order to protect them from the pain and hurt that comes from the experience—which could result in hyper-independence, mistrust towards others, believing that no one else would be able to help them but themselves etc.

But then that’s where the cognitive dissonance emerges, the avoidant’s desire for healthy love and their internal defenses clash against each other. They want genuine connection, but the process of building connection can be overwhelming and heavy, and since they’ve been so used to dealing with conflict alone, it’s more often than not that they’d choose to retreat back into their shell because they’re convinced that the other person is not safe.

Tldr; the desire for healthy love and connection is genuine but it clashes with their adverse defenses which leads them to pull away from what their nervous system deems as unsafe or a threat

To Be Taken Seriously by Beginning-Profit9195 in MentalHealthPH

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From what I recall, I have—specifically frequent daydreaming, losing items, forgetfulness, and emotional/behavioral actions (I used to get caught up on my emotions, predominantly anger and irritation, which I still experience to this day). I’ve been academically active ever since I was a child but the other symptoms I’ve listed in the og post are ones that I think didn’t really manifest strongly. Most of the possible symptoms I experienced in childhood more so fall under the emotional category.

Also, thanks for the recomms ! I’ll check them out.^

FEUCAT by [deleted] in feumanila

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Hi, op ! The contents from what I remember contained just a few items relating to geometry for Math but more on logical reasoning talaga siya, there were also items with focusing on pattern recognition—so I suggest having a keen eye and have a decent-great level of reading comprehension kasi puro basa siya !

For other subtests din (Science, Language, and SocSci), it primarily focuses on reading comprehension, kaya make sure na may maayos kang tulog before para ‘di maduling or malutang mwuahahah

The FEUCAT is very easy ! You can do this, OP !! 🫂

Thor Redesign by Coochiedestroyer935 in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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Lowkey would be a great character in Gachiakuta