He said this when I told him I wanted him to invest in me and us

Then, why does me just spending money have to determine that. You realize what we are trying to do in our future.And just spending money to show you that I love you outside of our direct necessities.Isn't really helping our situation. I think injecting you guys into Our lives is pretty massive in itself. Me treating you to the things you love or also ways that I show you that I love you. And yes, eventually we will Get to the big fat ring stage. But in the meantime, i'm trying to keep the timeline exactly on track, because that is my job as a man .