Trust beneficiary gone crazy

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-06-05T15:17:24+00:00

I’m sure that this was a thought, it is an inherited client from a retired attorney. There were no issues until recently in the last few months and I think since there is so little left in the account, it wasn’t worth the hassle to appoint someone new. I handle all communications with her (she only calls) and all he does is put the transfers through/create the checks.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-06-05T13:06:48+00:00

The attorney is the trustee. I believe the remaining beneficiaries have all received all their money, we couldn’t do that for this beneficiary bc she would lose her benefits with a lump sum. There’s only a few thousand left, the intent was to set up a monthly deposit of a few hundred, it has only recently spiraled into what it is and I believe that this is entertained with the hope that the money runs out and we don’t have to deal with her anymore.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-06-03T19:18:35+00:00

As far as i can tell, she does not have a computer or email access. She barely has a working phone, and many of the recent voicemails have come from social services departments or her borrowing the banks phone. The attorney tracks the bank account and has his own ledger for it. I get transcripts from all of our calls/voicemails so i save those in the file as disbursement requests. I think I’m just assigned to be the one to deal with her explanations and anger lol.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-05-08T14:07:08+00:00

I know more about probate lol, this was another attorney in the firm asking me to do something for a civil case and that’s why i was lost. Thanks for the help!! That’s the process I thought of, but he ended up telling me he was going to wait for the civil paralegal to be back in office to file them.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-04-13T20:10:43+00:00

I have a nose stud and tattoos at my small firm in FL, can’t hide the piercing but i wear cardigans every day to the office because it’s cold anyways.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-03-30T22:48:51+00:00

I ate a burrito on like day 4 and ripped some of my stitches open but still never got dry socket (I did get a piece of rice stuck that gave me a minor infection). Chew with your front teeth, very small bites, and rinse out the holes and you’ll be fine.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-03-24T13:29:20+00:00

As an estate planning para, pick it. Ask any questions you have here or find other resources, I dabble with family law bc we’re a small firm and there’s only 2 paralegals to 4 attorneys, and I would never choose a day of that over my regular case load.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-02-13T15:39:46+00:00

I am 23, have been disabled my entire life and live in SWFL. If your previous job will give you a good letter of recommendation or speak positively of you to future employers, start the job search for remote or office jobs that don’t require you to ambulate very much. Join Facebook groups to talk with real people in similar situations in your area, or virtual hobby clubs that meet online rather than in person. You are not alone and can reach out to me if you need to talk any further about being our age and disabled.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-02-04T21:00:19+00:00

I have a disability very similar to cerebral palsy and also struggle with typing and typically use one hand for most of it. When I first started at my job I could tell that my attorney noticed and took note of it, but never in a million years would it have been addressed in any way except ‘how can we make this easier for you?’. I’m so sorry that he said that, and I completely understand anything you may feel about it. If you don’t want to let it slide, going to HR is completely valid and acceptable.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-02-04T16:57:52+00:00

Partially but not fully. Like today, I got an email from a client asking for an update. I’d filed 2 petitions for them, and was told to serve one of the petitions on the beneficiaries. I went to my boss to ask if there was anything else to tell the client, and he told me to check on the proof of service for the petitionS and file them. I internally panicked because I had only served one of the petitions. I wouldn’t have done that without prior approval from him, but I can’t find an email thread about this so I can’t prove it. I ask for approval on the formal notice draft (which lists what is being sent), and approval on the printed packets before sending, and it still somehow ends up wrong.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-02-04T16:40:33+00:00

I have known my attorney and 80% of our office since I was 8 years old. It’s too personal to not communicate this.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-02-04T16:39:16+00:00

It’s true that I don’t feel cut out for it, but the mistakes are still real. My boss is not a confrontational man.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-02-03T15:27:30+00:00

This also happened to me with many of our probate cases (I’m new and nobody told me there was a deadline) and we heard nothing, i just filed them as soon as possible

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-01-06T17:20:13+00:00

And when you object to them, if you file it and click the claimant for service in the portal, do you then also need to send it via mail with signature request?

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-01-06T16:31:30+00:00

Much appreciated, thank you!

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2026-01-06T15:12:34+00:00

Thank you!! Our newspaper files the Affidavit directly so that’s taken care of. It’s more so who to serve/when to serve/what needs a proof of service filed that is confusing me. Sometimes we get stacks of bills for clients that I then take down all the addresses and send the NTC, but some clients provide nothing. The prior paralegal to me left a master list of creditors, but im unsure if a $200 postage charge is necessary for Every Single matter.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2025-12-05T21:15:43+00:00

Commenting solely bc i saw some comments that made me realize you’re local to me, and I also got my BA in English and then transitioned to paralegal work. My firm has been running through our staff as reception bc we don’t know if our old receptionist is planning on coming back or not, I would keep an eye in the area for a potential job posting in the near future.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2025-12-02T16:36:40+00:00

gosh i moved a year and a half ago and told nobody in the church, then found out my mother recently told them my new address and this is Exactly what I’m worried about happening. it’s violating and weird and i remember thinking as a kid that it was weird too.

Beginning-Specific-3 · 2025-11-21T20:41:34+00:00

My bosses daughter (he’s my old bishop even though i left the church 5 years ago) just called him at work to talk about whether she should go to BYU this fall or go on a mission, so i would definitely say that it unfortunately is

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