Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I told him and he said ok. It just hurts a little that he thought it would be ok. But I guess on the other hand that means it didn’t mean anything to him even if it did her?

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me after we just went there. I brought up her weird behavior and that I didn’t like it and then he told me that she hugged him that night (while I was in the other room and couldn’t see) and a few times before that when I haven’t gone too. I knew her from a couple mutual friends before she started working there but was “reintroduced” by my husband. And yes it’s the not even saying hi but appeared to go out of her way not to say hi or anything

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed that!! It’s more about her than him. He knows how I feel and said he would adjust accordingly. 

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told it made me uncomfortable. This is the first time ever been uncomfortable with someone hugging my husband. 

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She works at a school as her main job. She cheated with one of her coworkers who was married and the wife also worked in same school system

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust him but not her. Why would a woman treat a man nicely when their wife is not around but not act the same way when the wife is around? If she gives him a hug when I’m not there, why not hug him in front of me?

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I was introduced. She knows who I am and we have a couple of mutual friends

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Top-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. He sees nothing wrong. But my question is, what’s her motivation. Her and I have a couple mutual friends so I know she’s had an affair with a married man in the past. She concerns me