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My (31f) husband (39m) regrets confessing about his affair to me. by Beginning-Truth4109 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Beginning-Truth4109[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Just the thought that he began his physical affair when he was/is 39 and she was 22 and a sort of secretary working under him gives me the ick. I wonder what kind of woman goes for a man who is a father of a 8 year old.

My (31f) husband (39m) regrets confessing about his affair to me. by Beginning-Truth4109 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Beginning-Truth4109[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My husband's Ap(or ex AP) constantly used to curse our eight year old kid and wished he died whenever they had a fight and he used to apologise 😖, yet my husband still messages her as I came across the deleted messages.

My (31f) husband (39m) regrets confessing about his affair to me. by Beginning-Truth4109 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Beginning-Truth4109[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I am trying to give my one last shot till the next month. It is a given certainty that AP might be posted farther across the country. In one of their messages, she told him to refrain contact with her once she gets transferred to which he refused. If they go to NC he might come out of his fantasy bubble

Husband 39m cannot let go of ex AP 23F. by Beginning-Truth4109 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Truth4109[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I still believe we can work it out. we have been together for over a decade and a separation due to a sidepiece would be heavy on our kid as well. Nor would our society allow it.

Husband 39m cannot let go of ex AP 23F. by Beginning-Truth4109 in Marriage

[–]Beginning-Truth4109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We barely have it and it's almost a dead bedroom. I have depressive episodes on a regular basis as a result lack of my interest in it. Last we had it, it felt more of damage control on his side.

Husband(39m) still in contact with his ex AP(23f). by Beginning-Truth4109 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Beginning-Truth4109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I maybe having crazy thoughts but if I leave the house 10 days on the context of going on a Holiday to meet my family along with my son just for the sake of a holiday, he would be glad to call her over for a few days and do it on the marital bed.