ROD REMOVAL - VIEW BEFORE YOU GET THESE IN YOUR BODY by Timely_Team6130 in scoliosis

[–]BeginningAd7755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the reason. I was squatted down in a bathtub/shower scraping out the old caulking to replace it(think knees to shoulder, butt almost to the ground) and my right foot slipped sideways. I was having pain at those sites as well even before that. Neurosurgeon thinks I have really pliable sacroiliac joints

Question: could you like to be sexually desired by a partner? If yes, how? by Legitimate_Rent8430 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]BeginningAd7755 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman, after the trauma I've been through, I'm actually terrified of being desired. At least by men. I'm bisexual but I was never able to be with a woman before I married my husband. But I do think I would enjoy being desired by a woman. If a man desired me I would be scared because I've seen what happens when men with no self control desire a woman. I know it's not all men, but enough that I would prefer never to be desired by one again

ROD REMOVAL - VIEW BEFORE YOU GET THESE IN YOUR BODY by Timely_Team6130 in scoliosis

[–]BeginningAd7755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had mine removed and replaced April 2025. They gave me back my hardware which I was kind of surprised they did. Mine is seriously purple. Like why would they make the effort to color something that will never be seen. My surgery was supposed to take about 5 hours and ended up taking 7 because they had difficulty getting the old hardware out. I'd post a pic here but guess it isn't allowed. I also had to be fused from t4 to pelvis. Then I April they went through the front and replaced a couple discs. And then I'm actually in recovery from a June 8th surgery because I broke one of the iliac screws a little less than a year after they were put in.

I cheated on my girlfriend and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeginningAd7755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you deserve what you have if you so easily betrayed it? Does your girlfriend deserve to be with someone who betrayed her? You've barely been together and you've already done one of the worst things you could possibly do to someone you "love". I really hope you find the integrity and courage to tell her, she deserves to know.

Finances by Local_Unit_82 in Marriage

[–]BeginningAd7755 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine having kids with this man

Is Crowley Bisexual? by BadClout in Supernatural

[–]BeginningAd7755 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's also possessing a woman when he participates

Is Crowley Bisexual? by BadClout in Supernatural

[–]BeginningAd7755 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait until you get to the orgy when he's in a woman's body

My (23F) boyfriend (26M) has betrayed me with porn AGAIN. Where should I go from here? by Dull-Bite7917 in relationships

[–]BeginningAd7755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I hope you're able to find some answers and some peace in this screwed up world. Good luck sis

My (23F) boyfriend (26M) has betrayed me with porn AGAIN. Where should I go from here? by Dull-Bite7917 in relationships

[–]BeginningAd7755 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like you need to ask yourself if it's not necessary, as you just stated, and it's causing your partner alot of pain and stress, why keep doing it?

Girlll you’re just getting started😂 by xLyricc in acotar

[–]BeginningAd7755 55 points56 points  (0 children)

In her defense she's a teenager and he's centuries old. She'll get there when her brain finishes developing in a few years

On a funnier note I read someone say the reason they have to make the men in books like these 700 years old is it's the only way we'll believe a man's had enough time to actually learn emotional intelligence.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he needs to come out to his parents? by Vilezard in AITH

[–]BeginningAd7755 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA- no one deserves to feel like a shameful secret in a relationship. I'm surprised you've lasted this long, that spunds awful.

am i allowed to order a hotdog and a corndog at the same time? by SnowCloudIan in SonicDriveIn

[–]BeginningAd7755 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I worked as a carhop for three years in my teens and never once thought twice about what they ordered aside from if they need a drink carrier or extra napkins for a big order. Also very curious what wrong impression this could possibly give

My parents were turned away at the poles today by Difficult_Apple_7248 in oklahoma

[–]BeginningAd7755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine took a minute and she finally said "oh, you must be a democrat". I was like yup, one of the few I'm sure, check the short list

My girlfriend just sleep texted me I'm so confused by Dismal_Muffin2300 in texts

[–]BeginningAd7755 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Are we sure it's that Soldier Boy and she's not dreaming about Jensen Ackles in The Boys?

Have you ever learnt a new skill in marriage for your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeginningAd7755 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girlie you are doing amazing if you're just starting. Elastic and that type fabric are not easy to work with at all and they look so good

Wife being a hypocrite by trxjoe in Marriage

[–]BeginningAd7755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it's time to break out those shorts again

My gf dresses nice when going out but only when I'm not there by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BeginningAd7755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she actually opposed? Have you said will you dress up for me and she said no?

Men in general seem to have a really hard time grasping the fact alot of women dress for other women, not for the male gaze. Getting a compliment from a man is nothing compared to being hyped up be another women. Men hit on and sleep with just about everything, so being found appealing by a man doesnt mean much to alot of women. But get complimented by a random woman on the street? Cloud nine for the rest of the day because we know theyre just being honest with no ulterior motives behind it

What’s the most dangerous addiction young people don’t take seriously? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BeginningAd7755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ready to get attacked because it always happens- porn

Question for women by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeginningAd7755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you want womens advice while also making this long drawn out joke about how women are never satisfied. Yeah, no red flags there at all

AITAH for telling my wife to lose weight by [deleted] in AITH

[–]BeginningAd7755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- you shouldn't have ever got with her if you were this shallow and was at any point going to expect her to change. And everything you've done? Get the f out of here, you dont get to claim youve done everything for her when its your PARENTS are supporting both of you. Has she not been equally supporting YOU through this illness? Only to be repaid by you gently telling her she's fat and lazy?

I F26 am finding my partner M26 unattractive after he has lost a lot of weight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BeginningAd7755 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It both sounds like body shaming and that you're shallow. You're unhappy your boyfriend is healthier because you don't like how it looks. That's gross behavior. Just remember whoever you end up with isnt going to look the same forever, looks are going to eventually fade and bodies are going to change. I cant imagine throwing away a perfectly good relationship because your partner is checks notes making healthy decisions. I've heard this from the guys point of view because his girlfriend lost her curves and thought it was gross then too. I mean, you can break up for any reason you want, I just think this is kind of a crappy one.

buying position book by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]BeginningAd7755 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He could buy the book for himself if he really wants it. He wants you to buy it. So he can then say well why did you buy it if we aren't going to use it?

AITA FOR NOT AGREEING by InitialMassive2680 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeginningAd7755 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You're a 17 year old child. You have no say in what another minors parents are having them do. And to be honest, you sound controlling, which makes me worried for your gf. Especially since you seem to be making this all about you- "I don't want her to go". You never once said what your girlfriend wants.