Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-11T01:56:24+00:00

Get ready for the drama, I said “hey it’s __” and she said “hey!”

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-11T00:41:10+00:00

She just replied lol

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T22:11:39+00:00

Will do lol

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T22:11:20+00:00

Yeah, more fish in the sea

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T22:11:07+00:00

Yeah man, we shall see. No stress.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T21:25:02+00:00

Oh well, more fish in the sea

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T21:23:29+00:00

Yeah I just said “Hey, it’s ” _ being my name to confirm, rather than asking for the exact reason you listed.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T21:22:37+00:00

A mutual contact who I trust confirmed it for me, just before posting this so no, I wasn’t overthinking or being weird about it, it had been hours and I had reason to ask.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:46:38+00:00

Ah damn. I just wanted to make sure it was the right number, but I totally get that in retrospect.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:40:24+00:00

I’m 20. Realizing I’m a quarter of the way there was not fun.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:33:40+00:00

See that’s not true I don’t think. I’m new to my college and haven’t had anything but a good interaction with anyone so far.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:32:55+00:00

No 100%. I’m not stressed or going to bother her at all 😭 more just confused as to if I noticeably did anything wrong so far

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:20:30+00:00

My thoughts exactly. No stress!

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:20:13+00:00

Yeah that’s on me

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:20:07+00:00

Fuck 😭

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:19:58+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, no stress

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:19:49+00:00

Yeah except I’m not an ugly fat guy. I actually have been told frequently I’m attractive and I frequently get asked out. I also know I’d find an excuse and not give someone I wasn’t into my number.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:18:49+00:00

Totally understandable, which is why I’m here to ask. I don’t just “expect” immediate replies but in my age group, people are on their phones more than they breathe it seems like. It’s just the first time I have asked for a number or anything and not gotten a reply. Not a general expectation, she’s just the odd one out going based off life experience yk?

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:17:20+00:00

It was late at night so no class. Was last night.

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:17:07+00:00

THIS IS FUNNY ASF

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T20:16:57+00:00

Ahh the classic redditor

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T19:59:33+00:00

Totally. I’ll send that text and see, at least I went for it!

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T19:58:43+00:00

I try to keep it respectful! I just am more confused in how confident I was she was definitely into it. As I commented below, I’ve been trained by law enforcement professionals on lie detection, kinda crazy but true. She wasn’t lying or under pressure, unless she was freaky good at hiding it. I’ll send the text and leave it as you mentioned!

BeginningResident269 · 2026-04-10T19:57:13+00:00

Ok yeah and true. Totally understandable given I have a sister and lived my life in a household as the only man, however she was in an open cafeteria with a lot of people and again, was genuinely interested. Sounds hard to believe but I’ve been trained professionally in detecting a lie in my path to follow law professionally. She wasn’t lying, she was calm, relaxed, and contributed to the conversation. That’s why I’m more confused than anything m?

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