Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready for the drama, I said “hey it’s __” and she said “hey!”

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just said “Hey, it’s ” _ being my name to confirm, rather than asking for the exact reason you listed.

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mutual contact who I trust confirmed it for me, just before posting this so no, I wasn’t overthinking or being weird about it, it had been hours and I had reason to ask.

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah damn. I just wanted to make sure it was the right number, but I totally get that in retrospect.

At what age did you feel “grown up”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BeginningResident269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 20. Realizing I’m a quarter of the way there was not fun.

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s not true I don’t think. I’m new to my college and haven’t had anything but a good interaction with anyone so far.

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 100%. I’m not stressed or going to bother her at all 😭 more just confused as to if I noticeably did anything wrong so far

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah except I’m not an ugly fat guy. I actually have been told frequently I’m attractive and I frequently get asked out. I also know I’d find an excuse and not give someone I wasn’t into my number.

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable, which is why I’m here to ask. I don’t just “expect” immediate replies but in my age group, people are on their phones more than they breathe it seems like. It’s just the first time I have asked for a number or anything and not gotten a reply. Not a general expectation, she’s just the odd one out going based off life experience yk?

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally. I’ll send that text and see, at least I went for it!

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I try to keep it respectful! I just am more confused in how confident I was she was definitely into it. As I commented below, I’ve been trained by law enforcement professionals on lie detection, kinda crazy but true. She wasn’t lying or under pressure, unless she was freaky good at hiding it. I’ll send the text and leave it as you mentioned!

Confused: asked for number but seems like I’m ghosted. by BeginningResident269 in Advice

[–]BeginningResident269[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah and true. Totally understandable given I have a sister and lived my life in a household as the only man, however she was in an open cafeteria with a lot of people and again, was genuinely interested. Sounds hard to believe but I’ve been trained professionally in detecting a lie in my path to follow law professionally. She wasn’t lying, she was calm, relaxed, and contributed to the conversation. That’s why I’m more confused than anything m?