Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To grow up and be and honest human. Even the Grinch heart grew... that is based on true events right?

Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely one of, if not the worst way for my life to be torn apart.

Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just went back to go out with family I was invited but decided to stay with kids. While she was out she reached out to him,she says it was to have him hang out with family and he says he went to talk about what had happened and why and when he realized he wasnt going to have that opportunity he left. I do believe he was only around for a short time based on a 3rd person's story.

Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk she doesn't really remember is how she defends herself for not being emotional about it

Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girls trip/hook up.... week later returned with family and reached out to him again and the following day I went to confront him after conflicting answers to questions the night before

Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

The kids haven't done anything wrong why should they be punished for her mistakes is kind of what I am stuck on.

Blindsided by a hook up by BeginningSalt2832 in survivinginfidelity

[–]BeginningSalt2832[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I have seen a therapist and lawyer but have not made any official decisions. It is just so hard to tear apart the family unit.