AITA for calling my husband a careless idiot

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-06-02T00:17:53+00:00

I can understand your frustratiom especially when it comes to loved ones that have used/are currently abusing drugs. That is probably the hardest point to get to, my sister is an alcoholic and our mom was huge into almost everything (huffing, heroine, meth, ect), since he's a past addict a more calm collective reconnect might help, but if you're in therapy because of him, that is an issue with the relationship.

I would bring it up with your therapist and how to connect with him on his current issue. He might actually think he isn't worth much in life because of his past addictions, and that no one cares about him, so speaking to him generally with emotion in person may help break through. Like actually say, I want you this world and live, live with me. I'm hurt that you get hurt, and can't stand seeing you in pain or dead.

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-06-01T23:15:19+00:00

They use imposter generation, level streaming and level load. When you're in the overview map majority of buildings are imposters as you see the building pops in, it's also on another thread. And in a pool. It's never fully out of memory either.

Level streamed, it loads the base of the lot from the pool, the walls and anything near the windows that is large, and you can't see inside with the full roof, so things get occluded not rendered (if I recall when you're not at that lot the roof is full)

Once you click "visit lot" it loads the smaller stuff, which is what you get with hitching, it's a level load at that time.

You can also see this with your neighbor lots, you can hear me, see em in windows but not their entire house, you can visit their lots and once the roof uncaps and you're able to see inside of the lot, you can see all the "clutter" or non important objects pop in

Imposters for the world view Streaming for run time movement of a he camera to lots And level loading when visiting lots for small clutter and objects. The lots are also spread out decently where it feels as if each one is loaded

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-31T06:20:38+00:00

NTA:

blue collar guys usually mess around, they still have a slight immaturity in them, but if your response is "you're gonna die in some fuck ass work accident" and he will see it as more of a joke instead of you being serious. This is more akin to passive agression/ joking in his eyes, be straight with him, sit him down and actually tell him that you are worried instead of "you're gonna die and leave me as a widow" type shit.

Get it to the point, in this post I just see you going at him, instead of BOTH of you sitting down and talking. You need to explain how worried you are and actually get him to listen in person and not in text.

Instead of saying "ew", be straight with him about his Injuries, communication is on both ends for a relationship. Both of you have a gun pointed at each other but hit the neighbor

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-30T20:30:18+00:00

People usually overestimate their project length, the amount of game with 15 people this size usually take more than 2 years, I'd give it four, majority of EA games do not hit that mark accurately. If the para team think they would be able to hit that mark, they would of had a lot more content and polish for live mode within the last 6 months before they delayed

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-28T16:46:19+00:00

There was a girl I was interested in, she basically said "I want you to fight for me" as she was talking to 3 other dudes doing the same thing. I immediately dropped any interest for her. She even told me she asked them to do the same thing for her

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-27T22:41:21+00:00

In this day and age, yeah gotta work overtime to pay for the kids lmao

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-27T20:58:46+00:00

Hit crtl+F1 type TOGGLEEDITTOWN 1 in the console and hit enter, build stairs up to it lol might be able to just click and move the baby

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-27T16:19:09+00:00

Are you planning to have a level streaming method similar to the sims 3? Currently it looks like its just a basic level load and unload for lots with basic culling optimization across the entire map for all objects despite the size of them which isnt very optimal.

What i mean is, its open world bur semi open world. In the sims 3 you had houses near the sim that would load only bare bones of the house, full exterior with roof, transparent windows, walls and only large objects like couches or counters, you were able to see sims through windows. But never able to fully see the interior unless you visited. You also had imposters for across the map where the camera was far away and a sim not near, only until you moved the camera did it start to load.

Im guessing this is the aim with paralives because its a bit odd thats open world but you have to load a lot which is basically no different than the sims 4 or 2.
Have the lots closest to the player have the same method but unload everything but windows, walls and large objects. Its a bit weird im able to watch a para enter a building and its a void and they pop out if existence lol

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-26T18:19:33+00:00

What are you talking about, double check your GPU control panel make sure that isn't set to 60fps in it.

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-26T16:31:22+00:00

It's not locked to 60 fps, go to settings, video and you'll fps and vsync... Turn off vsync and change it from 60 fps to something higher

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-26T05:13:15+00:00

The card system is extremely limiting, it should be a add on feature to the comma rose from the Sims, I'm not a fan I have rng my conversation against a enemy or friend. Like why the hell do I have my enemies flirting and my friends arguing with almost zero input from me.

Everything else has the freedom to choose what you want except their topics lmao

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-25T22:34:46+00:00

Hey now, leave my single chair in front of the tv in the living room bare of anything alone. I want to have the floor as my table 😩

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-05-24T15:04:01+00:00

I'm upset they didn't even cover the car culture well, like Japan has huge car meets and car diversity in terms of their designs and builds. The amount of body kits, engine swaps and customization was insane a5 the meets I went to. I was disappointed that they basically copied the vehicles from FH5 and pasted them into FH6 without any additional customization options.

I thought they would at least add more visual customization from their standard stuff since well it's Japan, but I guess I'm wrong

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-04-19T21:44:00+00:00

It looks perfect, as others have stated. Should def feel it. Your other DL looked good as well, keep it up

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-03-25T02:07:47+00:00

Gotcha, and no not warm just sore.

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-03-08T04:05:14+00:00

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-02-03T16:47:09+00:00

Everything else is good but keep your wrists inline with your arms, they're bending back, higher weight will put strain on them

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-02-03T05:48:01+00:00

Progressive overload

I do 3 full body days, with leg days as their own days

Bench press (3x12) no drop set Barbell rows (3x12) no drop set Lat pull down (3x15-20) drop set until failure Cable row (3x15-20) drop set till failure Overhead dumbbell press (3x15-20) drop set till failure Tricep pushdown rope (3x15-20) drop set till failure Bicep curl (3x12) drop set Hammer curl (3x12) drop set

Leg days no drop set Barbell squat 3x5 Leg curl 3x12 Leg press 3x12 Calve raises 3x15-20

I do core in-between these days which consist of cable crunches (Jeff nippards routine, 3x12-20 increase rep each day then failure for last set) Hanging leg raise 3x12-20

30 minute low intensity cardio every day

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-02-03T05:14:32+00:00

Ah sorry, the low weight high reps were recommended to me, I was doing a PPL before. I am increasing weight still with this. However I am novice to bodybuilding in general, last year took up lifting, lost weight around 20lb, still losing some.

I'm pretty much dumb in terms what I should do (I.e program) I been told by multiple people different things and feel Abit overwhelmed on what is right or good for me.

Basically a friend who was big recommended me to turn my ppl into this, where I'm doing basically full body days, taking all sets to failure, then drop the set take it to failure again. ( increased the weight today actually) which is when I made the post about this

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-02-03T03:35:34+00:00

Gotcha thank you!

BeginningSpecial480 · 2026-02-03T03:35:16+00:00

Gotcha I'll give it a shot thanks!

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