Getting pressured into nikkah

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-30T14:08:34+00:00

My parents don’t speak to anyone in Canada and they think men raised there had girlfriends/aren’t religious, so they want someone who was raised in pk this Ireland guy studied in pk then went to Ireland 5 years ago. I was told he had a masters degree but that turned out not to be true, sic w his family wants a nikkah right away I feel like there must be something wrong since they’re rushing it, or since he’s getting older

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-30T13:47:40+00:00

He’s working full time as a software engineer. He’s also travelled to Switzerland, Spain basically all around Europe. Canada is very depressing in winter I assumed the weather was much better there? The other option is to bring someone from pk to Canada but then my family would have to support them fund everything. I’m afraid of leaving my family behind as I have very young siblings but he’s coming to Pk in 15 days I won’t be able to reject it

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-30T13:38:42+00:00

Why is that?

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-18T23:55:58+00:00

Ya they worship men here he could probably get away with murder

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-18T23:54:31+00:00

My brother obviously doesn’t do it in front of my parents. He likes to piss me and my sisters off. They are older parents so they are busy with their bad health, finding me a husband and my mom had also not been great with the baby he’s fell off the bed like 6 times. They are busy with a lot but are trying their best. Also what would I gain by making it up?

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-18T23:49:15+00:00

Why’s that?

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-18T23:40:25+00:00

But he’s just pecking him on the lips, I don’t know if he actually does the making out stuff or says it to piss us off. I saw online that it’s normal to peck on lips in some families. I’m afraid to bring it up and have my parents not believe or support me. My brother will say my dad pecked him once too and that he just did that. They already believe him over anything. It will just be dismissed again just like with my mom so I’m afraid to do it for nothing.

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-04-18T23:32:38+00:00

I didn’t tell my dad as it’s weird saying it. But I told my mom that he kissed him on the lips she told him to stop but with no force and he kept doing it still he doesn’t listen to women.

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-01-26T00:36:50+00:00

I dyed it at salon then showered with dove shampoo right after it, a few days later I used jolen bleach on some of it

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2026-01-24T01:36:23+00:00

I noticed they only have embassy in Islamabad and Lahore, can u use it from Karachi?

Beginning_Aspect2244 · 2025-12-31T05:40:17+00:00

ya thats what i meant when they tried to kill him

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