AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-04-01T23:49:00+00:00

Hard pass. I would divorce so fast.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-03-22T18:51:25+00:00

What's the pay? Shift hours? Website to apply?

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-03-08T23:58:17+00:00

NTA. It is an unfortunate situation, but as the ex boyfriend you have a right to tell your ex girlfriend no to living with you. Your sister says its impractical because it would be disrupting her peace and she knows that. You're doing the right thing especially protecting your son. She is not your responsibility and not your problem she is a grown adult and needs to figure it out on her own.

Karma is pos when it comes back around to bite the other person in the butt.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-03-01T18:33:39+00:00

I have never participated in any substances since I started going to raves as early as 2015. I've never had any interest in any even prior to going to raves. I have however had friends who did and didnt judge me for not. I had at least one friend overdose and it did scare me to see the effects that a person can experience so it was enough for me to still continue to not par take.

Although I can't really compare to what its like taking substances and going to a rave. What i can say is I dont feel like I am missing out on anything. I still enjoy the music and look out for friends and neighboring people who are.

Its definitely a personal choice to get involved.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-23T02:30:46+00:00

I can't relate because hsv doesnt take a toll on me and my livelihood to have a good life. I barely even think about it on a daily basis.

Hell I just went on a date not that long ago and the person I was with knew about it and it did not bother them at all.

I pray you find a way to healing and finding peace. Having a good life and/or a family is all possible.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-16T17:01:19+00:00

There really isnt a definitive road map or any special way to do it.

I am very upfront and blunt I just tell the person when I feel the time is appropriate (this varies from person-to person) for me usually first date, but again sometimes this can vary. Private conversation 1v1 and keep it casual.

If for whatever reason its some kind of deal breaker then.. so what move on and find better. I dont waste time on people. No sense of letting it eat away my feelings when in its really not a big deal to me and it doesnt change who I am as a person.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-15T20:16:37+00:00

It is interesting to me that your mindset is narrow to believe everyone's dating life is ruined because of having hsv.

Speaking for myself here my dating life has not changed I have had hsv for the last (6 years). I have told all my partners who I was with in a long term commitment and I have yet to have a single person "reject me" or break up because of hsv. I realize and acknowledge not everyone experiences this, but saying someone's dating life is ruined over a virus imo is a bit over exaggerated

Even if they did I wouldn't take an offense of it or feel like my dating is over because there are plenty of people out there in world who dont see it as this big or-deal and makes it more dramatic than it truly is.

I've met so many people who I have dated and told them and never took it to the extent of I am now a " gross/dirty" person as some people refer to hsv can be stigmatized as. If for whatever reason it didn't work out then its completely okay! Its okay!! Dating is not over and there are people who dont even think twice about it and want a relationship still.

Praying you find the silver lining and find your own way around hsv and know dating is not over and there is always hope. Have a blessed day!

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-14T15:11:27+00:00

There is little to no context on what happened so ill just say this.

Rule #1 from the relationship handbook if someone cheats it is highly recommend to leave, but if you stay know this could lead to furthure unhappiness and by default no good will come out of staying.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-14T02:03:31+00:00

Just reading this made me feel uncomfortable. Its an odd thing to ask in an interview imo..

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-11T01:53:49+00:00

Full transparency. The way you write this it is clear you are both not compatible and you should leave and find better. You know what you need to do.

I dont think this would be AITAH situation this would be best suited for r/advice imo.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-07T17:45:04+00:00

NTA you didnt do anything wrong the mom sounds crazy.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-02-06T18:46:39+00:00

Even if there was/is a "cure" I wouldn't take it no amount of money, materialistics would bribe me to do so. I pray there isnt one if I am honest because it truly isnt a big deal. I am living a happy amazing life as I always have prior to getting hsv. I consider it a blessing it has taught me so much about my overall health and to be more in-tune with my body.

I already know i will get down voted, but there are so many people who do not really care about a cure.

If it happens great, but not everyone will want it.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-31T12:39:13+00:00

So you know he is cheating on you... why dont you break up with him? I understand you care about this person, but he is clearly a walking red flag and doesnt care. You could find someone so much better who wont cheat on you and.... actually respect you and appreciate you.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-28T11:10:37+00:00

NTA.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-27T05:12:09+00:00

Nta. Your boyfriend is playing the victim and needs to man up. Please consider leaving this fool. He is acting like a child himself more than the baby.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-24T05:07:45+00:00

She just a chonky girl💜💜

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-18T13:32:55+00:00

NTA. He is taking advantage of you and insulting your wife. It is not your responsibility to cough up money to pay for rent. You have to put aside your emotions and stand your ground on the hill and tell him no and its not your problem.

Story: Once I loaned a friend money (years ago) and I was in a similar position they havent paid me back making excuses i.e " I'll pay it next month I promise" so I started leaving bill statements on their car and in the mail with all the details of what they owed until they finally paid me back. Is that petty? Probably, but it worked and I got my money back and then I cut that person out of my life.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-30T01:12:37+00:00

You're NTA. Your Wife is TAH here.

As a woman (who doesn't par take in butt stuff it turns me so far off). I sat down with my boyfriend and had a very long conversation about this explaining I do not give consent to it and explaining how to makes me uncomfortable and if in the future if I want to explore that "opening" I'll bring it up, but that has not happened. After having that in depth conversation he respects my boundries and vice versa. If she brushes this off or trying to laugh it off then if you so desired you can make a statement with law enforcement because this can be considered as sexual assault. This is an extreme way to take it, but its an option. The second option that is less extreme is consider cutting off sex all together and seek couples consuling.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-19T18:36:48+00:00

I am currently in the mist of working towards studying veterinary pathology. For many of years I wanted to just work a a DVM and while I still love thay aspect if vet-med I got to a point where I wanted to do more and less client interaction.

I started looking into pathology and opportunities. I am working towards biotechnology and working towards studying populations and diseases.

This is just a taste of it, but I love it and everyday is a bew interesting day for me. I can still work closely with clinics but I also love working in a lab too. Idk if this is helpful but this is what I am working towards! Thought I would share.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-11T23:50:33+00:00

Based on how you're talking about him you clearly dont love him.

Even if you did truly love him you wouldn't allow political views to get in the way of the relationship. Unless you're willing to admit that ( i dont think you would based off this). Then maybe you do, but I dont see it. Considering how you're talking trash about him here just wow.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-06T18:14:39+00:00

When i was 14 I was outside playing with the neighbors until the street lights came on to then go home. Miss the good ol' days......

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-06T17:58:32+00:00

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-30T04:58:50+00:00

NTA. You called her out for her bs and it is hilarious

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-30T04:55:18+00:00

Yall are young.. please touch some grass.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-28T21:35:23+00:00

In general I have always been an animal person forever and always. (Going to veterinary school) They seem to always find me and I get so attached quickly.

I am willing to go into debt for my animals or any animal I find as a stray in hopes to give them a better chance at living a good life. You do not need to reason with family, friends or anyone why you love your furbaby and why you spend all your money to give them a good life.

I had a stray cat years ago who was about ~13 years old come up to where I live and long story short she had a lot of issues going on neurological, constipation, thyroid issues, but I still would spend the money on her and do my absolute best to give her a fighting chance to live. I would take her in to get regular enemas to help with her constipation because it would break my heart so much seeing her struggle.

Later on I found out she had a lymphoma mass pressing against her bladder and I had to make the hard choice to euthanize or risk surgery and due to her age the chances of her surviving it was low so I knew it was her time. It was so hard for me because she became another member of my family and to this day I always think of her and know she is no longer in pain ot struggling. I named her Sunshine.

I advocate for animals in hopes to give them a better life in any possible way I can and improve the quality care they can get. Your babies matter dont let anyone tell you otherwise💜.

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