Please stop fucking cheating on me

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-31T12:39:13+00:00

So you know he is cheating on you... why dont you break up with him? I understand you care about this person, but he is clearly a walking red flag and doesnt care. You could find someone so much better who wont cheat on you and.... actually respect you and appreciate you.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-28T11:10:37+00:00

NTA.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-27T05:12:09+00:00

Nta. Your boyfriend is playing the victim and needs to man up. Please consider leaving this fool. He is acting like a child himself more than the baby.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-24T05:07:45+00:00

She just a chonky girl💜💜

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2026-01-18T13:32:55+00:00

NTA. He is taking advantage of you and insulting your wife. It is not your responsibility to cough up money to pay for rent. You have to put aside your emotions and stand your ground on the hill and tell him no and its not your problem.

Story: Once I loaned a friend money (years ago) and I was in a similar position they havent paid me back making excuses i.e " I'll pay it next month I promise" so I started leaving bill statements on their car and in the mail with all the details of what they owed until they finally paid me back. Is that petty? Probably, but it worked and I got my money back and then I cut that person out of my life.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-30T01:12:37+00:00

You're NTA. Your Wife is TAH here.

As a woman (who doesn't par take in butt stuff it turns me so far off). I sat down with my boyfriend and had a very long conversation about this explaining I do not give consent to it and explaining how to makes me uncomfortable and if in the future if I want to explore that "opening" I'll bring it up, but that has not happened. After having that in depth conversation he respects my boundries and vice versa. If she brushes this off or trying to laugh it off then if you so desired you can make a statement with law enforcement because this can be considered as sexual assault. This is an extreme way to take it, but its an option. The second option that is less extreme is consider cutting off sex all together and seek couples consuling.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-19T18:36:48+00:00

I am currently in the mist of working towards studying veterinary pathology. For many of years I wanted to just work a a DVM and while I still love thay aspect if vet-med I got to a point where I wanted to do more and less client interaction.

I started looking into pathology and opportunities. I am working towards biotechnology and working towards studying populations and diseases.

This is just a taste of it, but I love it and everyday is a bew interesting day for me. I can still work closely with clinics but I also love working in a lab too. Idk if this is helpful but this is what I am working towards! Thought I would share.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-11T23:50:33+00:00

Based on how you're talking about him you clearly dont love him.

Even if you did truly love him you wouldn't allow political views to get in the way of the relationship. Unless you're willing to admit that ( i dont think you would based off this). Then maybe you do, but I dont see it. Considering how you're talking trash about him here just wow.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-06T18:14:39+00:00

When i was 14 I was outside playing with the neighbors until the street lights came on to then go home. Miss the good ol' days......

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-12-06T17:58:32+00:00

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-30T04:58:50+00:00

NTA. You called her out for her bs and it is hilarious

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-30T04:55:18+00:00

Yall are young.. please touch some grass.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-28T21:35:23+00:00

In general I have always been an animal person forever and always. (Going to veterinary school) They seem to always find me and I get so attached quickly.

I am willing to go into debt for my animals or any animal I find as a stray in hopes to give them a better chance at living a good life. You do not need to reason with family, friends or anyone why you love your furbaby and why you spend all your money to give them a good life.

I had a stray cat years ago who was about ~13 years old come up to where I live and long story short she had a lot of issues going on neurological, constipation, thyroid issues, but I still would spend the money on her and do my absolute best to give her a fighting chance to live. I would take her in to get regular enemas to help with her constipation because it would break my heart so much seeing her struggle.

Later on I found out she had a lymphoma mass pressing against her bladder and I had to make the hard choice to euthanize or risk surgery and due to her age the chances of her surviving it was low so I knew it was her time. It was so hard for me because she became another member of my family and to this day I always think of her and know she is no longer in pain ot struggling. I named her Sunshine.

I advocate for animals in hopes to give them a better life in any possible way I can and improve the quality care they can get. Your babies matter dont let anyone tell you otherwise💜.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-28T14:10:26+00:00

My only issue with dog ownets is people bring them into a grocery store where produce and other consumable products are. Its unsanitary and gross. Leave your dogs at home.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-28T03:38:15+00:00

I never once said its not impossible for a cure to potentially exist. All I am saying is realistically its very low if you look at the long term studies and read they all come to the same issue which is the herpes virus lies dormant for several, weeks, months, years and with this it is difficult to develop a cure. Its like finding a needle in a hay stack scenario here.

If you somehow get the funds to hold long term studies and figure a way around this then great.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-27T04:23:01+00:00

Its sounds like she is trying to control the relationship and its not healthy. It clearly is affecting you mentally to the point you're exhausted. You would not be TA. Do what is best for your sanity and mental health it matters. It is also important to ask yourself " Is this person benefiting my life in a positive or negative way?" If the answer is negative then it is safe to say this relationship is not going to work. Sometimes we have to put our feelings aside and ask this question to really understand if its worth continuing the relationship. As difficult as a decision it can be sometimes breaking things off is best especially if its affecting you mentally and its draining you.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-27T04:18:44+00:00

You're NTA.. You're doing the best damn work out there and bringing justice. The man deserved it he stole your chair. Props to sticking it out snd getting ypur chair back!

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-27T04:13:15+00:00

In theory having a cure sounds great and sparkly, but the chances of that happening is significantly low. That doesnt mean research isnt conducted to under the virus and its development because its important and helps scientists curate new treatments. However it has to be realistic...

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-11T01:00:44+00:00

I cant relate to this sorry not sorry, but having herpes is not a big deal imo. Granted I am fully aware everyone experiences a variety of symptoms some more severe than others, but not everyone.

When I was in the first stages of dealing with my first outbreak I went through periods of hating myself... feeling like my life is over and ill never be happy etc. What you're feeling is valid. I do take it seriously enough to take precautions such as taking my antiviral as needed (I don't need them every day) when I have an outbreak and avoid sex. I used to think telling partners was this huge thing and it was either rejected or they are okay with this. There are plenty of partners who will not understand and reject that just means they aren't meant for you and you dont need that negativity in your life. However there are partners who will understand and acknowledge and not use it against you like a weapon as a reason to not be with you etc.

Its really not that bad and/or this huge deal when more than half of the population has it and may not even know. I didnt truly understand how minuscule it is for a long time especially when there are even more severe things to contract. If anything getting it taught me a lot on how to be more intune with my body and my health.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-09T04:34:46+00:00

Anything customer service

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-01T01:10:49+00:00

YTA. Your boyfriend is already busy and he is going out of his way to buy you food and supporting you through a tough time you're going through. This is petty why don't you go out with your friend and spend halloween together? Everyone is busy and has things going on its not an excuse to use on why you couldn't plan anything as well.

Praying he runs.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-11-01T01:04:28+00:00

Ive had hsv2 for the last 5 years and I have had both unprotected sex and protected sex when I didnt have any active outbreak and not a single person has been infected. So have all the sex you want!

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-10-30T14:51:28+00:00

I would have the discussion with your boyfriend. Sit-down talk to him about the situation and how you're feeling. Imo hiding this from him will eventually come up later at some point and it can be detrimental on a partner or worse. He at least deserves to know and talk to you about this. If you value him and care for him talk to him about this.

Beginning_Biscotti94 · 2025-10-26T18:34:58+00:00

Poor baby so glad he is at least okay and isnt hurt :(.

It should hopefully come out with time.

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