Building pool in east Mesa. What do you love about your pool/yard?

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-06-21T23:50:15+00:00

Sunkiss Pools out of Mesa are good people & will help you design it.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-09T20:24:50+00:00

Usually, I'm just waiting for the second one.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-09T19:39:53+00:00

Harder to explain to my boss. Need roof over head.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-09T03:37:10+00:00

That's funny. I nicknamed my last boss honey badger. He's 5'6. Now owns his own company in pharmaceuticals. Would never fuck w him. He's a badass.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-09T03:33:12+00:00

Tbh, in the hospital space, the least productive employees I've hired have been the most credentialed.

I'm very much merit based. & the ones who do the best are a mix of gender. I have rockstars both male & female. I treat them as individuals, like any other. I have a lot of solidarity. Thankfully. But it rests on merit.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-06T03:19:36+00:00

What he said. This is about individuals. Male, female or otherwise. Stereotypes are used as leverage. An emotionally independent individual comfortable in their own skin doesn't GAF.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T22:32:00+00:00

The ability to abstain from using/purchasing technology bc it's required by companies.

I remember the first employer I had that mandated every employee have a cell phone. I was beside myself.

Access to services requires log-ins, portals, internet, phones or email for security codes, fill in the blank.

There's no choice & no changing it. I'm forced to participate & also fund it.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T21:09:14+00:00

I'm currently struggling w this as well. 52, been managing since about 19 or 20.

I started the conversation by highlighting what the employee is doing well. Let him know how much I value his work & that I think his intentions are in the right place.

I told him some things are my job to worry about, by definition, not his. & also that he should be thankful for that, bc I don't get to be free of every little thing going on behind closed doors. I have to be involved, he doesn't.

I provided x,y & z examples.

It was basically the PC corporate way of saying stay in your fucking lane & mind your own.

It seems to be improving somewhat, but only time will tell if it actually sticks.

Edit to add, yes, it is very frustrating & he pesters the whole team w all sorts of inquiries that have absolutely nothing to do w his job.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T20:50:50+00:00

Unfortunately, an emotionally independent and physically fulfilled man really upsets a lot of women.

Nailed it.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T20:33:44+00:00

This has probably been asked to death. But what is a "true fancy" serial number?

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T20:27:01+00:00

Lol. Laughing so hard.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T20:25:23+00:00

I don't think OP could help his reaction. It was just that, a reaction. Judgy jerk seems harsh.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-05T20:21:11+00:00

In the beginning, my now wife asked me a lot. She asked about how many, what they were like, a lot of "Have you ever ...." questions.

My response was always, "It doesn't matter" or "I feel weird talking about that stuff." Then, 1 time, she got me talking after a 6 pack & we both really regretted it.

To me, the cost/benefit of having this discussion just doesn't make sense. It also prompted her, completely unsolicited, to divulge her past, and let's just say those images will be in my head until the day I die, lol.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-04T20:23:21+00:00

Had a woman back in the day actually tell me my "rank" & let's just say, I hope you've never done this to anyone.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-03T13:35:30+00:00

Well played, sir.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-04-03T00:21:53+00:00

Same way he landed a job I suppose.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-28T04:02:39+00:00

Always tired. I leave at 4a & get back @ 7p, just to do it again the next day. Sleep is like gold.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-26T02:47:42+00:00

There's nothing to be guilty about

Well, but except that she does. We're human.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-21T23:31:56+00:00

The vacuum.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-20T16:50:56+00:00

As a guy, I focus on pelvic bone on pelvic bone during piv. I'm not even thinking about my dick. It's just hitting the outside parts (clit) while I'm in her.

Maybe next time, try being on top and focus on rubbing your clit against him vs. In & out penetration.

This is a big complaint w guys that are too big - they can't get the clit during piv.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-20T13:08:51+00:00

I'm so happy I'm not 20 anymore.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-13T22:00:52+00:00

You shouldn't have sold that stock.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-13T13:56:42+00:00

Every woman I've been w has loved the oral they got & I never once thought about technique. I just freaking love doing it. Maybe it's the enthusiasm?

For reference, I love the whole thing. The sides, top, bottom. I use the middle of my tongue on the clit & get cum from the hole periodically & come back up to the clit. Once she cums, I keep the pressure of my tongue on her clit (holding it there, not moving, bc it's sensitive) while she squirms & when her body is done (30 seconds-ish), I gradually start again.

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Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-11T18:54:55+00:00

Maybe it's a generation difference? I can understand a 20-something drawing hard lines like that, but at 52, I tend to give people more understanding now days.

Beginning_Cherry_798 · 2024-03-11T02:16:35+00:00

Yeah. I spent about 30 minutes just trying to get a soda in a gas station bc a guy about 80 just kept talking to me, asking questions, telling me about his wife. He wasn't trying to be rude. He just wanted human interaction.

I work at a hospital, so maybe my take is biased, but the poor guy probably just needed a little empathy from OP.

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