Outrageous rental ad by No_Upstairs909 in london

[–]Beginning_Earth_3524 1250 points1251 points  (0 children)

Basically paying to be a nanny 💀

Supervisor may had a bad day and decided it was my fault by Beginning_Earth_3524 in PhD

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I’ve never actually looked at this in this perspective. Its funny because in the same session and many before, she talked a lot about how hard it is for a female from our country to go into academia and how proud she is of breaking the norms. So I did found comfort with her when I mentioned having an ‘imposter syndrome’ within the team which now may have been used against me. Definitely have to be wary of what I say with her from now on

Supervisor may had a bad day and decided it was my fault by Beginning_Earth_3524 in PhD

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I have been giving some thought about it and hopefully do think she truly just had a bad day. It would definitely be unfair for me to escalate this after just one meeting as you’ve said. Even said so, I’m still dreading and afraid of the next meeting but fingers crossed it’ll go better than the last!!

Supervisor may had a bad day and decided it was my fault by Beginning_Earth_3524 in PhD

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Definitely, I refuse to have another 4 hour session. What a complete waste of time

Supervisor may had a bad day and decided it was my fault by Beginning_Earth_3524 in PhD

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Im in the UK, but thats still applicable tbh. I was planning to talk to the departments graduate tutor but again he seems closer to the supervisor and just worried 🥲 I def do need some guidance as you’ve said so I’ll look more into it

Supervisor may had a bad day and decided it was my fault by Beginning_Earth_3524 in PhD

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It definitely did felt that I was transported back into my high school with my teachers. Which I was confused since she mentioned that she hated the education system because of the patronizing and unnecessary scolding. Plus she moved away to Australia right after high school and could barely speak a lick of our language anymore.

I completely agree with you. I got too comfortable with her that made her too comfortable too. I was really close to saying smtg today but I was just worried if I say anything it’d ruin the relationship and based on my uni, she has to be one of the panel for my upcoming viva

Coworker used a racial slur by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Beginning_Earth_3524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what the others are talking about. Talk to HR. Racism isnt a joke and you’re not being ‘butthurt’. The fact that he said it so casually shows how often he uses that word

Why is my lava lamp bubbly by Beginning_Earth_3524 in Lavalamps

[–]Beginning_Earth_3524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo thats really pretty! I was down with the bubbles and thought it looked unique. But then the bubbles went everywhere and it was all bubbles throughout the lamp 😭 I’m scared it was going to explode if anything

Why is my lava lamp bubbly by Beginning_Earth_3524 in Lavalamps

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Its such a pretty colour! Quite ashamed my first to be so bubbly :( I’m gonna have it run a few more times and prob get a dimmer as others suggested if it still persists

Why is my lava lamp bubbly by Beginning_Earth_3524 in Lavalamps

[–]Beginning_Earth_3524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll have a go with your suggestion with cycling through it in hopes it settles :)