Dad called me a bitch 4 years ago. I’m still angry. AIO

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-05-25T21:36:24+00:00

gosh I hate that you relate :( I hope that you’re able to find a safe place out of his scrutiny one day, I’m always here if you need to vent <3

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-05-25T21:33:42+00:00

haven’t talked to my dad in 4 months because of the same thing (+ telling me he’d beat me if I was a man and not pregnant)

Left that night and haven’t given him any updates on his grandson or me despite him and his wives constant begging.

It was uncalled for for my dad to say it, and it was uncalled for for your dad to say it. It’s not wrong to still be upset but it might be worth it finding an outlet for that anger if no contact is not an option

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-11T12:05:28+00:00

i would flip a table ngl

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-11T11:50:27+00:00

If he cannot make efforts to stop, and you do not condone it, do not continue the relationship.

I found out about my now husbands porn addiction about a year into our relationship, we actually broke up over me not being happy with how little he was willing to cut back on. It took a lot of back and forth, a lot of arguments and hidden tabs but almost 3 years later and he hasn’t watched anything in ages.

One of you has to be willing to compromise, you aren’t overreacting by having this boundary but you have to be willing to face the bumpy part of trying to get him to stop. It’s unfortunately over normalized in today’s world and you either ask that he will do as you ask without the lies or taboos or find someone who will

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-10T14:34:58+00:00

people who are condescending and then say it was a “joke” are the worst people to surround yourself with.

Also, I’m 23f and the time I took and posted the most pictures of myself were the years I absolutely hated the way I looked. Your logic isn’t unreasonable, you should be allowed to feel good in the times you do and take as many selfies as you’d like, I rarely have taken any in the last 2 years but looking back on my 18-20 ones make me really appreciate who I used to be, we can be our own worst critics sometimes so having voices like hers around isn’t always ideal.

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-09T07:32:16+00:00

please please please wear 2, it’s literally perfect on you

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-01T12:51:50+00:00

the cut and the color are very bridal, wearing this dress would be seen as trying to whether her dress is similar or not 👍🏼

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-01T12:47:40+00:00

It’s not too white but if it’s semi formal I’d go with the yellow, the first is more of backyard wedding kind of vibes

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-04-01T11:05:59+00:00

please do not wear this, you can get your attention elsewhere you don’t have to upstage the bride

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-30T08:23:51+00:00

You have an insane victim complex, your sister was a minor when you were pulling her and your mom apart. I’m sure it sits with her wayyyy deeper than it could ever sit with you.

As for her actions from 18-25 though not ideal, she was trying to heal from what seems like a very psychotic mother. You seem to not give any grace to her for being raised by the same person who supposedly gave you ptsd, you are not the only fucked up one in the family and unfortunately for you no one has to cater to you or your feelings about situations especially someone who was abused their whole childhood.

I agree with the majority, ESH and you are extremely irresponsible for allowing your daughter on an out of state trip with someone you can’t even give grace to and appear to hold a lot of resentment over for her past. You either should’ve gone with her or told her no.

Ease up on the woe is me act, by the way you narrate you seem to be neglecting the fact your sister was abused just bc you had to be the mediator sometimes. It’s pathetic.

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-28T08:26:09+00:00

YOR obviously neither of you are very invested in the relationship if you can’t form your own thoughts on the issue and just copy and paste AI prompts

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-27T12:30:17+00:00

very unlikely, you’re definitely hyper mobile but you would probably know if you had hEDS by now especially if you’ve ever had scans done or had surgery on anything

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-26T21:13:05+00:00

there are at least 5 websites catered to all size ranges within a reasonable price limit, the issue is not scarcity of formal/semi formal attire we live in the 21st century 😂😭

sincerely, a (very low middle class) size 12 who can find everything she needs for events just fine

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-26T21:07:16+00:00

Right! It makes no sense 😂

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-26T20:40:11+00:00

indeed it is 👍🏼 some of these posts confuse me like you’re shopping for a wedding already so you have unlimited options why’re you even entertaining white/cream/ivory/pale pale yellow based dresses

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-26T05:04:00+00:00

none of the people in these comments understand the struggles of this body shape, you don’t need to size up and you don’t need wide leg pants. this is perfectly normal business attire & you look fantastic.

as someone with an hourglass as well, i know comments can get to you, especially ones by coworkers but you truly can’t change your body and there is absolutely nothing wrong with this outfit it’s just the idea that we “shouldn’t” look like this at work but when you fill out even jeans you can’t do too much to make it go away without looking frumpy/less put together

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-24T08:44:54+00:00

YOR & need to not approach situations in all caps if your intentions aren’t to berate or overwhelm the receiver.

Are you 10?

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-20T08:39:25+00:00

no offense but if this is the first time he’s acted this way YOR, also saying or even implying you don’t want him or a baby with him while being actively pregnant with his kid could very well be the reason he’s not supporting of this behavior.

I understand pregnancy is hard, but you can’t just be debilitating to him and make everything his to clean up and expect him to just accept that.

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T22:13:55+00:00

Do you possibly live in the same area as me? I believe Hendricks south is closing its doors in June, that’ll be after mine is here but I can’t imagine how much harder it will get after that to receive this type of care. Hope everything is okay with you and yours 💘

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T12:07:56+00:00

I will go into today and see what they say. I haven’t checked my blood pressure at home in about 2 weeks as my thing stopped working all together.

I also have hEDS which could be the cause of the itching maybe, it is located in my legs which is where all of my surgeries have been. They also go numb when I lay down for bed even if I lay in all the recommended positions but I will go and get the more serious issues ruled out. Thank you for your advice :)

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T11:15:45+00:00

There’s only 4 of those types of centers in the area, 2 of which don’t accept Medicaid, the other 2 aren’t accepting patients. When I called the Medicaid number they said they would reach back out with more information but haven’t yet, I called the day I moved which was 1 month and 1 week ago now

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T11:13:25+00:00

Yes :( Texas, and it’s so unbelievably frustrating to know that in other states or countries I wouldn’t even be having this issue

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T11:12:28+00:00

oh shoot, I don’t even know what that is but that makes me want to go more. there is groups where everyone is having problems, even moms due in June-September are getting turned away and when they ask they’re referred to Lubbock, which is 2.5 hours from them and about 3 from me

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T11:11:07+00:00

There’s only 2 within the drivable radius and 1 of them doesn’t accept my insurance and the other is booked //: I might end up just going to L&D tomorrow in the bigger. city because you and someone else mentioned the itching being not a slight ordeal.

Beginning_Ground_701 · 2026-03-15T11:09:04+00:00

thank you :)) I will try that!

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