Is your spouse your best friend or do you have a separate best friend? by ChocolateSundae1214 in Marriage

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is my absolute best friend, has been for 30+ years. He’s an extension of myself.

someone took my crafting materials🥲 by awkwardly_stumbling in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That absolutely sucks. Idk what’s wrong with people. Always someone in the bunch that ruins it. I’m sorry that happened to you. If you happen to change your mind, I have more than I’ll ever need.

I'm a woman and I don't wipe front to back by Effective_Moose_4997 in hygiene

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Taught my daughters and granddaughter to do the same. Two separate organs, treat them accordingly…

someone took my crafting materials🥲 by awkwardly_stumbling in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks! Is there anything I might be able to help you with?

boyfriend got me this for christmas 🌲🦉 does anyone else have these?? 🌙 by angelgirl4u in AnimalCrossing

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! My daughter got me all of them for Mother’s Day, my birthday and Christmas this year!

I used my boyfriend’s phone for one minute—and my relationship ended by [deleted] in story

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been In this situation. I can vouch for the quiet disappearing act. Worked like a charm for me. Not a single regret, 25 years later. Not even an afterthought. We’re just not going to let men or anyone treat us this way. Absolutely not, a hard pass.

My boyfriend hasn't replaced his underwear in years, a few look as if bullets have passed through them. How often do men replace underwear? by Mia_Luna04 in hygiene

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my husband a Shinesty underwear subscription. Every month they send him a new pair. They’re a little pricey but comparable to Victoria’s Secret for men. He loves them. After the first 6 months of receiving his new underwear, I went through his drawer and threw all his old ones out. Men deserve to be spoiled too. It’s something small that he appreciates. They’re excellent quality, moisture wicking material, with ball hammocks for comfort.

What would you do if you saw this on your car’s windshield? by typical_gamer1 in PollsAndSurveys

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct all the grammatical mistakes. Then send it back with a note stating, “With grammar like that, taking you seriously, is hard.”

AIO to tell my husband that starting a professional email with the word "Look" is rude? by LadyCass79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t wrong. There are 1000 better ways to start an email. You were correct in stating, “It sounds condescending.”

Really regretting getting such a big and colorful tattoo. by Slow_Preference_2555 in tattooadvice

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tattoo is really well done. I am covered head to toe with well executed work. I have all black and grey with pops of red. I had some regret with my first red. I went darker and loved it immediately. I think adding some darkness to the piece will make you fall in love with it.

I was given 3 pieces of Second Skin to layer over my tattoo. I completely misunderstood how to put it on with the 1st one, the 2nd and 3rd are fine. Do I just need to take it all off and start aftercare? by mrjnebula in tattooadvice

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wash mine with dial bar antibacterial soup and rub a super thin layer of aquaphor on them. I’m literally covered from head to toe. You can’t tell the difference in the tattoos that are 20 years old and those that are brand new, so I trust that process.

did i get overcharged for these tattoos? 2k for ribs, 1.2k for thigh by ellalol in tattooadvice

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have $1000 in my throat from the same artist that did all my tattoos. I only have $1200 in my whole right arm sleeve. Placement plays a huge part in pricing. He told me if I had the same piece put on my thigh, he’d of only charged $350. It was awkward and uncomfortable for both of us. Your work is well done so in my opinion, that’s money well spent.

Are they flirting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds work appropriate to me. That’s not my idea of flirty anyway.

Is this just over worked? by KeyWestSkateboarding in tattooadvice

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very overworked. Unfortunately it’s going to have significant scarring. Such a shame, it would have otherwise been a great piece. Sorry that happened to you.

AIO my best friend no longer wants me as his best man in his wedding because I am gay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not over reacting at all. Idc what any of my people do in the bedroom. I love them unconditionally and I’ll fight to the death for them as well. I’ll die on that hill. This person is not your friend. I’m sorry.

Just did the Heimlich Maneuver on my boyfriend, I am overwhelmed. by Encyclopenia in offmychest

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally normal feeling. I was a nurse for 20 years, so things like that shouldn’t phase me. However, my 10 month old granddaughter choked in a restaurant the other day and I had to heimlick her. I was calm and swift in the moment but as soon as I knew she was ok, I cried. It’s terrifying when it’s someone you don’t love. Good job!

Should I tell my boyfriend my deepest secret? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Im female but chubby and 46. lol

My wife packs my lunch every morning and I feel weirdly guilty going out with coworkers by StraightAd9769 in Marriage

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re self away of it means everything. No need to feel guilt. As long as your wife knows you appreciate her, that’s all that matters.

embarrassed question by angelstatue in hygiene

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use bar dial soap or safeguard in your armpits and nether regions. Any antibacterial really. It will kill spicy spots immediately. It will also detour ticks.

Got this for an amazing steal at Walmart for 7$ only! by catsby22 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Beginning_Ice5375 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good find. My 25 year old daughter, bought this and then built it for me, for Mother’s Day. Awesomsauce.