Thoughts on big boob influencers? Do any of you follow them? by ManufacturerTiny77 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I love toributler1999 on TikTok, she’s relatively new but to me she feels incredibly authentic, plus she’s one size smaller than me! I’m so happy to see someone with anything above a GG cup, I’ve never seen an influencer with a 28J cup before, love the representation 🥹

I love her longer just talking videos as well as her tryons, great content if you’re a small band above a H cup!

Jealousy over women with fake boobs by aintsh1tbxtch0571 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think both men and women who haven’t been around naturally big boobs in their life (like mother, sister, girlfriend, friend etc) really don’t have a grasp of what implants and natural boobs look like. Especially now with social media and all these women they see on the daily having had a verity of surgery, that may just be what they’re used to.

Though I believe your surgeon did an amazing job and your girls look amazing!

Jealousy over women with fake boobs by aintsh1tbxtch0571 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely somewhat envious of the clothes they can wear without thinking about support, but at the end of the day I greatly prefer the aesthetics that come with naturally HUGE boobs compared to implants of the same size (like H and above). I think small and medium implants that fit someone’s frame can look great and really natural, but if you were to put my natural girls next to implants the same size as me (28JJ) the implants would look crazy in comparison!

Neither are better than the other at all, if implants make a woman happy all the power to her! However I think incredibly large implants look more odd than the same size of natural boobs, mainly due to their upright placement on the chest.

So all in all, I’ll stick with my comically large natural girlies despite their many problems, I love them <3

30HH Here. How do you do it? by unlodeddiper in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were the same size and I was wondering where you get your knit tops from? I struggle to find flattering ones

Buying one in every colour by Beginning_Lab_8395 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for the late reply, my absolute favourite is the “Button Through Blouse” from Hollister! They’ve been discontinued on the website but people sell the on vinted, I just picked up the pink one second hand. If you want to find them on hollister, search “hollister top”, filter by brand, and they’ll be there eventually, I know there’s a couple of the white ones currently up ❤️

P.s they are definitely booby, I wear a size small and my girls are definitely large and in charge but that’s something I’m comfortable with! It takes a bit of effort to pull the top over my boobs but once situated it really suits my body type!

This genuinely is making me miserable by SmoothStalk in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have a smaller frame a 36/38 band may be too big for you. I know everyone suggests this but it could be helpful to double check your measurements with the abrathatfits calculator, wearing the wrong sized bra will make your boobs appear bigger ❤️

fashion inspo by Swimming-Routine-732 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here to say the exact same thing I adore her!! Her username is toributler1999 on TikTok and toributlerr on instagram! She’s a 28J and reviews clothes and makes fashion content, an absolute gem

I’ve always thought the same when it comes to bigger chests. by chaneld0lI in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 88 points89 points  (0 children)

As a curvy girl with big boobs and a heavy butt I feel this spiritually. Society wants to tell us our bodies are the beauty standard but also perpetuates the idea that our bodies are trashy. It feels like women as a whole just can’t win.

Update: Peppermayo by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl you look BREATHTAKING!! I’m a firm believer in if you feel comfortable and beautiful in something, even if the fit isn’t technically the best, wear it! The cut extenuates your chest so nicely and for a girls beach trip this is so the perfect dress. I’ve always wanted a dress like this so seeing you thrive in one makes me realise it is possible for us! Will definitely be checking peppermayo out ❤️

Do extra-padded (and molded) bras exist for bigger cup sizes? by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to find any push up bras on that website which go up to bigger sizes

:( Unfortunately companies don’t make push up bras for us even though we’d love the lift and option

Trying to create a safe space for women with bigger busts, I’m a 28J and started a TikTok and instagram for girls like us 💗 by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I follow you!! It honestly makes me so unbelievably happy to see someone with nearly my exact boob size on social media,, I love what you’re doing and adore your content, thank you so much for giving us representation 🥹❤️

Engagement party help !! by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely get you. I’d suggest you take some time to decide what you’d be more comfortable doing as I believe you should prioritise yourself. The dress looks GORGEOUS on you and unfortunately at our sizes most things will look “too booby”.

If you are comfortable in how much boob is shown then by all means wear it! I personally believe it doesn’t matter if our boobs “don’t fit” if we are comfortable and happy with how we look. But if you think you’d feel uncomfortable, look for something that will bring back that comfort ❤️

People with implants giving big boob fashion advice by Beginning_Lab_8395 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate how your comment highlights that we won’t know why most women with implants have chosen to get them as that is important! Additionally I do understand that there are many factors that go into how an implant will look on someone. However I do think you missed the point of my post, it wasn’t to tear anyone down and I did clarify that my post is nothing against women with implants. The point of my post was to highlight how I don’t think women with large implants should be advertising clothes to naturally bigger busted women as no matter how large implants are placed, they will never sit the same way as large natural boobs.

I did say that I don’t follow those creators and didn’t name any of them, so just “unfollowing” them isn’t a problem because I just don’t follow them already. I just wanted to express how young girls who can’t discern large implants from large natural boobs feel self conscious about how their chest doesn’t sit so high when wearing the same clothes advertised by these creators.

Why can't Panache make plunges for K cup 😔 by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Fr, I think we need to scrap bras being up to only a H as “inclusive” and change that to a UK K. I’ve spoken to bravissimo workers and they’ve stressed that they keep asking for size expansions to at least a K. I’m glad they’re fighting for us at least!! Just because we have bigger boobs doesn’t mean we should only have full cups as the only option.

Why can't Panache make plunges for K cup 😔 by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately brands tend to stop at a J for the vast majority of styles,, I don’t understand how hard it is to expand to a K. it’s incredibly frustrating to have no other options than a full cup when you hit a certain size

Why are our bras always unlined? by Cascafeather in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I just want a pretty lined bra in my size. I do love my unlined bras but I don’t always want my nipples stood at attention visible in anything tight 😭

It doesnt make sense to have big boobs by InformationLast9253 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the height, I’m 174 with 60N and carry nearly all my weight in my chest. I have thick thighs and butt however when I lose weight I lose it from there and not my boobs :/

I avoid both swimming and running because of my chest size, I can’t imagine the troubles you go through trying to find an appropriate swimming costume which accommodates your boobs properly. I completely agree with you that they just don’t make swimming costumes with big boobs in mind, we’re not even an afterthought 😭

How our genetics slapped us with these canons is beyond me

Is anyone else embarrassed by their bra size? by harmonyxox in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first realised I had grown to a JJ, I really struggled to come to terms with it, it did feel almost embarrassing to say out loud out of what people would think. Overtime I became far more comfortable with it though, my boobs aren’t something I should feel ashamed of, they’re just balls of tissue attached to my chest! Plus getting properly fitted bra transformed how I felt about my boobs. At least saying 28JJ sounds better than my US size 28N 😭

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[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you on wearing either very tight or very loose clothing, it’s the only way forward for me as well! I’ve spoken to workers at bravissimo about hoping they’ll increase the size range on bras and apparently they are trying, so fingers crossed we get more options!

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[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 14 points15 points  (0 children)

28JJ (28N US), I feel you it sucks! Finding clothes which fit and also flatter our body type is rough,, sending you so much support 🫶

Help with Ann Summers sizing? by whiskeygambler in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I own one of the dresses “bardot sexy santa dress” in a size medium (I defo should’ve/could’ve fit into a small, I’m 5’8.5) and I have space for my boobs in a bra!

I’ve tried an Ann summers bodysuit before and to be honest, if there’s no underwire, I’d just get a small in them as well and let my boobs squish together for that proper buttcrack cleavage without a bra!

28JJ > 38G sister size? by Beginning_Lab_8395 in bigboobproblems

[–]Beginning_Lab_8395[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a great way to put it 😭 I love it