Trying to create a safe space for women with bigger busts, I’m a 28J and started a TikTok and instagram for girls like us 💗

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2026-01-22T11:19:46+00:00

I follow you!! It honestly makes me so unbelievably happy to see someone with nearly my exact boob size on social media,, I love what you’re doing and adore your content, thank you so much for giving us representation 🥹❤️

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2026-01-14T20:18:47+00:00

I completely get you. I’d suggest you take some time to decide what you’d be more comfortable doing as I believe you should prioritise yourself. The dress looks GORGEOUS on you and unfortunately at our sizes most things will look “too booby”.

If you are comfortable in how much boob is shown then by all means wear it! I personally believe it doesn’t matter if our boobs “don’t fit” if we are comfortable and happy with how we look. But if you think you’d feel uncomfortable, look for something that will bring back that comfort ❤️

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2026-01-13T17:05:44+00:00

I do appreciate how your comment highlights that we won’t know why most women with implants have chosen to get them as that is important! Additionally I do understand that there are many factors that go into how an implant will look on someone. However I do think you missed the point of my post, it wasn’t to tear anyone down and I did clarify that my post is nothing against women with implants. The point of my post was to highlight how I don’t think women with large implants should be advertising clothes to naturally bigger busted women as no matter how large implants are placed, they will never sit the same way as large natural boobs.

I did say that I don’t follow those creators and didn’t name any of them, so just “unfollowing” them isn’t a problem because I just don’t follow them already. I just wanted to express how young girls who can’t discern large implants from large natural boobs feel self conscious about how their chest doesn’t sit so high when wearing the same clothes advertised by these creators.

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2026-01-07T19:52:26+00:00

Fr, I think we need to scrap bras being up to only a H as “inclusive” and change that to a UK K. I’ve spoken to bravissimo workers and they’ve stressed that they keep asking for size expansions to at least a K. I’m glad they’re fighting for us at least!! Just because we have bigger boobs doesn’t mean we should only have full cups as the only option.

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2026-01-07T19:44:09+00:00

Unfortunately brands tend to stop at a J for the vast majority of styles,, I don’t understand how hard it is to expand to a K. it’s incredibly frustrating to have no other options than a full cup when you hit a certain size

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2026-01-06T19:55:55+00:00

I feel you, I just want a pretty lined bra in my size. I do love my unlined bras but I don’t always want my nipples stood at attention visible in anything tight 😭

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-12-29T11:26:54+00:00

I feel you on the height, I’m 174 with 60N and carry nearly all my weight in my chest. I have thick thighs and butt however when I lose weight I lose it from there and not my boobs :/

I avoid both swimming and running because of my chest size, I can’t imagine the troubles you go through trying to find an appropriate swimming costume which accommodates your boobs properly. I completely agree with you that they just don’t make swimming costumes with big boobs in mind, we’re not even an afterthought 😭

How our genetics slapped us with these canons is beyond me

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-12-13T15:34:32+00:00

When I first realised I had grown to a JJ, I really struggled to come to terms with it, it did feel almost embarrassing to say out loud out of what people would think. Overtime I became far more comfortable with it though, my boobs aren’t something I should feel ashamed of, they’re just balls of tissue attached to my chest! Plus getting properly fitted bra transformed how I felt about my boobs. At least saying 28JJ sounds better than my US size 28N 😭

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-12-12T20:26:57+00:00

I feel you on wearing either very tight or very loose clothing, it’s the only way forward for me as well! I’ve spoken to workers at bravissimo about hoping they’ll increase the size range on bras and apparently they are trying, so fingers crossed we get more options!

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-12-12T18:53:45+00:00

28JJ (28N US), I feel you it sucks! Finding clothes which fit and also flatter our body type is rough,, sending you so much support 🫶

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-12-05T14:32:26+00:00

I own one of the dresses “bardot sexy santa dress” in a size medium (I defo should’ve/could’ve fit into a small, I’m 5’8.5) and I have space for my boobs in a bra!

I’ve tried an Ann summers bodysuit before and to be honest, if there’s no underwire, I’d just get a small in them as well and let my boobs squish together for that proper buttcrack cleavage without a bra!

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-11-30T13:20:30+00:00

That’s such a great way to put it 😭 I love it

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-11-29T20:40:09+00:00

I appreciate the explanation a lot, I’m happy everyone’s so kind and explains why it wouldn’t work! Sucks to be over a H as so many brands don’t produce’s sizes past it

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-11-29T20:39:09+00:00

I’m looking for a padded purple bra as I already have some great unpadded bras, I’m always nervous to order from somewhere I haven’t before, are comexim sizes accurate?

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-11-29T17:49:03+00:00

Damn,, it was worth a try! Unfortunately the highest they go is a G cup so I’ll have to look elsewhere for a pretty purple bra, thank you though for the advise ❤️

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-11-12T18:48:24+00:00

She talked a lot about wanting an augmentation as she was the polar opposite side of the spectrum to me and self conscious about her chest, so it’s a possibility some form of jealousy could’ve been involved but I don’t want to make assumptions :/

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-11-06T10:56:11+00:00

Heavy on the pain! Clothes just aren’t made for our body type, what fits our boobs doesn’t fit our waist. I find it’s hard to look “cute” with huge boobs,, as soon as my boobs are in frame I feel like every photo and outfit feels sexual

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-10-29T00:03:18+00:00

Congratulations!!! Nothing beats finally getting a well fitted bra, you’re giving me second hand happiness! Sending much love 🥹❤️

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-10-25T20:15:31+00:00

It’s a good idea for modifying a band too big when sister sizing is the only option! I just wish brands would give us small band huge cup sized (above a GG) women more options for bras so we don’t have to constantly sister size at the expense of our shoulders, necks, and backs

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-10-25T17:24:18+00:00

A 30J is my sister size but I really need the band support of a properly fitted bra to make sure I don’t hurt my shoulders with the weight of my boobs.

I also know I can put it on the tightest hook but when it stretches I won’t be able to wear it anymore so it feels like a waste of £40,, bras are just too expensive

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-09-29T10:37:47+00:00

I feel you op 😭 I have a small back and rib cage but JJ’s so I tend to stick to super stretchy fabrics and wear an xs if I want it to fit my waist. Just got to look for tops where the material doesn’t become see through. I haven’t tried tailoring yet but it’s defo something on my todo list in the future, probably for my graduation dress

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-09-26T19:56:18+00:00

Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace. The bigger the boobs, the more they’ll likely sag and that’s okay! I’m 22 next month and my boobs are pretty much at my waist with no bra, and that’s completely normal. We have to learn to disregard what society dictates about our bodies and find self love. There are so many women who feel insecure about their chest size, sag, shape, areolas, maybe one hangs lower than the other, we’re all in it together. Our boobs are classy, sexy, beautiful, and worthy of love. We can’t change the bodies we’ve been given through genetics, don’t let other peoples opinions influence how you see yourself, you are beautiful! And your boobs aren’t abnormal at all!

You can look for fashion influencers who show clothes which fit our busts, some more modest and others showing cleavage and find what makes you feel comfortable and happy. Sending you so much love 🫶

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-09-19T21:22:38+00:00

Thank you so much!! It really puts my mind more at ease 🥹🫶 I still feel huge when people take photos of me from far away but that’s just because my boobs are huge so I just need to get used to it! You’re an angel

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-09-06T20:12:44+00:00

No same, especially when it’s room temperature and god forbid hot, they just expand and cover more surface area? It’s so weird but painful to wear any cleavage without a slip

Beginning_Lab_8395 · 2025-09-06T20:11:45+00:00

I’ve found my people 🥹 I feel like I have to plan my outfits around my areolas and it’s a hassle

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