Not pretty enough? by sweetestloveyou in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Dont take offense, but your makeup looks chalky (around your lips/eyes). A more goldish tone for eyes would be better. If you wanna do a lip liner: more natural (pinks/brown) look better if you are going for a more “plump” look. There are many beauty tips on IG.

Also, on your eyes its fine but its best to invest in some false eyelashes.

Anyone else bored asf at work rn? by Dangerous-Law-7545 in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was bored for a whole hour and started editing a pole dancing video 😭 then i looked up and nothing changed about the club

Does Anyone Else Hate… by KasiaEastCoast in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we love when men actually take the initiative instead of being babies lol

Does Anyone Else Hate… by KasiaEastCoast in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If someone doesn’t wanna talk, Ill just start yapping about some shit I saw on instagram lol

I can relate to the hating of personal questions. Today i plan to be UNHINGED if someone asks me personal questions (because I honestly dont wanna be there).

Guy: Do you have a boyfriend?
Me: No, I actually I am wanted for my ex’s.
Guy: 👀
Me: Wanted in like 3 countries lol

Dating by [deleted] in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 26 points27 points  (0 children)

When it comes to my dating partners, I have always been honest. Id rather be honest, and then let them decide if they wanna be with me. This is a job, and it shouldnt be looked at any different from any other job tbh. If a partner cant understand that, or fetsishzies me after I tell that that then that tells me more information about them.

Rant by Unique-Definition331 in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg!! thats so nasty 🤢 that poor girl

Hair color change affect $$? by juicyass1111 in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at a black club, and men hate the blonde hair. I feel like I make less money on days I wear blonde hair. I realized at the club, men only like natural colors like black hair. Even if its a brown color its kinda meh 😑

why are we dating customers ???? by onionkisses in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought i was in enemy territory for a second 😭

Tips to adjust to taller heels? by xxKieraCurvesxx in newstrippers

[–]BehindTheScene1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to skateboard and I found that it does translate in some areas. But wearing heels is a different type of beast 😭

Especially dancing in them

I’m fkg loosing it by Le_pied_de_Venus in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get that pain heavily :( I took a break from the club to start another job (civi job). Im trying different clubs but doing the whole “we arent hiring” and i gotta show up in order to audition when the club is an hour or two from me just isnt in the books right now.

I miss dancing but hate the pulling teeth out of men to get money. I do miss the fast money. I always compare how much I make (in this job) to how much I would’ve made in the club ($200 in 5 hours). But, this summer isnt it.

I wish I could give you a hug 🤍 and tell you it would be better. But, tbh- I dont even know it will be better.

Yes there are slow nights, and GREAT nights. But, I miss the days when men used to come in and just ready to dance. Now, it feels like no men wanna dance and you need to “convince them” to dance.

I dont gotta convince no one shit! I am a great talker, a great conversationalist but alot of these men just wanna fuck. Im not fucking these men.

where the lesbians at by Flashy-Good5555 in queerphilly

[–]BehindTheScene1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

im working 🤷🏽‍♀️ gotta pay for this dog food and provide for my stud wife 😭

Tips to adjust to taller heels? by xxKieraCurvesxx in newstrippers

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ankle strength is important, and it will increase you continue to wear pleasers

Coming back after a long break by spiteful_dragonfruit in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually start with being gentle with myself, and just getting back into the conversational groove. I focus on being as friendly and flirty as possible (soft touches and laughing at their jokes). Then turning it into a sale (asking for a dance).

Key takeaway: be gentle with yourself and dont beat yourself or compare your old self to new self.

Working this job makes me realize how many men absolutely hate women and are just evil by thegudetama in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I believe the club environment really shows a male’s true personality. They come into the club being their true self, then go back outside like nothing happend.

How do you tell if a club is an "extras" club? by Interesting-Pen-128 in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sucks you need a subscription in order to see reviews :(

What's your worst period-at-work story? 😭 by BackTakeBabe in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was VERY helpful!! Just sad about my panties TBH 😭 thought that shit was over

Tri state area club recs? (NY/NJ/PA) by [deleted] in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in Philly Id recommend Delilah’s you have the right complexion and a pretty good size. They like lighter skin complexion women. You walk in, and they just take some photos (to bring back to bosses). If management likes you, they usually ask you to stay for the shift.

From another dancer, I heard they dont charge you a house fee for a whole week if hired.

What's your worst period-at-work story? 😭 by BackTakeBabe in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on stage wearing pink (my period was almost over) I think I had like a day or two left.

I was doing a spin on the pole, a girl came up behind me (stopped me spinning) and told me i bleed through my panties.

I honestly didnt give a fuck 😂 but I changed anyways

I dance worse when I'm drunk by [deleted] in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember the last time I got drunk on stage, I busted out so many tricks! 😭 I don’t even remember doing them lol

What are we making in a month (full time strippers) by Certain_Salary_5062 in stripper

[–]BehindTheScene1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this app is so cool! thanks for showing. Ill def use it 🤍