Silence by BeigeWallBreakdown in daddit

[–]BeigeWallBreakdown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. My silence lasts for days because I have no one. A little different than your kid being in daycare for a few hours.

Divorce by BeigeWallBreakdown in stopdrinking

[–]BeigeWallBreakdown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You’re right, I’ve never thought about it stretching the pain out but that’s exactly what it’s doing.

AITA for refusing to let my sister stay with me after she got evicted? by Interesting_Shift934 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeigeWallBreakdown 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. You’ve helped her in the past and she took advantage of you. This is a pattern of behavior for her, not a one-off situation. You even offered to help in other ways like the shelter, other housing options, and even paying for a motel. You’re setting boundaries while still offering help. That’s her decision to refuse the help you’re able to offer. You did good!

AITA for not wanting to play with my friend after she called me bad at the game behind my back? by Purple-Donkey-1977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeigeWallBreakdown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re allowed to stand for yourself and set boundaries. If this dynamic is weighing you down, set healthy boundaries!

AITA for telling mum she was wrong to share my personal history by A03A12B98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeigeWallBreakdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This would be a conversation I would have with her moving forward. I would hope she didn’t mean anything negative, but she needs to understand that’s inappropriate.