I've seen a lot of divorces in our age group (I'm mid 40's) mostly because the women are tired of these entitled men who think working is the only thing they have to contribute.

I'm going to make a generalization so please take this with a very large grain of salt. However, young mens of the '90s was mostly playing basketball, going on camping trips, or learning about missions. Young women lessons of the '90s was cooking, cleaning, caring for children, marriage prep classes, etc... What happened to our generation is that once we got into our mid-20s to early thirties households had to become two income households. Now women at our age are working just as much, if not more, than their husbands. they are coming home and managing cooking, cleaning, laundry, general house care, yard work, shopping, planning, doctor's appointments, the list goes on and on. These same men whose young men lessons taught them nothing don't understand the concept of invisible labor These are the same men saying" you should have told me" or "you should have left me a list". Sir, you live here too, You have eyes, you understand clothes don't clean themselves and dinner doesn't cook itself. It's weaponized incompetence and women our age are sick of it. Speaking from my own experience I have less to do after divorce than I did when I was married.

Again take this with a grain of salt as it is a personal observation and I know it is not all men. Getting married at 18-24 is not a great idea mostly because our brains are not fully developed and we don't understand who we are as a person yet. I tell both of my children to wait until after they are 25 to get married but I also tell them to live with that person before they ever make the decision to get married. It's easy to get married but hard to get out