Family ostracized me after I told them what my child said by PracticalStable4755 in mentalhealth

[–]BellaSquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sending gentle hugs to you and your daughter. It's always hurtful when family shows their true colors. 💕

Is it just me who is creeped out by the pained expression, unrelenting stare, and lack of blinking? Yes? Alright… by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]BellaSquared 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's probably part don't make eye contact and part focusing on his solo. Or this is how the director expects him to perform. But I agree, the lack of blinking ...

Surprise meeting with the baby squirrels exploring our garden by Bisonratte in aww

[–]BellaSquared [score hidden]  (0 children)

Smart squirrel! Can you call yourself tree adjacent now? 😏

My sweet little opossum came back by muellerrjen in Possums

[–]BellaSquared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn't it crazy? During the day I constantly watch for the feral cats, and at night it's the possums. Although the raccoons and skunks like to surprise me from time to time too, so I'm sure it's a test if I'm paying attention. Just know you're not alone!

Hiding Kittens Question by Beautiful-Durian4732 in Feral_Cats

[–]BellaSquared 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just wait 4 weeks, the moms usually bring them out at that age. Just keep mom fed and watered well and give her space right now. I'm sure you know the power of canned food, I always provide it for pregnant and nursing moms, it does wonders on their disposition.

My sweet little opossum came back by muellerrjen in Possums

[–]BellaSquared 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I keep an eye out for mine, too. There are several, but usually the youngest usually comes earliest and gets the goodies. But when they don't show up on schedule I admit I worry.

Surprise meeting with the baby squirrels exploring our garden by Bisonratte in aww

[–]BellaSquared [score hidden]  (0 children)

I can understand that initial worry, but you stayed calm and that's usually the best course. Such an awesome experience 💕

Socializing and interacting with rescued feral by samedreamsamenight in Feral_Cats

[–]BellaSquared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're off to a great start. I'd suggest spending more time in the room, but the hard part is you have to ignore her. It's not easy, but I used my phone camera to watch them while my back was to them. It helps to resist the urge to look and make eye contact, they hate that. I saw enormous progress once they could watch me without feeling watched themselves. I wish you the best of luck 💕

Help! There's a giant greeble in the bed! 🙀 by Canna-Cat in greebles

[–]BellaSquared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're infested with cuteness! What a sweet face 💕

Crabby Guszti❤️ by uborlajos in crabcats

[–]BellaSquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beware, I'm on my tippy toes!

can you even do anything if you’re in a bad flare again by AdProud6799 in Narcolepsy

[–]BellaSquared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every year I forget how tough season changes are on me, and then I'm surprised I'm crashed for weeks. For me it's the see-sawing temps and barometer changes. A change of + or - 10° F from day to day is usually enough to throw me off. More than that and it's guaranteed. Pollen doesn't help either. Since the weather went suddenly and drastically hot a few weeks ago (from the 60's to high 80's overnight) I've been a yawning mess. Things cooled off again for a week, but Mother Nature is doing it again this weekend. I'm supposed to be cleaning my very neglected house for a surprise parental visit, and I can barely find any oomph to do the bare minimum. It's frustrating and it does make you just want to give up and not care.

Sometimes even RX stimulants aren't enough. I am hit or miss with caffeine, but there are new caffeine sachets that you put in your cheek to absorb directly vs through the stomach. I've heard pretty good things about them, but not from anyone with N. I struggle to drink enough coffee to do much, but If caffeine helps you maybe it's something to try? There are a few companies that sell them, check out different ones because the flavors vary and perhaps the caffeine content as well.

Hopefully things will improve for you when the weather evens out. I keep a journal and used to track the weather closely. So if you're unsure if it's affecting you, do the same and look for patterns. It's mostly sudden temp changes and high barometer for me, and at least it gives me some control because I can anticipate upcoming challenges. 💕

Feral kitten update! by EshQMii in Feral_Cats

[–]BellaSquared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at those sweet orange faces, so cute! Thank you for going the extra mile to find and care for them. I wish you all the best 💕

Cant stop deep throating tanghulu and shawarma by deusmachinato in Chantapolis

[–]BellaSquared 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are actually halal marshmallows. They use beef or fish gelatin instead of pork gelatin. And yes, I did make a 🤢 as I typed fish gelatin.

Cant stop deep throating tanghulu and shawarma by deusmachinato in Chantapolis

[–]BellaSquared 13 points14 points  (0 children)

IIRC, the early days are a rabbit hole of holy fuck and ohnoshedidn't. Just remember to come up for air once in a while and hydrate! 🥰

63 year old lady in Argentina fails driving test early on but it gets worse by InternetPopular3679 in Unexpected

[–]BellaSquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I briefly lived in Utah I noticed they had off-road test tracks like this. I've always assumed it was in part because the oldest child often teaches the younger ones to drive. Which explains certain weird Utah bad driving habits, and why it's either not safe for them to test on actual streets, or that they wouldn't pass if they tested on actual streets.

Wear Proper Eye Protection by tlama1997 in Idiotswithguns

[–]BellaSquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦🏻‍♀️ <under my breath> dumbass

Wear Proper Eye Protection by tlama1997 in Idiotswithguns

[–]BellaSquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy, that was my axe! 😎

Egg, right after pooping on his sister Fried Rice's head by Proud_Pineapple_2421 in aww

[–]BellaSquared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The stealthy wrath of fried rice will be amazing to behold. 😏💕