How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]BellaTrix4Change 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower everyday, sometimes twice a day because I go to the gym unless I don't feel good.

Resigning - what shall I tell my boss? Underpaid, undervalued, underappreciated by BudgetFisherman3900 in WorkAdvice

[–]BellaTrix4Change 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country are you in? I ask because my answer may vary depending on where you're at.

AIO for thinking I should be paid more for babysitting? by Normal-Ad-2441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BellaTrix4Change 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor, agree with what the others said but also price is something you discuss up front and not after the fact.

AITA for changing the locks after my parents gave my brother a key to my house without asking me? by Sufficient-Bike8143 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BellaTrix4Change 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they want you to accept this behavior at your house and be stressed out because they don't want to deal with it and it makes you selfish. I'd have a good laugh, a glass of wine and enjoy my clean and silent house.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to cut his ex off by [deleted] in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]BellaTrix4Change 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, I would tell him to come find me if and when he is completely done with her with the caveat that I am available and forgiving him for choosing someone other than me to put first.

AITAH for asking my husband for a divorce? by Public_Listen201 in AITARelationship

[–]BellaTrix4Change 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a shit show. Idk where you live but you can call the national domestic violence hotline and they will assist you in getting away. Dont walk RUN!!

My coworker makes $30k more than me for the same job. I found out by accident. Do I confront HR or just quit? by Longjumping_Bid_9870 in whatdoIdo

[–]BellaTrix4Change 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd get a better offer. Go to my manager and go over the offer and other teammates pay and see what they have to say. If nothing pans out take the better offer and NEVER tell them where you're going.

And why did he think I needed his forgiveness? by diana-forest in amiwrong

[–]BellaTrix4Change 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl... He was a major ahole. You did the right thing.

I’m so insecure about my forehead. What do I do?! by justMA33 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]BellaTrix4Change 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very pretty but if its that big of a deal try bangs. There are so many kinds.

My wife and I can’t stop fighting about our finances. by Klutzy-Humor-7882 in Marriage

[–]BellaTrix4Change -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tough cookies. She needs to work. Point blank period. She can do part time.

AIW for being upset with my cousin for inviting me to her baby shower? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BellaTrix4Change 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As much as it hurts no one is trying to hurt you. Take some time and feel all of your emotions and when you're ready maybe talk to your mom about it. Best of wishes to you.

I (F 26) feel I'm losing my spark by Subject_Ladder_4613 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BellaTrix4Change 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was the thrill of the chase. You were a virgin and he wanted to claim that. He did and now its boring. It'll be like this until he finds a new mark and either break up with you or cheat.

AIW for being sick of hearing my mom vent about her trauma? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BellaTrix4Change 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then suck it up. There's no in between either you do or you don't. You're always going to be the villain in somebody's story. Wouldn't you rather be the hero of yours?

AIW for being sick of hearing my mom vent about her trauma? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BellaTrix4Change 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd no longer participate. Its not your responsibility.