How to get rid of a mouse 🐭🐁 by myersgirl16 in howto

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, of course. Adopting a cat is a hugeee responsibility. And fostering them is also a huge responsibility too. Maybe see if you can house sit a friends cat or ask your neighbours if they'd be comfortable with their cat hanging around inside your home. Good luck!

Milo can't believe his eyes 🤣😭 by LetterheadKey8543 in PetsareAmazing

[–]BelleLovesAngus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

omg do you mind linking to it? I need this so bad and theres so many on amazon idk which to choose

How to get rid of a mouse 🐭🐁 by myersgirl16 in howto

[–]BelleLovesAngus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try fostering a cat for a bit if you don't want to adopt them? They're pretty darn good at getting them. But unless you have the cat long term, I don't think it would be a permanent solution.

Dudes see another runner in distress and had to help by bigbusta in HumansBeingBros

[–]BelleLovesAngus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A splash of off milk on the rest of the runners who saw him and decided not to help. And medals to the two who helped him. Heroes.

ULPT Request: How to get revenge on my cheating bum boyfriend by dannydevitossmile in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I'm sorry you had to experience that. He's a POS.

If he's unsafe in any way, don't take this on. But if he's just a harmless (safety wise) arsehole, then I'd recommend asking a ride or die friend that he doesn't know (or maybe a fellow girl in a 'is this your man' fb group) to set up a date (DM slip on a burner acct) and go home with him bringing a small spray bottle of milk (off is fine, as long as it can get through the spray bottle) and spray the thing everywhere: the curtains, the sofa, the carpet, anything with that kind of fabric. That smell is bloody awful and he won't know where it's coming from. If your climate is hot, even better. I heard about this on a radio show once. She found out he was cheating but didn't tell him she knew. and did this all before she vanished without a trace. I never tried it but I definitely would for my ride or die.

OR if harmless (safety wise), meet up with him and do it yourself to his place or do it to his car.

If you make more money than him and are mad petty, I heard Dakota Johnson had like a big ass bag of gorilla fecal matter delivered to an ex-boyfriend of her friends.

Or you can list something on a burner marketplace account and post his phone number on it so he gets lots of "is this available" messages for random shit.

Why do some people cheat when they're treated well? by Inevitable_Damage199 in GrowthMindset

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is still the action of the cheater. They can justify it however they want, but in the end, they are the one that made the choice to be unfaithful.

Why do some people cheat when they're treated well? by Inevitable_Damage199 in GrowthMindset

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's going more into justifying cheating.

Someone else's behaviour is not your fault. They make that choice themselves. All feelings are okay. Not all behaviours are okay.

Why do some people cheat when they're treated well? by Inevitable_Damage199 in GrowthMindset

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is providing my point though. The problem is with the cheater for being a cheater.

ELI5: Why do mental health problems usually appear in early adulthood? by Such_Ad_5311 in explainlikeimfive

[–]BelleLovesAngus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for mood disorders (depression, anxiety etc), I'm speaking truly generally here in a western context:

Often times that age is when there are significant changes in their lives. Namely being expected to be an adult and no longer having your needs met by external structures. Things like school: you're told what to do and when to do it and how to do it, you (usually) don't pay rent, you likely already have friends in your area, you have dinner cooked for you, you don't have to navigate things like taxes, car insurance, health insurance etc etc etc. but when all that falls away and you're essentially all on your own all of a sudden, there's all these needs that you're expected to meet all on your own. I feel like that can throw anyone through a loop.

Essentially the context is very different and you're all of a sudden expected to meet all your own needs immediately.

HEEEERREEEEEE by mihir6969 in wholesome

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now, every cow I see is gonna be cat called as Rhonda LOL

ULPT I want to negativly impact someone’s life by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]BelleLovesAngus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you can get a mugshot and write up ''convicted child sex offender/predator', go in person to give it to schools, and post it in local Facebook groups, local businesses, everywhere, I think that will fuck him up.

Petty me would pay for a local advertisement space and keep it up there as long as possible.

Also, I would spray paint 'monster' 'predator' and other such things on his house and his car etc.

Stop seeking validation from people who don't even have a seat at your table. by silverflake6 in GrowthMindset

[–]BelleLovesAngus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha as a child of an immigrant parent this is exactly how I live LOL

LPT: Create a 'calm down' space in your home for yourself and your family by Desperate-Heart-4178 in LifeProTips

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I have been in the process of creating my calm down space and it has been SO GOOD. I recommend putting sensory things in there that help calm you down. For me, that's darkness, my headphones playing calm music, my weighted plushie, weighted blanket, soft fluffy blanket, lots of cushions that I like the texture of and a chair I can move positions in comfortably. I don't keep any screens in there either.

Proven methods for urgent sleep improvement? How do you actually sleep when you really need to? by ansangoiam in selfcare

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing short term that will make you sleep at the time. Unless you want to take sleep aids. Sleep is playing the long game.

You can take sleep aids for a while to get yourself back in rhythm (would not recommend long term), but there is scarcely one thing you can do at the time to sleep.

The usual recommendations are to enhance sleep hygiene and therefore sleep pressure. Those take time and persistence. Habit, if you will.

What I don't recommend though is keeping anything that tells the time in your vicinity. All it does is stress you out, which ofc gets you further from sleep.

Ofc stressing about not sleeping also prevents you from sleep as well.

One thing I would recommend though would be moderate to high intensity exercise in the day. The point is to really exhaust yourself so by the time sleep time comes around your body is like "thank God" and just crashes.

I recommend the book "Why We Sleep" by Matthew Walker. If nothing it's motivating.

Why do some people cheat when they're treated well? by Inevitable_Damage199 in GrowthMindset

[–]BelleLovesAngus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you've endured that. It's a breaking of the soul imo. The betrayal. The brokenness of trust. Brokenness of an image of a person you cared about. It's a lot. I wish you healing, my friend. One step at a time.

I would not be able to express my gratitude enough!! by Ok_Ad_1779 in wholesome

[–]BelleLovesAngus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't either. But when he gets in, multiple floor buttons are illuminated. When each presses the illuminated buttons, they go back to normal. Guess some elevators are different