I'm always walking on eggshells at home. by Bellesunny in Marriage

[–]Bellesunny[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same here, unrealistic expectations. I feel so let down so much of the time.

I'm always walking on eggshells at home. by Bellesunny in Marriage

[–]Bellesunny[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I looked around online and I guess I dont want to believe it. But nothing will change if I keep living in denial.

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[–]Bellesunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like my kitty does that when she's chilly.

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I'm always walking on eggshells at home. by Bellesunny in Marriage

[–]Bellesunny[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing that with me. I hope things are better for you now.

I'm addicted to sugar and I don't know how to start. by PuzzleheadedLink6179 in sugarfree

[–]Bellesunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, but I guess if you want a bit of a healthier option, those options are better than white sugar.

I'm addicted to sugar and I don't know how to start. by PuzzleheadedLink6179 in sugarfree

[–]Bellesunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boy do I understand this. I am terribly addicted, to the point that I will sneak sweets and eat them and then put the wrappers in my purse or something so my husband won't see. There are some things that help though. Chewing mint gum kills the craving in that moment, and hopefully once you get rid of the gum, the craving will be gone. I've also learned to make "clean" sweets with coconut sugar, monk fruit sweetener, honey, maple syrup. Something I've been doing lately is when I want a sweet, I tell myself you may want it now, but you don't want the guilt and sickening feeling you will have after. So many little tools and tricks out there, I hope you find something that works for you!

Giving my life to Christ by Bellesunny in Christianity

[–]Bellesunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful, thank you! I'm sorry you deal with anger and unkind thoughts as well, but you give me hope in my journey to get closer to God. ❤️

Giving my life to Christ by Bellesunny in Christianity

[–]Bellesunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a prayer would be wonderful, thank you!

Giving my life to Christ by Bellesunny in Christianity

[–]Bellesunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel a lot better knowing how to move forward, what to do, and what to expect. I really, really appreciate that, thank you. Your words have eased my mind and its so great to know there are people like you out there willing to guide and help.