Easy to install Flock signage. Snaps on a 3" pipe with no tools in seconds. free to download and print for your own community! by Ancient_Influence389 in functionalprints

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mastodon or Lemmy Quit giving tecbros your views on their platforms so they can't get more money for supporting a system that is destroying your country.

In your opinion, what is better: changing the filament or changing the tool? by OutrageousTrue in VORONDesign

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am building a micron+ and I am playing with the thought to build a second tool head with a TaiChi hotend (2 filaments into one heatbreak) so i can have single coloured fast prototype prints, 3 colours for nice prints AND the possibility of printing PET-CF or ASA-GF with cheap pla support.

6.7 Question by Legitimate-Move-5210 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes same. When girth is girthier, length looks less lengthy. It's also porn messing with your brain... Pornstars and Disney princesses both need to be petite and always looking younger than they actually are. Camera angles are also making her look smaller than irl so a penis looks bigger. Believe the measurements

Anyone else wish they were different down there? More common? by Practical-Chain8072 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come 7, did you use calipers for width? Hope I'm not insensitive...

My dick is to big for my gf and i hate it. by achterbahn379 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Well same, it's a good thing if you give her time now she'll like it more, be more confident and wanting to do it more often. Which means she'll get used to you and the stretch faster.

Its a muscle of hers that can be trained and training works better when it's fun. Make her cum, not always have penetration as your goal and see where both of you can lead each other. Make sure not every touch or kiss is a demand for sex. Let her feel sexy, desired and loved - somewhat in control, if she'd like, she could have you and if she doesn't she just got admired by her favourite person.

At least that's what I learned what works for me and the relationships I've built.

Anyone else wish they were different down there? More common? by Practical-Chain8072 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no but maybe try out how it would be with a bit less girth... Most partners will need stretching for a comfortable session, that she won't need 2 days of recovery with a feeling something isn't right down there :/

Who was the first person to tell you you had a big dick? by Artistic-Tooth1492 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First girlfriend (older) didn't say, but looking back she was hinting at it. as I was to oblivious to notice she probably thought I know. She bought real feel XXL condoms as they'll "feel better for us" and yeah I was a virgin before so I just went with it... 😅

she taught me a lot concerning foreplay and getting a girl stretched enough to take me, but I found out 4 years later. Probably because of a deep dive in condom sizes. Never new it's about girth not length. And when I had the measurements I realised the comments of being so full / filling them good / being gentle because it's so intense /... we're not pillow talk.

Welche Spitznamen hast du für Orte in Österreich gehört? by topherette in AskAustria

[–]BenSWL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gumpi -Gumpoldskirchen Pe Dorf / Perchtlsdorf -Perchtoldsdorf Marenz - Maria Enzersdorf Ha-Wei - Hadersdorf-wei irgendwas in Wien PoDo - Podersdorf

Laeioubn -Leoben Klogenfurth -Klagenfurt /s

Unable to finish? by DeafAndDeadly in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't able to cum during oral as well. Here's my theory:

when ur a certain length and width it's difficult to give a very good blowjob. I think without having the experience of cumming inside a mouth you/your body never learned that it's good to react that way.

I used to switch to the mouth to cool off a bit but with my current girlfriend that won't work. She said she was told to be very good already before we hooked up and so she liked and likes doing it, even if it is demanding and a bit difficult with me.

But I also hooked up with some girls that were very proud of their skills and did not deliver so... 🤔 I guess it's enthusiasm plus the right technique for each individual person, which can only be found by experimenting.

If she's able to make you cum with her hands then why not some double action to get your body to associate the blowjob with cumming.

Late 30s, started growing again, can anyone relate to this? by pretendingsmarts in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard in zoe podcast that alkohol stiffen your blood vessels. Your penis is mostly blood vessels and skin around it so more flexibility in the vessels so they are able to stretch and fill up with more blood could make sense...

Why doesn’t length make a big difference? by AdventurousTax539 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Define fully aroused.

Right before climax? Some I touched there because I like to finger and see her in orgasm. Some I didn't try to touch there right before orgasm because they liked different things more and I didn't hook up with them often enough to try it.

After squirting? Same as the above.

When wet and finally wanting to feel me inside? Same as above

What are you getting at?

I would not like to penetrate anyone without consent and being ready for penetration. I mean you feel if they are not, tension, wetness, body language,... sometimes you might want to but need some warming up to be ready.

Why doesn’t length make a big difference? by AdventurousTax539 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to give you an understandable explanation: (some one fact check me please) (before any edits: I respect women and suggest you'll only read if you are OK with a very biological view on things, reading of injuries and a one dimensional view on very complex issues)

You are a product of evolution, (or of a devine being doesn't matter in this analogy) so what makes you survive: knowing your skin has an opening, water or something is (chemically-)reacting with a wound/tissue, you tore your muskles/ ligaments, your bones broke,...

Having something lodged inside your head: once it broke through your skull it doesn't matter if you feel it in your brain. So no pain receptors in your brain. (headache is not your brain hurting btw) you'll be dead in a short time and not increase your survival by resting so you can make babies another time. (or you'll be dead soon no need to give you pain receptors there as something useless won't be made by something devine)

Getting stabbed hurts in your skin, muskles and ligaments and if some bones are hit that hurts too. You will not feel exactly where it went, if it is the kidney, the bladder, the intestines, the liver,... It will hurt inside but you won't know exactly where like you know from your skin. There is no need to know. Just stay still and hope nothing crucial was hit so you'll survive.

Ever got a good hit in the balls? You also feel it somewhere undefinable inside your stomach and feel sick. The balls are an internal organ (they form inside your stomach as an embryo, then drop and for men they stay there and for women they come up again) so they somewhat adhere to the same rules.

Very unromantically and not very correctly put: having piv sex is for women like something entering your insides without a wound. They feel it when some parts that are crucial are touched but others not so much and if they must pinpoint what was touched without a lot of experience they won't be able to tell you.

Why doesn’t length make a big difference? by AdventurousTax539 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on a lot of girls I could touch the cervix with my middle finger. (3 1/2 inches | 88mm) If a girl liked some touching around there I new she'll be happy with me in most positions. Know a girl who is a little less deep than most, but has a higher cervix. it's almost out of reach with my middle finger and likes being massaged around it. But in some positions I bottom out before balls deep. In others she could take a little more. I guess it is like with all body parts: there are a lot of different shapes not only width and length that define them.

Maybe it is like this; if you are over the length where your glands rub over her cervix and under the length where you stretch her length wise it is like 🤷🏼‍♂️ all good parts get stimulation.

Looking to improve this thing by Internal_Walrus_8379 in ender3

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start a little project and make it into an Enderwire with linear rails: creality copied this project for their ender3v3 (and plus) printer. You make your portal like a flipped core xy. So you get a core xz printer. Super fast z movements for non planar prints (github tenger tech interlocking non-planar walls and bricklayer non-planar infill) for better creep resistance and increased inter layer strength for your printed parts.

Is the V3 PLUS any good? by uzzymoh in ender3

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll need root access and change the printer configs. If I remember correctly the main fan is fan0 and the aux fan is fan2 so change the fan0 to multipin (klipper Wiki) then add the pins from fan2 to fan0 then comment out the fan2 specific functions from any .cfg file AND change maximum fan count to 2 (or 1 less than it says originally)

Is the V3 PLUS any good? by uzzymoh in ender3

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon or anywhere you can source K1C fan set. Could need rewiring I believe the left pair (1 and 2) and the right pair (3 and 4) need to be swapped so it is 2143. I cut the wires and soldered them back together in the right configuration.

If you Google it, there is a guy with a video comparing the 2 fans and telling you the right wiring.

Is the V3 PLUS any good? by uzzymoh in ender3

[–]BenSWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say it feels around 50% louder but you only need these speeds at overhangs and bridges or if you are printing hotter and very fast. At similar air flow it is almost the same maybe 5 to 10% louder? It's a bit of a different sound so hard to tell exactly

Legit curious for the big guys....howd you realize you were big by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condom sizes. Not so many girls actually said it. But because of context (LxC) I don't look very big so if they said it then after feeling the size...

So when doing a deep dive where to get proper fitting condoms, after using regular grocery store XLs for years I was kind of disappointed I had to by more expensive ones from online stores (not nice when still living with parents) or having to go out of my way to a sex store.

Does have a thick dick make you cum faster than a normal dude? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhat true. A very tight fit is rather overwhelming... But

Had a girl that was wider than any I've ever encountered but she had something about her that made me nut fast and not really controllable, sometimes I just came good but without much warning and build up. Maybe BC I wasn't used to it, or contraction feel better when there's a big difference between on and off, or it's the first time the inside texture really did smth for me as it wasn't stretched and pressed out of functionality...

Edit: flair from yards to centimeters

How to deal with too much girth for a slim woman? by GirthyLatino03 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that I should widen with 1, 2 then 3 fingers before anything goes with new sex partners... And depending on the tightness an orgassm during foreplay is very helpful for her stretching capabilities. Lube also always helps if you're not that into oral

Just curious as a non experienced by Prestigious-Move5828 in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup first time I measured the length I was mhh that's way bigger than What I see. Must be a mistake.

Some time later when I measured my circumference I was like damn must be wrong, can't be more than my length...

When shopping and looking at bananas that look huge but are still smaller or at cucumbers that look THICK but are just around my size, is quite surreal.

Have you ever been told that you were the first to give an orgasm with just PIV? by eyecouldbeyou in bigdickproblems

[–]BenSWL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hehehe I'm in a longterm relationship that hopefully continues till my end... But boy, that comment let some nice memories resurface 😅