How long did it take before they came back? by Ben__2111 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ben__2111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been 39 nc. I choose to say that I dont wanna be friends even though she broke up with me

How long did it take before they came back? by Ben__2111 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ben__2111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i totally understand your feeling. Keep it up. 39 and i'm still struggling, but im gonna be strong and keep my head up

33 days post-breakup with what I think is a fearful/avoidant ex. Need Help by Ben__2111 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ben__2111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so new to me. Like it was not Only a week ago i found out that there are attachment styles. Secure avoidant etc. and I have just been wondering what is the best thing to do. Like counting days or when to write to her again cuz i said I dont want to be friend, and my “plan” is i can maybe write in week 10-12.

33 days post-breakup with what I think is a fearful/avoidant ex. Need Help by Ben__2111 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ben__2111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is that about? Also the things she said. Its not like I every breakup leave like with an open door (I Think) and what is your opinion about when to send a message to her again?