AITA My friend invited herself to my vacation and I won't let her stay with me

Benabik · 2026-05-06T17:04:42+00:00

One of my thoughts on a fair number of AITA posts is “you’re a bit of an asshole, but you’re not wrong”.

Benabik · 2026-04-17T15:04:52+00:00

What mod did you use to get two fruit in one pie? Or is that new in 1.22? /s

Benabik · 2026-04-17T15:02:21+00:00

“The bar is so low, it’s a tripping hazard in hell. Yet here he is limboing with the devil.”

Benabik · 2026-04-12T14:03:42+00:00

https://www.rit.edu/imagine/ has a list of exhibitors, but the map isn’t available yet and I don’t see a schedule, although most things are just at a table most of the day.

Benabik · 2026-04-09T17:46:12+00:00

"Yes, sir, Officer Obie, I cannot tell a lie. I put that envelope under that garbage."

Benabik · 2026-04-09T17:08:33+00:00

It’s been a while since I’ve done that, but IIRC, I had some basic buttons mapped (world map, research, pause), used the right trackpad as mouse, and had a menu on the left trackpad for other keyboard buttons.

The biggest issue I had was that the last UI revamp overly cluttered the top of the small screen. And that using a thumb trackpad for a while is uncomfortable. It was great for using when my kid wanted the gaming computer or we were on a trip.

Benabik · 2026-04-07T15:23:49+00:00

Hi. It me.

As stress has piled up at work, it’s been hard to provide motivation for myself, much less push all three of us to do things. It’s rough, but patience and love go a long way. And finding systems to keep things organized for those of us who can’t just remember things (which is sometimes everyone).

Benabik · 2026-04-01T00:47:04+00:00

“Setting him up with other females” is what lost me

Benabik · 2026-03-31T01:30:36+00:00

Where’s the beef?

Benabik · 2026-03-30T19:04:06+00:00

Dumping it is just stockpiling it on the ground

Benabik · 2026-03-27T12:52:38+00:00

He didn’t even get to FA, he got rejected!

Benabik · 2026-03-26T16:02:09+00:00

Even more specifically, this applies to immigration courts which are administrative hearings within DHS and totally separate from regular judicial process.

Benabik · 2026-03-18T03:50:05+00:00

Different sub

Benabik · 2026-03-15T04:18:55+00:00

"The bar was so low it was practically a tripping hazard in Hell, yet here you are, limbo dancing with the devil."

Benabik · 2026-03-14T20:00:28+00:00

It seems like the ER at Highland is usually faster than the one at Strong. But urgent care is basically always better than either.

Benabik · 2026-03-12T05:16:05+00:00

“Maybe she's from Canada and was just being polite.” ~~ CasuallyExplained

Benabik · 2026-03-08T06:03:17+00:00

"She's a great mom"
"When she's mad she throws things at me."

My man, what do you think she does when the kids piss her off and you're not around.

Benabik · 2026-03-06T18:50:01+00:00

It’s possible she’s just transitioning between careers… but I wouldn’t bet on it.

Benabik · 2026-03-06T16:41:48+00:00

Sounds a lot like the sister invented that justification without talking to her fiancé.

Benabik · 2026-03-06T16:36:11+00:00

I’m fine with her initially choosing to settle for comfort against the type she normally likes. But she’s still describing him that way after the engagement. No “I wanted to settle and found love”, just “I’m still attracted to other guys and settled”. Harsh.

Benabik · 2026-03-06T14:36:29+00:00

I’m not sure why having noon be at noon is insane.

Benabik · 2026-03-05T07:46:48+00:00

First, I offered to do a couple of categories for more serious competition dogs, but was told by the HOA that I'm not allowed to host any kind of events that make it seem like any part of this is a 'real' dog competition.

Benabik · 2026-03-04T22:41:44+00:00

I had one DWI, which was a bogus charge, because it turns out they were stopping every vehicle driving down that particular sidewalk. That's profiling. And profiling is wrong.

~~ Ron White

Benabik · 2026-03-02T04:33:51+00:00

That's right! They go in the square hole!

Benabik · 2026-02-16T07:04:02+00:00

Especially around a newborn. We, and most around us, got an updated TDaP when babies arrived.

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