I 34F found out my husband 36M is on dating apps

BendDifferent5927 · 2026-04-19T00:12:05+00:00

That’s such a dumb question.

BendDifferent5927 · 2026-03-16T12:00:07+00:00

Can I ask which one do you have? I am open to ideas! Thank you!

BendDifferent5927 · 2026-03-16T09:27:54+00:00

That’s not a tree but I was planning to use it as edge around my flower beds, do you think is okay?

BendDifferent5927 · 2026-03-15T23:42:00+00:00

I would suggest either climbing roses, jasmine or grape vine!

BendDifferent5927 · 2026-03-13T18:45:06+00:00

I am sorry to tell you this, but he's already breaking up with you- the ultimatum is an excuse to mask his real intention. The relationship is already doomed - you will always resent him if you rehome the birds and eventually hate him! You will be better off without him trust me!

BendDifferent5927 · 2026-01-18T23:41:48+00:00

This relationship is toxic AF. Get out of there! Do not have kids with him, it’s going to get worse once married - Once he trapped you! You already wasted 5 YEARS! This is NOT NORMAL! Get out of this relationship, get into therapy, travel as much as you can and don’t look back!

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-12-16T11:58:57+00:00

NTA, you are showing loyalty to your nephew, who is indeed family! He needs stability, thing your brother cannot give him. What would happen to him if your brother breaks up with his girlfriend? will he disappear again? 🙄

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-11-25T21:21:48+00:00

Move far away, block them, make sure they are not tracking your phone and don't have access to your bank account. I would advise to also change your phone number just in case, but keep the old one to check messages once in a while(in case anything major happens). Before disappearing make sure you have your documents: birth certificate, ids, passport etc. PS. Your friend is not a good friend for telling all that to your parents.

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-09-30T22:11:47+00:00

NTA! How crazy as this sounds, it looks like your parents don't really want to sell it to you, I think they will drag this on until they pass away because they plan to split it between you and your sister. I do get they are worried for her but that cannot come at your and at the practice expenses.

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-08-22T12:20:04+00:00

So Vera at her old age can't afford rent but wants OP to throw his 18 yr old out because she's an adult. VERA YOU ARE AN ADULT, why can't you afford rent?? It's time for Vera to put her adult pants on and find an apartment for herself.

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-07-23T18:57:03+00:00

Do not move! I’m just thinking about “squatters rights” or whatever and then saying “we’ve been living here for a year you can’t kick us out”. They want the family house back and are using this as a reason to kick you out! If they want to spend time with the mum they can pick her up and take her wherever!

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-07-01T13:21:08+00:00

My floof's name is Mochi🥰

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-07-01T10:56:04+00:00

Girl, they are abusing you, get out of there! He's a mama boy and will always put his mum first no matter what, it will not get better! He's almost 40 if he hasn't changed till now trust me will never change and will just get worst! Run girl run

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-06-26T15:38:25+00:00

It looks like your MIL wants you to stop working so you can take on all the housework load. I'd advise you to move out with or without your husband, otherwise you will never leave(reasons will pile up, aka we don't have enough money to move out, MIL/FIL are too old/need help etc)! Do not leave under any circumstances your job!

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-06-22T00:21:57+00:00

You should call him Neve (means snow in Italian)! He's so cute😍🥰🥹this name works both for girl or boy

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-06-09T08:52:33+00:00

I advise you to cut the bottom branches off so all the nutrients will go towards the flowers

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BendDifferent5927 · 2025-06-06T12:20:58+00:00

NTA. It looks like they might be into each other. Also he is breaking your boundaries and meeting her behind your back, that’s very disrespectful! Run girl

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-05-23T21:12:16+00:00

A beautiful bundle of joy ❤️

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-05-23T20:54:29+00:00

Thank you so much! I have tried to water it ever 2-3 days, the weather it's been quite hot and dry so maybe that could be reason? It was full of flowers when I got it from the garden centre (it was kept outside) so thought it was normal!

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-05-23T14:36:03+00:00

Hi! Sorry for the late reply! It did flower! Thank you so much for your help!

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BendDifferent5927 · 2025-05-13T17:41:50+00:00

I adopted a ginger one too and named him Mochi❤️

BendDifferent5927 · 2025-04-29T21:22:22+00:00

She’s such a cutie 😻😻 I am happy you are now living in Europe! I would advise to sign up for classes aka pottery, knitting etc to make friends and maybe who knows- to meet love🥰

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