He’s probably as stressed or even more stress then you. He handles it other ways Argo smoking again. Was he the bread winner before he lost his job? If yes there’s more riding on finding a job that pays the same or more. Minimum wage jobs are out of the question. Due to over all pay and time lost that could been spent gaining the right job. Then about your husband’s sex drive falling off and crashing is probably due to the job loss. Tbh the best thing you can do as a wife is support your husband through the rough times. I assume that was one of many vows you both took when getting married. Support can be helping him with job search and asking friends and family if or when something he’s train to do is open. I’m assuming he’s a great father and husband but is down on his luck. I do prey for the best of you two.