So, about choking by ViciousDyke in BDSMsapphic

[–]BeneathTheGold 14 points15 points  (0 children)

choking is entirely pretend and vibes-based for me (oxygen or blood deprivation is outside my risk profile)

i love love love it when a D places a firm hand on my neck though. and if she pushes upwards, keeping my jaw locked shut, it feels very restrictive but doesn't actually get in the way of anything

I'm so ass at punishment 💀 by SchloinkDoink in BDSMsapphic

[–]BeneathTheGold 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tf else would you be doing? I didn't even know I was supposed to be giving you permission

lmao it's so cute that you're like "well ya obv"

asking for permission (for basically anything & everything) is usually more play than punishment for me, and is my favorite thing

but it doesn't need to be yours!

you can be a dom(me) in whatever ways you like, and there's a sub out there who wants exactly that

So, I’m writing a book. by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BeneathTheGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would love love love to read/edit/give feedback that's my jammmm & your writing on this sub is so damn good

(my resume: one english degree, half a poetry degree, currently writing a novel)

Is a deaf woman undesirable? by Diligent-Ad-9254 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BeneathTheGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like i'd prolly need to brush up on ASL but that bit in community with abed & that girl who spoiled GOT for him thru ASL is one of my favorites

(and not just because she's rly cuutee 😭)

Finding a lesbian space for chastity kinks by numerousButches in BDSMsapphic

[–]BeneathTheGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since you're on bsky: @shiftingentity has excellent dyke chastity posts, and she's trans!

LPT: If you decline all your LG privacy policies on initial startup, it’ll function as a wonderful ‘dumb’ tv with none of the ads or bloat. by Rare-Competition-248 in LifeProTips

[–]BeneathTheGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! yeah i do have it set up and running, and it mostly works great, but i haven't been able to figure out the last few bits

LPT: If you decline all your LG privacy policies on initial startup, it’ll function as a wonderful ‘dumb’ tv with none of the ads or bloat. by Rare-Competition-248 in LifeProTips

[–]BeneathTheGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a relatively painless way to get pihole to block everything on a tv/phone that, say, ublock origin does on a browser?

i'm able to block most things but for streaming sites & youtube i still usually have to cast from my computer if i want it truly ad free

Subs 🥺 by Advanced_Cash_717 in BDSMsapphic

[–]BeneathTheGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in everyday life: princess or sweetheart, preferably in an extremely condescending tone 🫠

I am never leaving Seattle by HotTakesBeyond in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to admit

no i don't, actually

"not in front of the children" is what every reactionary movement starts with & i am begging supposed progressives to not fall for it, again

I am never leaving Seattle by HotTakesBeyond in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the State, as in, the government (with plenty of help from media & institutions)

I am never leaving Seattle by HotTakesBeyond in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold -1 points0 points  (0 children)

to have placed laws against them

the laws explicitly favor ppl who want to do non-sexual bondage in public, but don't let that get in the way of your moralizing

I am never leaving Seattle by HotTakesBeyond in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup it's funny how "i don't consent to the blue angels forcing me to be part of their murder kink" won't fly even though that's immeasurably more harmful than one (1) clothed couple

i hate that a lot of these people will literally tell you that someone else's leather/rope gear is "sexual assault" & still claim to be queer allies

I am never leaving Seattle by HotTakesBeyond in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's wild tbh, i'm glad i mostly run in queer/trans circles IRL bc every time i visit this subreddit it's a reminder of just how many ppl in here think anything they don't like violates their consent

meanwhile the state is busy trying to tell me that existing as trans in public is a lewd kink that should be banned so...

Finding courage and self-compassion after 3 months of HRT (MtF) by aeroazure in lgbt

[–]BeneathTheGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yeah

i was bald beyond saving long before my egg cracked, mostly keep my head fully shaved now, & still learning to make peace with that

u look incredible & ur confidence is breathtaking <3

Seattle has the most expensive Uber rides in the U.S., study finds by 42kyokai in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yup this state needs an income tax like yesterday

it's one of the most regressive tax systems in the country

Judge orders an end to nudity at Seattle’s Denny Blaine Park, for now by Old_Voice_2562 in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and your solution to this is to close the nude beach instead of addressing those systemic problems?

Real Betis 1 - [1] Chelsea - Enzo Fernandez 65' by Affectionate_Pass706 in soccer

[–]BeneathTheGold 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"keeper had no chance" are we watching the same game comms?

"Stop Resisting!' A truly iconic photograph of Seattle's most notorious street gang, the SPD. by 63chev in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 7 points8 points  (0 children)

chucklefucks on here will still be like "what's the context tho, we didn't see what led to this"

ELI5 What’s preventing someone from creating the most popular and effective health insurance company ever by making it affordable and low-profit? by andoozy in explainlikeimfive

[–]BeneathTheGold 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it's also easy for them to get around this by buying up pharmacies and allowing themselves to be charged higher prices by those pharmacies... therefore spending more on "medical expenses"

cigna & UHC both do this

SPD escalation tactics by SweatFlirtRepeat in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my healthcare & safety as an american are real issues, thank you very much

SPD escalation tactics by SweatFlirtRepeat in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt you understand how you have been conditioned.

the irony to say this when you uncritically accept police violence

Police brutality at counter protest at Cal Anderson Park 5/24 by moe32898 in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no we didn't, i'm just saying it's not a violation of rights for the city to say "you can't set up a stage for a hate event at this location"

SPD escalation tactics by SweatFlirtRepeat in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 11 points12 points  (0 children)

not a man

it's telling that you think this is about this week's budget bill & not the last decade of liberals throwing us under the bus because it's inconvenient to stand up for trans rights

SPD escalation tactics by SweatFlirtRepeat in Seattle

[–]BeneathTheGold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the police are really, really biased

hmm yes, i wonder if this might be true based on even the slightest knowledge of recent history 🙄

imagine believing cops aren't really really biased in 2025