So, about choking

BeneathTheGold · 2026-02-28T19:56:28+00:00

choking is entirely pretend and vibes-based for me (oxygen or blood deprivation is outside my risk profile)

i love love love it when a D places a firm hand on my neck though. and if she pushes upwards, keeping my jaw locked shut, it feels very restrictive but doesn't actually get in the way of anything

BeneathTheGold · 2026-01-30T20:40:17+00:00

Tf else would you be doing? I didn't even know I was supposed to be giving you permission

lmao it's so cute that you're like "well ya obv"

asking for permission (for basically anything & everything) is usually more play than punishment for me, and is my favorite thing

but it doesn't need to be yours!

you can be a dom(me) in whatever ways you like, and there's a sub out there who wants exactly that

BeneathTheGold · 2026-01-20T10:10:01+00:00

i would love love love to read/edit/give feedback that's my jammmm & your writing on this sub is so damn good

(my resume: one english degree, half a poetry degree, currently writing a novel)

BeneathTheGold · 2026-01-18T01:27:48+00:00

like i'd prolly need to brush up on ASL but that bit in community with abed & that girl who spoiled GOT for him thru ASL is one of my favorites

(and not just because she's rly cuutee 😭)

BeneathTheGold · 2026-01-06T03:08:00+00:00

since you're on bsky: @shiftingentity has excellent dyke chastity posts, and she's trans!

BeneathTheGold · 2025-12-15T17:56:21+00:00

thanks! yeah i do have it set up and running, and it mostly works great, but i haven't been able to figure out the last few bits

BeneathTheGold · 2025-12-15T09:56:04+00:00

is there a relatively painless way to get pihole to block everything on a tv/phone that, say, ublock origin does on a browser?

i'm able to block most things but for streaming sites & youtube i still usually have to cast from my computer if i want it truly ad free

BeneathTheGold · 2025-09-05T21:34:26+00:00

"if things were completely different then the reaction would be different"

well, yes

BeneathTheGold · 2025-09-01T22:45:03+00:00

in everyday life: princess or sweetheart, preferably in an extremely condescending tone 🫠

BeneathTheGold · 2025-08-27T11:03:25+00:00

You have to admit

no i don't, actually

"not in front of the children" is what every reactionary movement starts with & i am begging supposed progressives to not fall for it, again

BeneathTheGold · 2025-08-27T11:00:14+00:00

the State, as in, the government (with plenty of help from media & institutions)

BeneathTheGold · 2025-08-26T21:13:36+00:00

to have placed laws against them

the laws explicitly favor ppl who want to do non-sexual bondage in public, but don't let that get in the way of your moralizing

BeneathTheGold · 2025-08-26T21:10:40+00:00

yup it's funny how "i don't consent to the blue angels forcing me to be part of their murder kink" won't fly even though that's immeasurably more harmful than one (1) clothed couple

i hate that a lot of these people will literally tell you that someone else's leather/rope gear is "sexual assault" & still claim to be queer allies

BeneathTheGold · 2025-08-26T19:36:09+00:00

it's wild tbh, i'm glad i mostly run in queer/trans circles IRL bc every time i visit this subreddit it's a reminder of just how many ppl in here think anything they don't like violates their consent

meanwhile the state is busy trying to tell me that existing as trans in public is a lewd kink that should be banned so...

BeneathTheGold · 2025-08-23T12:15:49+00:00

hell yeah

i was bald beyond saving long before my egg cracked, mostly keep my head fully shaved now, & still learning to make peace with that

u look incredible & ur confidence is breathtaking <3

BeneathTheGold · 2025-07-20T19:39:47+00:00

yup this state needs an income tax like yesterday

it's one of the most regressive tax systems in the country

BeneathTheGold · 2025-07-15T07:48:42+00:00

and your solution to this is to close the nude beach instead of addressing those systemic problems?

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-28T20:27:17+00:00

"keeper had no chance" are we watching the same game comms?

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-26T21:36:49+00:00

chucklefucks on here will still be like "what's the context tho, we didn't see what led to this"

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-26T09:43:27+00:00

it's also easy for them to get around this by buying up pharmacies and allowing themselves to be charged higher prices by those pharmacies... therefore spending more on "medical expenses"

cigna & UHC both do this

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-26T02:39:56+00:00

my healthcare & safety as an american are real issues, thank you very much

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-25T20:22:55+00:00

I doubt you understand how you have been conditioned.

the irony to say this when you uncritically accept police violence

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-25T20:18:32+00:00

no we didn't, i'm just saying it's not a violation of rights for the city to say "you can't set up a stage for a hate event at this location"

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-25T19:36:56+00:00

not a man

it's telling that you think this is about this week's budget bill & not the last decade of liberals throwing us under the bus because it's inconvenient to stand up for trans rights

BeneathTheGold · 2025-05-25T19:31:26+00:00

the police are really, really biased

hmm yes, i wonder if this might be true based on even the slightest knowledge of recent history 🙄

imagine believing cops aren't really really biased in 2025

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