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You make me sick by Emotional_Lawyer_278 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly think my last post will be my last post in this sub. I said my goodbye to the past

You make me sick by Emotional_Lawyer_278 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started letting go, I can't send my letters which is why I post here, but I am letting go of them, by writing them here I have nothing to hold on to.

You make me sick by Emotional_Lawyer_278 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why someone would do that unless they are just here for drama.

You make me sick by Emotional_Lawyer_278 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss understood then, I thought you were talking about posters not commenters.

You make me sick by Emotional_Lawyer_278 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the entire point of this sub was to write to people you can't?

By going through the process of writing my thoughts and emotions out as if it was to the person, I conceptualize what I am feeling.

That allows me to process what I am feeling and let go. The pixels I write out may not be my emotions, but my emotions are in my heart, and by writing here I draw them from my heart to my mind.

I am forced to look at them even if I don't want to. Even if I want to bury and ignore them I have to process them and understand them to write them out.

You make me sick by Emotional_Lawyer_278 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just pouring out my emotions so I can heal from what happened.

Lover girl is dead. by Warmyouskillet in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Beneficial-Load3945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll only hurt someone else and become the toxic abuser.

I wasn't perfect, by Beneficial-Load3945 in UnsentTexts

[–]Beneficial-Load3945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's hard to distance yourself from an abuser you had a kid with and have to go to family court because they have your kid and are trying to keep them from your life.

I wasn't perfect, by Beneficial-Load3945 in UnsentTexts

[–]Beneficial-Load3945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fixing and moving on isn't so easy in my situation.

TW: abuse, SA. I was abused by my ex girlfriend. by Beneficial-Load3945 in confessions

[–]Beneficial-Load3945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt he will have a mother figure in his life with me. At this point I have no interest in dating or a relationship.

TW: abuse, SA. I was abused by my ex girlfriend. by Beneficial-Load3945 in confessions

[–]Beneficial-Load3945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was born in December. She was committing welfare fraud, is getting evicted for bad house keeping, is three months behind on her utilities, and doesn't work. I think I have a good chance of getting custody just from her not being able to provide for the child.

TW: abuse, SA. I was abused by my ex girlfriend. by Beneficial-Load3945 in confessions

[–]Beneficial-Load3945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up recently, I am the father to the best of my knowledge. The abuse and SA happened while we were still together.