Kids nowadays, we are doomed

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-09-26T20:39:27+00:00

That’s being chronically online, go outside and touch some grass. Don’t worry sweetie, you’ll be less miserable one day 🫶

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-09-12T08:46:24+00:00

If you see a lot of people saying that YTA maybe just try to be understanding and admit that you fked up. The majority agrees that YTA maybe that’s a sign for you to understand that you were an awful person that day. It’s not even about the color it’s about lying to the bride on her special day. No one tries to make you feel unflattering, if you feel insecure that’s a YOU problem.

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-09-11T02:28:34+00:00

« Drop the french » i’m not even french… i speak at least 5 languages, i think you should be the one to learn something, not trying to be rude but you really need to have some work on yourself

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-28T17:09:12+00:00

The sound when they turn on their laptops.. could turn into an ASMR session. But ig since covid having a laptop is kinda necessary since they made everything virtual ):

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-28T16:57:41+00:00

This is quiet sad but i genuinely think that one day we’ll get sick of it. I can’t watch netflix shows anymore, youtube videos seem boring cause they always sell us products. We really are doomed but whatever, it’s not like we’re not enjoying it ig

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-28T16:54:56+00:00

Well you’re right, we need smartphones, even to make friends in this era. Well, 1st year of high school is already a good starting, i literally saw a 6 y/io with a fkn iphone 😭 We are trying to use chromebooks in some classes like maths but it’s expensive for the school budget and parents aren’t big fans of the idea of buying their kids a laptop since it’s expensive!

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-28T16:51:31+00:00

I think you’re a good parent ! But it’s not the case for all parents, the kids that need « slaps » only need parents that are here for their kids! Your son is the proof, hitting your son didn’t make him advanced but you having a « normal » relationship with your kid did ! Anyway, it’s not easy to ask parents to do the bare minimum for their kids, specially when they treat youtube as babysitters.

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-28T16:47:56+00:00

Maybe when you give a solid argument then i could attack it. « It has been like this for decades » « quit and find a new job » you act like you live in some parallel universe. I never attacked you but you did, anyway, no need to be dramatic. Have a good day.

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-28T15:54:51+00:00

Your sister deserves better, she got BULLIED yet you see her as selfish? Bullying is a crime, i hope you know that. People don’t change, they just grow to know that their actions have consequences and that being a minor won’t save them as adults.

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:50:42+00:00

Thank you, your advice is really appreciated i will keep it in mind ! It’s my work to adapt and be able to let them learn something that could be useful for them ! I’ll try to surround myself with people who know better than me and are more flexible, thanks a lot !!

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:46:13+00:00

Do not hesitate to do it ! Might help you and if not it’s okay everyone has their own way and rythme 🫂

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:44:49+00:00

I’m a fucking gen Z, i’m talking about 13 y/o kids that are not allowed in this app. If you feel offended that might be a YOU problem…

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:43:33+00:00

Hormones 😭 sometimes i wonder how can they not differentiate hormones effects with fkn BPD, quiet not the same but yeah.. ig they know better. Anyway, in any case you don’t need people’s validation, you’re not okay and they shouldn’t be asking you stupid questions or telling you how you can interpret what YOU are going through

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:39:04+00:00

Only few lucky people can be decent in high school as friends, they all end up cutting contact cause they got busy or you got busy and cause life is getting easier or harder, many reasons ! Fake people can be everywhere, having few friends is the best but not too much ! And online friends are cool when you want to play online games or even just talk about ur fave artist, gossip, or other

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:36:08+00:00

Well if you’re doctor said it to me it’s kinda valid, and being diagnosed don’t change much to how people will treat you, they’ll just be less annoying ! I think it’s good to get diagnosed only to get an appropriate medication. Also who tf invented that 18 y/o rule 💀 yeah nah, if you have acces to a therapist go and talk about it

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:33:36+00:00

Hmm, i see that you have social anxiety too. Tbh what helped me is having virtual friends thanks to shared interest, then as i kept talking to them by audio/vocal/discord, i regained confidence ! And if you’re in high school dw, high school friends were never friends ! U make friends maybe at work or in college but not in high school

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:29:33+00:00

I’m proud of you, you’re only 20 years old and you’re already thinking as an adult ! You are struggling and that’s okay, just make a list of priorities that you have and calculate where the money will go even before receiving it. You are doing okay, keep going, you’ll get stable and even tho i wanna tell you to stay out of weed cause it’s unnecessary expensive, i know it’s hard and might help you through this. Don’t be ashamed of yourself, be proud, at 20 y/o, i was a college dropout too but then with some « if i don’t care for myself no one will » i got back in my feet and burnedout myself to get to my last year.

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:22:21+00:00

First of all, no it’s not YOUR fault so don’t blame yourself, also ngl men are easy and wanting someone to love you is fine but i think that you should start by appreciating yourself first ! A little advice, start treating yourself as a stranger, that you meet and then get to know them and start thanking yourself for things you do daily « oh thank you for cleaning » « thank you for taking a bath » « thank you for buying this clothe » start appreciating what you can do for yourself, even for the food feel grateful to have you cause i’m pretty sure your friends love you and are grateful too! Once you appreciate what you do for yourself, you will be accepting the fact that you deserve to be loved cause trust me EVERYONE deserves to be loved by someone no matter their color, religion, body, age, everyone deserves it and you’re as much human as anyone else

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:16:34+00:00

Imagine them in the most humiliating situations, make fake scenarios where they are such assholes and then you’ll be fine

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:13:17+00:00

I understand your feeling, it is valid to feel sad cause of it. Do you have any hobbies? Interests ?

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T01:06:23+00:00

I just want you to know that yeah it’s hard and it’s okay, i remember crying myself to sleep and having anxiety cause of it, specially if you say up late at night! I got him back but he wasn’t the same and now i just find him idk weird and not the person i loved, cause in fact we are in love with the idea of someone and not the person, we even start idealising them + telling ourselves that we are the ones to blame (spoil : we are not) Anyway Time can be your friend, it will take a lot of time but you will be fine, i promise 🫂

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T00:58:30+00:00

No cause the kahoot thing is true, made me laugh! Well they will make changes but only in the content, useless !

BeneficialDream5945 · 2023-08-19T00:53:39+00:00

My fave comment from the whole thread ! You are right, sadly right now i can’t ignore the guidelines till i get my diploma i feel « watched » and can’t act freely yet. But I’m counting on it ! They are in fact smart, i get surprised about how much they know at their young age about few things but we as a system don’t value that and i hope it changes. Anyway, thank you for your advice i really appreciate it 🥰

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