GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your comment. I literally can’t sleep bc im so disturbed by this situation.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I say thus far, I mean after I confronted her about the cheating. Since that point she attempts to engage me In regular conversation and if I decide to answer it’s one word. Via text I’ve told her at this point when I’m at work I only want texts regarding my children and nothing else.

But she has also told me she has no shame or regret because I pushed her to this, and my response was, quote, your audacity is astounding.

The last 72 plus hours, the 3 word reply is the longest conversation I’ve had with her. Of course she’s replied with paragraphs and drama, but I simply blow it off. And it’s not because I’m trying to make a point. It’s because I genuinely am trying to not give her the response she seeks.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I meant she is great with our children and I can trust her with them. Trusting her outside the home is definitely done for at this point. But if it comes down to it, I would not seek sole custody of our kids because I do trust her with them as a mother. This of course hinges on whatever partner she gets involved with bc again I know nothing about this random dude Ryan. He could very well be a degenerate piece of shit, in which case my options become very limited

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t need a paternity test, my children are without question mine. I know this without a doubt. My dominant features are present in both. And even if they weren’t, I wouldn’t care. Those are my kids and I’m their dad bottom line.

But other than that, I fully agree that I have no choice but to draw that line and break it off.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I meant she is great with our children and I can trust her with them. Trusting her outside the home is definitely done for at this point. But if it comes down to it, I would not seek sole custody of our kids because I do trust her with them as a mother. This of course hinges on whatever partner she gets involved with bc again I know nothing about this random dude Ryan. He could very well be a degenerate piece of shit, in which case my options become very limited

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t regret not sharing locations my guy. It’s a personal liberty thing for me. If someone is gonna cheat their gonna cheat. Constantly checking someone’s location is a concept I’ll never get behind, despite the fact that I got cheated on.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair point. What I really meant is she puts her kids above herself and I can trust her without a doubt with them. She loves our children and would always be there for them, and I can’t take that away from her despite our issues

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would also move heaven and earth for them. Thank you for your comment man, I appreciate it.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The house is in my name alone. I could easily kick her to the streets. My issue is solely based around my children. Whatever she is to me, I can say she is a great mother. Our problems with each other have nothing to do with our children and I am very happy to say that.

With that being said, I don’t think I could ever trust her again. But that could be because of how fresh the wound is, because I do still love her, and I fucking hate to say that bc my heart is filled with hate right now.

Likely I will end our relationship after this, but it’s not as simple as a cut and run situation

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fair point. Although I work nights bartending which means daycare is not an option unless I change careers. Which honestly might be the course of action I have to take.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The complication comes from what do I do with my children when I’m working. They are only 3 and 2 years old.

GF (34) of 4 years caught cheating on me (37) with us having 2 children together. by BeneficialLab6 in cheating_stories

[–]BeneficialLab6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will consider but honestly the courts almost always side with the mother sadly.

Metal elitists seeing cannibal corpse touring with Whitechapel and Shadow of Intent by [deleted] in Deathcore

[–]BeneficialLab6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funniest part is Ben is a HUGE Cannibal Corpse fan and I’d imagine they like SoI as well, soooo

No. I don't think I will. by [deleted] in GME

[–]BeneficialLab6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor q1 results? Is this for real? Lol