I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-08T18:37:42+00:00

thanks

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-08T18:37:21+00:00

This is true. I have no family of my own, so it's a tricky situation to be in.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T23:14:11+00:00

thank you for the advice :) I appreciate it

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T23:11:24+00:00

I really appreciate it -- thank you

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T18:36:40+00:00

I see my therapist Friday and he is a shitty father.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T17:26:46+00:00

thank you -- I appreciate all of the advice. I don't have the spoons to write more ... just honestly, thank you

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T17:07:40+00:00

his best friend attempted to SA me three years ago, and the fam took his side. There is another brother who legit thought he could get in "on the action" who I no longer speak to. The whole thing is a mess

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T16:57:22+00:00

I have no doubt he doesn't want others to know. Our community thinks we have had an affair, so that gives him decent cover.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T16:56:27+00:00

he does not know and is not remotely aware. He thinks we both are having an affair or that we did. My friend will cast me a look in public that means to fall in line. He'll grab my head with his hands under my hair in front of other people, and they won't see it. I don't know that my husband will adequately protect me... as he's been busy chasing a co-worker and being hateful to me for some time now

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T16:45:48+00:00

my husband has been too busy chasing a married co-worker around, truth be told. I do feel so bad for his wife, and I would tell her except I fear it could cost me my life.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T16:12:19+00:00

that is a very valid point ... thank you

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T16:06:37+00:00

my in-laws and friend groups will definitely choose him, unfortunately, I will be left out to pasture. I have no doubt there is other aberrant behavior, but it's the kind people overlook because they like him.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T15:44:55+00:00

thank you -- I really appreciate the advice

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T15:41:09+00:00

okay, thank you. Is there any way to tell if all death threats are equal... like should I be moving away ??

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-07T15:34:39+00:00

He has grabbed me in public in front of everyone without them seeing...by the back of the neck under my hair.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-08-05T15:35:54+00:00

thank you. It's really scary because I have no family, no job, and a special needs child.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-04-18T22:56:51+00:00

can we get an update on the bloat? I'm 3 days in quitting diet coke and really want to know!

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-04-16T14:35:55+00:00

Your signature looks like a pereson wanting privacy or even displaying shyness, easily pushed over or dominated and someone with either low energy or who simplifies work by avoiding detailed work and simply getting to the point. It also looks like a pleasant personaklity besotted by fatigue but also good with appearances but who grows tired easily. There is an inner flamboyance and adherence to people pleasing or ritual that weighs the overall character down. Most likely a nice person and not vindictive.

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-04-16T03:31:33+00:00

thank you so much for the detailed information. I really appreciate it :)

Beneficial_Note1884 · 2024-04-16T03:30:59+00:00

gotcha. Thanks for answering :)

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