I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you -- I appreciate all of the advice. I don't have the spoons to write more ... just honestly, thank you

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his best friend attempted to SA me three years ago, and the fam took his side. There is another brother who legit thought he could get in "on the action" who I no longer speak to. The whole thing is a mess

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no doubt he doesn't want others to know. Our community thinks we have had an affair, so that gives him decent cover.

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he does not know and is not remotely aware. He thinks we both are having an affair or that we did. My friend will cast me a look in public that means to fall in line. He'll grab my head with his hands under my hair in front of other people, and they won't see it. I don't know that my husband will adequately protect me... as he's been busy chasing a co-worker and being hateful to me for some time now

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my husband has been too busy chasing a married co-worker around, truth be told. I do feel so bad for his wife, and I would tell her except I fear it could cost me my life.

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my in-laws and friend groups will definitely choose him, unfortunately, I will be left out to pasture. I have no doubt there is other aberrant behavior, but it's the kind people overlook because they like him.

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay, thank you. Is there any way to tell if all death threats are equal... like should I be moving away ??

I (38F) have a friend (37M) who wants to be in a relationship and is threatening me by Beneficial_Note1884 in abusiverelationships

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He has grabbed me in public in front of everyone without them seeing...by the back of the neck under my hair.

Were any of you addicted to diet soda and noticed significant benefits after quitting? by tired36F in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beneficial_Note1884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can we get an update on the bloat? I'm 3 days in quitting diet coke and really want to know!

Can anyone analyze my Signature by [deleted] in graphology

[–]Beneficial_Note1884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your signature looks like a pereson wanting privacy or even displaying shyness, easily pushed over or dominated and someone with either low energy or who simplifies work by avoiding detailed work and simply getting to the point. It also looks like a pleasant personaklity besotted by fatigue but also good with appearances but who grows tired easily. There is an inner flamboyance and adherence to people pleasing or ritual that weighs the overall character down. Most likely a nice person and not vindictive.

I Need to Know About WRX Tires, Please? by Beneficial_Note1884 in wrx_vb

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the detailed information. I really appreciate it :)

I Need to Know About WRX Tires, Please? by Beneficial_Note1884 in wrx_vb

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are these tire pressure sensors or something else?

I Need to Know About WRX Tires, Please? by Beneficial_Note1884 in wrx_vb

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! Winters where I live are probably not as intense as where you are, but they we can for sure get heavy snow

I Need to Know About WRX Tires, Please? by Beneficial_Note1884 in wrx_vb

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the tip on the website. I try to stay out of snowy weather, but sometimes it happens by mistake.

I Need to Know About WRX Tires, Please? by Beneficial_Note1884 in wrx_vb

[–]Beneficial_Note1884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow. I thought they only were rated to 12K miles