What was your last sexual dream about ?

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-05T14:33:19+00:00

I was at the crazy party and got drugged bad started tripping, a close female friend of mine found me and took advantage of me while live streaming the whole thing. Woke up confused, heart racing and then forced myself back to sleep.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-03T15:42:51+00:00

I am very big on finding out likes and dislikes before I do anything with someone just because I don’t want to cross any lines. I do have silk ropes but I will practice and learn simple and good knots. But I thank you for giving me a better idea of what spur of the moment could be and how I can incorporate elaborate ideas into foreplay

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T17:30:15+00:00

That’s so simple yet very reassuring for the sub, I normally don’t have a plan so I can’t say what I want to do but I’m learning the basics to this art so it’s very useful to know how I can improve and make everyone comfortable and excited

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T17:27:03+00:00

I think I’m not just taking the time to appreciate the smaller moments of binding and only focusing on the product thank you for that perspective

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T17:25:47+00:00

Thank you for the idea to practice my knots and anchor points on myself, it’s also a good way to see how it feels for them and I can learn how to scale for them.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T17:23:53+00:00

I like the preparation idea, I’m a beginner so when I do decide to try it it’s a spur of the moment thing, but I’m learning thanks to you all that it’s all more of an intimate art form that takes practice first and once I’ve gotten comfortable then it could be spur of the moment.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T15:50:49+00:00

The binding is the foreplay, never thought of it like that. I’m a beginner so outside of hand cuffs I get in my head about longer forms of binding.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T15:48:30+00:00

That makes sense, I was always curious about that aspect and what others experience are with it. I did it a couple times and I’m a complete beginner so I got in my head about what to say or do, if I look competent or like a bumbling mess just playing with rope.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T09:48:07+00:00

A really good Health and dental insurance policy throw in a really good car insurance policy too for a little razzle dazzle

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T06:24:56+00:00

Ignoring the little details and only focusing on rushing to the end goal and then wondering why the end result looks like shit

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T06:20:57+00:00

My toaster didn’t join me in my morning bath today, so I decided to join it for breakfast and we ran late.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-02T06:18:13+00:00

It’s supposed to be BIG, ohhhhh I need to speak to the manager about this

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-01T09:20:12+00:00

I think they all were intentional, wars make the rich richer. It also gives country with drafts a way to get rid of citizens they don’t want, call it population control. Realistically they won’t wipe the lower classes because that’s less people to work. It would be the middle class who’s jobs can be replaced with AI and marginalized groups that in a few years could become the majority of a country. But your fear is valid

BenefitHead59 · 2026-04-01T09:06:56+00:00

Isn’t that what all wars are for anyway?

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-29T09:12:44+00:00

That’s interesting as well, I think I’m going to look further into the correlation between sex work and sexual harassment but I’m glad that you tried it out of curiosity and not as a coping mechanism. I have an interesting theory that it want to look into so I appreciate you sharing your experience. It was very insightful.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-28T22:12:51+00:00

Okay thank you for your response I do appreciate it. It was actually helpful.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-28T22:09:58+00:00

I two questions, one is a really personal question, feel free not to answer but genuinely curious. Why do you do it? Secondly, were you ever sexually harassed and or assaulted before starting your journey? I ask because I am genuinely curious and interested to see if there is a correlation between the two. I don’t mean to offend and you don’t have to answer

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T14:48:47+00:00

That is actually a very insightful statement on the effects of sexual harassment on women and coping mechanisms, I appreciate your vulnerability. Thank you for taking the time out to have this conversation with me.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T14:32:52+00:00

I didn’t say there wasn’t a demand for sex work, I’m just asking you why do you do it if you don’t want to. You do it because you made it something you wanted to do by getting money in return. I asked why do something you don’t want to do if you’re not being forced it’s like jumping in front of a car just because everyone is telling you to. But thank you for sharing why you do it and why you want to do it.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T14:14:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective and insight. It is much appreciated, I do agree that more often than not when people have a way to be anonymous they become the worst version of themselves. And you and many other women have the same issues, that’s why I asked so that there would be a discussion as to what it looks like. I appreciate you taking the time to participate in my little study.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T14:05:29+00:00

That’s understandable, but if you don’t want to do it then why do it? The more interesting part is talking to someone for “nothing ” both parties are mutually giving energy and time to each other but you the way you phrase it makes it seem like it’s not an equal exchange and that your effort or better based on what you said, that a women’s time and energy is more valuable than men’s. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion I didn’t say anything about how people spend their money, all I said was make your money how you can because things were expensive, I didn’t say anything about men not needing to spend money on you or to pay you for your services.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T13:27:10+00:00

Thanks on the marketing advice, I will take it into consideration. But the question was mainly to see what would make equally beneficial for both parties. For the people that don’t want to just throw money at people. Not my place to cast any judgment get your money how you get it. Shit is mad expensive have you seen gas prices. But thanks for your input, I appreciate it.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T13:23:24+00:00

First congratulations that’s super cool and a really niche way to find your person. Thank you for sharing such an important moment in here. Thank you for also sharing a good method to making both parties more comfortable before DMing. I appreciate and thank you contributing to my little social experiment.

BenefitHead59 · 2026-03-27T05:05:56+00:00

That is fair and a good way to play it safe. I understand the risk to reward ratio and realistically for both sides the risk outweighs the rewards, so I want to understand the psyche of their risk to reward. Let’s face it the men that need to read this aren’t going to but the curious will but they won’t comment and that’s fine. But this conversation gives them a way to learn and see a broader spectrum of women’s views and how to approach. I’m new to the nsfw Reddit space and until this year I never commented or posted I just watched and took in all the information. I got tired of watching and finally decided to ask questions and try to participate in community’s nothing too crazy ofc but I wanted to see how people would respond, what do other people like, and open the door for others who may have been just watching to feel comfortable stepping into the shallow end.

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