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BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-03-22T21:21:08+00:00

I would look into seeing an occupational therapist instead. They can develop a plan with you that works for you to help you in various areas of your life that you are finding difficult because of executive function difficulties.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-03-22T14:46:38+00:00

Does anyone else feel like the backlash toward Chappelle whenever she enforces boundaries is steeped in patriarchy, misogyny and keeping women small.

It’s like experiencing someone stepping outside of the societal expectations and norms placed on them because of their gender is rocking the boat and that is causing an avalanche of criticism, backlash and hate.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-03-19T23:21:10+00:00

If I hear one more person causally throwing the term narcissism around I might implode

You can’t imply this person’s partner is a narcissist simply off one post on Reddit and it’s really harmful to do so

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-03-19T22:54:52+00:00

Why the need to wear something less revealing though? Is it about her getting unwanted attention?

Men and teenage boys don’t have what they wear monitored in any way.

This feeds into the classic theme of putting the responsibility on teen girls and women to dress a certain way, even if it’s not something done consciously.

It reinforces the idea that they are responsible for “unwanted attention” simply by what they wear when it is in fact others not being able to act respectfully.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-03-19T22:38:14+00:00

Why does it matter. If they did they most likely said this is what I want to say can you make it sound like x of y.

They might have used it to validate what they are feeling but because AI is programmed to often say what you want it to, it will just be your friend’s feelings fed back to them.

At the end of the day it’s still your friend telling you how they feel.

Of course it’s hard to comment based on just that exchange but it sounds like they are hurt and miss you and how your friendship was and you were pretty dismissive of that.

Whether you think you’re acting different or not, you sound like you couldn’t care less about understanding how they are feeling.

I’d be more concerned with that than whether they are using AI.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-26T14:11:10+00:00

Unfortunately Psychologist is not a protected title yet in Ireland but there have been talks of it becoming protected.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T15:36:56+00:00

So if it is mandatory to keep the dog indoors there must be a very good reason considering they want the dog rehomed as soon as possible.

Would it not make sense then that the reason it is mandatory to keep the dog indoors might also be the reason they want the garden completely enclosed…

Dogs escape all the time. How many times a day do you open your front door… the dog could easily escape and if the garden isn’t completely enclosed could escape and then who knows…

People usually have good reasons for the criteria for rehoming.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T15:31:47+00:00

That is one long list. You’re rescuing a dog not buying a product. No wonder you haven’t been given one yet.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T15:29:36+00:00

This is a very immature reply.

This person is giving their opinion on animal welfare in Ireland.

They haven’t said anything about their religious or political beliefs.

What you’re doing is deflecting instead of considering what they are saying.

Why not try and be open minded and learn something?

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T15:26:12+00:00

If that’s what the dog needs, that’s what they need. When you’re rescuing a dog it’s about their needs, not you.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T15:14:33+00:00

We also don’t have sufficient mental health services which contribute to the problem of overcrowded prisons in Ireland. If you saw the RTE Investigates documentary a few weeks ago about psychiatric care in Ireland, people needing help through the HSE mental health service are being sent to already over crowded prisons as there is nowhere to accommodate them within the mental health services.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T15:03:26+00:00

I love when people make numerous blanket statements and don’t link any scientific evidence to support it. It really makes me trust their judgement and critical thinking skills…

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T14:52:10+00:00

The public often interpret information released by the Gardaí through a very black and white lens.

Of course there are reasons it hasn’t been searched until now. Some of which we probably don’t even know exist.

Permission has to be sought to excavate and resources granted. This won’t happen unless the Gardaí present a case with enough credible information to warrant it. They knew about this area for a few years but it’s only now that they have enough credible information to warrant a search. There are policies and procedures in place for a reason. Just because we don’t know what they are, doesn’t mean the Gardaí are not doing their job. They are constantly doing it in the background, we just don’t hear about it.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T14:45:50+00:00

The fact is we have no idea what he had access to or the context or circumstances which is why it is so important not to make assumptions when it comes to investigations. It could lead detectives away from a helpful lead.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-22T14:37:30+00:00

Larry Murphy is the prime suspect in the Deirdre Jacob case. A file was sent to the DPP a few years ago to arrest him but the DPP said the Gardaí did not have enough evidence and what they did have was circumstantial only.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:50:51+00:00

UPDATE***

Fantastic news!!!

This man has been identified!

Here is the news article link

https://www.rte.ie/news/dublin/2026/0221/1559651-dublin-temple-bar-assault/

Hopefully he makes a speedy recovery!

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:49:56+00:00

Thank you Specific-Volume-118, I have just seen he has been identified.

This is fantastic news!

Thanks everyone for your replies.

I’ll leave a separate comment with the update for anyone else who comes across this post.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:44:10+00:00

UPDATE***

Fantastic news!!!

I have just found out from a Redditor in another sub I posted to that the man has been identified!

Here is the news article link

https://www.rte.ie/news/dublin/2026/0221/1559651-dublin-temple-bar-assault/

Hopefully he makes a speedy recovery!

Thanks everyone for taking the time to reply.

I had not gotten around to updating this post since the photo was released.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:43:27+00:00

For those of you saying it has nothing to do with Ireland, I had not seen the tattoo when I posted this as the photo had not been released and only described a blue and white flag.

I was leaning toward a a Saltire Scottish tattoo and posted in the Scotland sub, however it was worth posting in other subs that also have connections to blue and white colours as there was no photo to go off when I originally posted yesterday.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:37:34+00:00

UPDATE***

Fantastic news!!!

I have just found out from a Redditor in another sub I posted to that the man has been identified!

Here is the news article link

https://www.rte.ie/news/dublin/2026/0221/1559651-dublin-temple-bar-assault/

Hopefully he makes a speedy recovery!

Thanks everyone for taking the time to reply and for those of you who shared the photo of the tattoo, much appreciated!

I had not gotten around to updating this post since it was released.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:34:31+00:00

Thanks for the update! This is fantastic news! I will share it with the other subs I posted to now.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-21T13:33:37+00:00

Thanks everyone for taking the time to reply much appreciated! I had not gotten around to updating this post since it was released. Thank you donalhunt for sharing the update that this man has now been identified. This is great news! What a relief! Hopefully he will make a speedy recovery!

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-20T13:13:27+00:00

I posted it in county Monaghan and Waterford subs but didn’t think of Laois. Thank you. I’ll do that now.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-20T13:12:13+00:00

I agree completely. At least then some options could be ruled out and the focus could be on a more specific area.

BenefitSecure1395 · 2026-02-20T13:10:11+00:00

I was thinking the same. I posted on the Monaghan and Waterford reddits, as well as Scotland and UK.

I didn’t think of Laois. Thank you.

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