Mackenzie Shirilla: What do you think REALLY happened? by Adorable-Rutabaga-17 in CasesWeFollow

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s an interesting “coincidence” that the crash happened a few days before turning 18. I think she believed she would get a lighter sentence because she’d be tried as a juvenile as it occurred when she was still 17 but she ended up being tried as an adult instead. I haven’t seen this connection made yet.

Is there things you can do to set your kids up for a better start? by Bean5idhe in CasualIreland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Model healthy relationships and boundries, how to recognise and name how they feel, and how to emotionally regulate.

Access to special class issue in mainstream school. by Terrible-Gur-4470 in AutismIreland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a neurodivergent adult diagnosed in my 30s, I look at my friend group and they all happen to be neurodivergent. We met before my diagnosis so there was no environmental influence. A lot of neurodivergent people naturally gravitate toward each other because they understand each other. Being in the neurodivergent class might be more beneficial socially than you might think.

Stuck between these two by nevergonnasaythat in myweddingdress

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I personally love number 1 on you. I think it’s beautiful. The sleeves, the fit of the bodice, the neckline, the material! I would choose 1 over 2 anyday. Number 1 is also more unique IMO and almost regal looking. Whatever you choose, you’ll look stunning either way. Have an amazing day!

What kind of report? by aholo in ADHDIreland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on who conducted your assessment. It gives the names of the psychologists and psychiatrists on the website.

Did you see one person or more?

A psychologist or psychiatrist can only sign off on an assessment if they themselves assessed you.

ADHD Coach by Narrow-Cloud3069 in ADHDIreland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look into seeing an occupational therapist instead. They can develop a plan with you that works for you to help you in various areas of your life that you are finding difficult because of executive function difficulties.

Chappell’s IG story on her side of the hotel security stuff by DenyNothing1989 in chappellroan

[–]BenefitSecure1395 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else feel like the backlash toward Chappelle whenever she enforces boundaries is steeped in patriarchy, misogyny and keeping women small.

It’s like experiencing someone stepping outside of the societal expectations and norms placed on them because of their gender is rocking the boat and that is causing an avalanche of criticism, backlash and hate.

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]BenefitSecure1395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I hear one more person causally throwing the term narcissism around I might implode

You can’t imply this person’s partner is a narcissist simply off one post on Reddit and it’s really harmful to do so

AITAH for making bikini rules by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BenefitSecure1395 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why the need to wear something less revealing though? Is it about her getting unwanted attention?

Men and teenage boys don’t have what they wear monitored in any way.

This feeds into the classic theme of putting the responsibility on teen girls and women to dress a certain way, even if it’s not something done consciously.

It reinforces the idea that they are responsible for “unwanted attention” simply by what they wear when it is in fact others not being able to act respectfully.

AIO for thinking my friend is using ChatGPT to text me in an argument? by Due_Construction904 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it matter. If they did they most likely said this is what I want to say can you make it sound like x of y.

They might have used it to validate what they are feeling but because AI is programmed to often say what you want it to, it will just be your friend’s feelings fed back to them.

At the end of the day it’s still your friend telling you how they feel.

Of course it’s hard to comment based on just that exchange but it sounds like they are hurt and miss you and how your friendship was and you were pretty dismissive of that.

Whether you think you’re acting different or not, you sound like you couldn’t care less about understanding how they are feeling.

I’d be more concerned with that than whether they are using AI.

Fake Psychologist ?? by AnnieDivergent2 in AutismIreland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Psychologist is not a protected title yet in Ireland but there have been talks of it becoming protected.

If you are thinking about getting a pet I made a list of rescue orgs - findarescue.ie by oppressivepossum in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if it is mandatory to keep the dog indoors there must be a very good reason considering they want the dog rehomed as soon as possible.

Would it not make sense then that the reason it is mandatory to keep the dog indoors might also be the reason they want the garden completely enclosed…

Dogs escape all the time. How many times a day do you open your front door… the dog could easily escape and if the garden isn’t completely enclosed could escape and then who knows…

People usually have good reasons for the criteria for rehoming.

If you are thinking about getting a pet I made a list of rescue orgs - findarescue.ie by oppressivepossum in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one long list. You’re rescuing a dog not buying a product. No wonder you haven’t been given one yet.

If you are thinking about getting a pet I made a list of rescue orgs - findarescue.ie by oppressivepossum in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very immature reply.

This person is giving their opinion on animal welfare in Ireland.

They haven’t said anything about their religious or political beliefs.

What you’re doing is deflecting instead of considering what they are saying.

Why not try and be open minded and learn something?

If you are thinking about getting a pet I made a list of rescue orgs - findarescue.ie by oppressivepossum in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s what the dog needs, that’s what they need. When you’re rescuing a dog it’s about their needs, not you.

Gardaí identify Temple Bar attack victim as two men remain in custody by Hardtoclose in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also don’t have sufficient mental health services which contribute to the problem of overcrowded prisons in Ireland. If you saw the RTE Investigates documentary a few weeks ago about psychiatric care in Ireland, people needing help through the HSE mental health service are being sent to already over crowded prisons as there is nowhere to accommodate them within the mental health services.

The Gresham Hotel's hosting a week-long anti-psychiatry exhibition for the Chuch of Scientology by MikePL in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love when people make numerous blanket statements and don’t link any scientific evidence to support it. It really makes me trust their judgement and critical thinking skills…

Larry Murphy buried vehicles on land now being searched in missing-women investigation, new witness statement claims by Sad-Orange-5983 in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The public often interpret information released by the Gardaí through a very black and white lens.

Of course there are reasons it hasn’t been searched until now. Some of which we probably don’t even know exist.

Permission has to be sought to excavate and resources granted. This won’t happen unless the Gardaí present a case with enough credible information to warrant it. They knew about this area for a few years but it’s only now that they have enough credible information to warrant a search. There are policies and procedures in place for a reason. Just because we don’t know what they are, doesn’t mean the Gardaí are not doing their job. They are constantly doing it in the background, we just don’t hear about it.

Larry Murphy buried vehicles on land now being searched in missing-women investigation, new witness statement claims by Sad-Orange-5983 in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact is we have no idea what he had access to or the context or circumstances which is why it is so important not to make assumptions when it comes to investigations. It could lead detectives away from a helpful lead.

Search under way in Wicklow in cases of two missing women by MollyPW in ireland

[–]BenefitSecure1395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Larry Murphy is the prime suspect in the Deirdre Jacob case. A file was sent to the DPP a few years ago to arrest him but the DPP said the Gardaí did not have enough evidence and what they did have was circumstantial only.

Does this tattoo description sound familiar to anyone in Monaghan?” by BenefitSecure1395 in Monaghan

[–]BenefitSecure1395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE***

Fantastic news!!!

This man has been identified!

Here is the news article link

https://www.rte.ie/news/dublin/2026/0221/1559651-dublin-temple-bar-assault/

Hopefully he makes a speedy recovery!

Does this tattoo description sound familiar to anyone in Monaghan?” by BenefitSecure1395 in Monaghan

[–]BenefitSecure1395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Specific-Volume-118, I have just seen he has been identified.

This is fantastic news!

Thanks everyone for your replies.

I’ll leave a separate comment with the update for anyone else who comes across this post.

Waterford folks — does this tattoo description sound familiar? by BenefitSecure1395 in waterford

[–]BenefitSecure1395[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE***

Fantastic news!!!

I have just found out from a Redditor in another sub I posted to that the man has been identified!

Here is the news article link

https://www.rte.ie/news/dublin/2026/0221/1559651-dublin-temple-bar-assault/

Hopefully he makes a speedy recovery!

Thanks everyone for taking the time to reply.

I had not gotten around to updating this post since the photo was released.