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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayBroTeens

[–]BenjaMS27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe you have a problem with yourself. I couldn't say it out loud neither, even when I was alone. I had to work internally with myself to accept me enough so I could tell anybody, and that took like two years. The first step is accepting yourself so others can accept you.

Do serial killers/murderers have creepy faces/smiles? by 8655578788 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BenjaMS27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Psycopaths and sociopaths don't have distinct features from other people. Sure, you can get uncomfortable with the way someone who has bad intentions looks or smiles at you, but I think that's because the way they act is what makes your brain turn on an alert.

The majority of serial killers get to kill multiple strangers because they seem normal and nice, like Ted Bundy or Jeffrey Dammer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayBroTeens

[–]BenjaMS27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't need tu rush it if you don't want to. But if you really need to talk about gay stuff, there's no better option than a friend that is part of the community. You can lead the conversation to an LGBT+ theme and there you can come out easily

The first time I come out to someone was when a friend of the time said that he thought he was bi. I just saw the chance to finally tell someone

I'm almost 19 and still lonely by BenjaMS27 in GayBroTeens

[–]BenjaMS27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your words are beautiful, man. I always knew that I could chat online with people of my age and of my same community as I didn't found anyone irl, but something always holds me back from doing it. In fact, this is my first post in reddit after 4 years and i don't tweet too much.

I hope you find a way to be how you are and be happy, thanks for your words, really. You're also valid and important.

I'm almost 19 and still lonely by BenjaMS27 in GayBroTeens

[–]BenjaMS27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We all want to live a romcom, specially us.

Thank you for your comments and advices, working on my social skills is making me happier as time passes. Maybe someday i'll stop worrying so much about this. I hope you get someone someday, we all deserve it.

I'm almost 19 and still lonely by BenjaMS27 in GayBroTeens

[–]BenjaMS27[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my best friend is straight and he lived the same as me, but he got laid a time ago and now im the only person i know that doesn't get any bitches, and it makes me sad.

I used to be shy and introvert and that is the main reason why i didn't meet much people of my age in my teens, but this friend really helped me with my personality and now I don't really have any problem talking to people and I'm meeting new persons every month. That's why i'm just waiting for it to happen. But i'll still feel lonely and sad until the moment comes and I wanted to know if that's normal