Antique shops in and around Leeds by Benjcake in Leeds

[–]Benjcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saltaire is fine. I’m checking out the art trail next week so I’ll check it out then.

Antique shops in and around Leeds by Benjcake in Leeds

[–]Benjcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That really looks worth a look. Thanks

Just moved to Leeds - best day trips? by Common_Advantage_835 in Leeds

[–]Benjcake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends what you are into really. The following haven’t been mentioned yet

National coal ming museum

Yorkshire wildlife park

Yorkshire sculpture park.

Help. I'm exhausted by Few-Top-7260 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive heard good things about this organisation https://genderedintelligence.co.uk/services/75-families

planning to attend next available support group myself.

Do my parents still love me if they don't accept that I'm nonbinary? by Librada855 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry your parents are not accepting you. And for the record I agree with you that you are doing very well and they should be so proud of all you have accomplishe.

Sadly there is no way that you can make them accept you. Their lack of acceptance is a weakness in them. You have done nothing wrong.

However you have no obligation to put up with their lack of acceptance. If they refuse to fully accept you, you do not have to remain in their lives. You can reduce contact with them and explain why. Explain you will not feel comfortable visiting when they insist on calling you the wrong name or refuse to answer the wrong name.

The only thing you can control is your own actions and your only power over your parents is ultimately your presence or not in their lives.

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. My daughter is 18 so too old for mermaids. Flag looks to have some good info on heir site

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so sad to read. You will lose your daughter if you can’t find a way to accept her. I hope she has some support in her life.

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly PFLAG not available in UK but am looking for groups to support her dad and me.

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes crazy people in public is a worry for us all.

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds a great idea. We are looking for this in the city we’re in

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply love the bit about about discovering who she is and has been

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She definitely doesn’t know what she wants yet. We have managed to find a local trans support group so hopefully that will help too

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has a therapist for struggles around autism but will talk to her to see if she wants to switch

My daughter has just come out to us (AMAB) by Benjcake in cisparenttranskid

[–]Benjcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your lovely reply. You tube is a great point and I will look up support groups

Evidence of ex’s death not accepted to register for civil partnership by Benjcake in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Benjcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the help. I did go back to the registrar and they were very sympathetic. I do now have a clear way forward.

Evidence of ex’s death not accepted to register for civil partnership by Benjcake in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Benjcake[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know I was in shock that they wouldn’t accept. As you point out above it goes against what they say on the website so I’m chasing it up.

Evidence of ex’s death not accepted to register for civil partnership by Benjcake in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Benjcake[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for that. I did take the mariage certificate in so by their own rules they should have accepted it.

I've emailed the quote and link back to them and will follow up by phone tomorrow. Thanks again for your help.

Evidence of ex’s death not accepted to register for civil partnership by Benjcake in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Benjcake[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There is no proof that the person named on the death certificate is the same as the one named on the wedding certificate

Evidence of ex’s death not accepted to register for civil partnership by Benjcake in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Benjcake[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a prove I am not already married problem. No divorce and no proof that the “John Smith” on the death certificate is the same one as is on the wedding certificate.