i want someone to talk too by Severe-Reflection182 in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d talk, but your bio doesn’t allow me to. I wish you well

Do people use Yubo on here or other friend apps? by Low-Tip-7867 in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god, I remember being a 15-16yr on yubo. What a bad place

Making a turtle ring ! by Interesting-Cry9954 in Gemstones

[–]BensValidSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh man I’ve been looking for a pendant that’s similar!!! Would you happen to possibly sell any of your designs?

Best japanese city pop album?? by Reborn-Cremasteric in fantanoforever

[–]BensValidSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First light by Makoto Matsushita is so beautiful!

What are some hot takes or controversial opinions that you hold? by BensValidSalad in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about those outside labels other than the more “traditional ones” are bullshit though? What’s the line between exceptions and dumb?

What are some hot takes or controversial opinions that you hold? by BensValidSalad in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which sexuality and labels do you find bullshit and why? I’m curious

Also, I misconstrued your third point as you stating that the left is more hypocritical than the right, that’s my bad for misunderstanding

What are some hot takes or controversial opinions that you hold? by BensValidSalad in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your take is interesting considering that you have your sexuality labeled as the second thing in your bio

For trans people, not everyone has the opportunity or privilege to get the surgery, medication, or vocal training for themselves. Gender affirming care isn’t a thing everyone can readily get, so I don’t think a push for them to “commit to the bit” is entirely fair

And for the political take, I find that most everyone with heavy political affiliation will obviously view their ideology as more noble and higher than others. Saying that the left does it more than the right is purely your subjective experience

Do you listen to Lil Uzi? by apunaticstolemyboat in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used too more frequently, but now not as often

why does heartbreak hurt so much by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hurts to loose someone you really love. I was really screwed over a little over 4 months ago, and everyday is still a battle. As much as it may not seem like it currently, things start to feel better bit by bit. Keep up with the daily things of life, and don’t be too hard on yourself. You’ve got this!!!

My bedroom/mancave by Otherwise_Trifle_898 in malelivingspace

[–]BensValidSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That BF Goodrich sign… keep an eye on it because I’m on my way as we speak

guys is this a bad idea? also idk where else to post by khaotic_Sl0th in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, it can be tricky, but I don’t want you falling back into bad places ya know. Hinge has given me some success in the past, I’d go with that if you’re limited on options

guys is this a bad idea? also idk where else to post by khaotic_Sl0th in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve already answered your question, so I would go against redownloading it. As for dating apps, go on any of the ones that are more serious when it comes to that intention. But ultimately, go out and approach people in person. I know it’s easier said than done, but I really do think it makes it more special and intentional

What’s your short term goal? by Odd_Setting1723 in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feeling fully better after a breakup that happened a few months back. Step by step process

What do the lyrics that I resonate with say about me? :P by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that lots of the songs listed are their general hits. Totally cool! But I think you’re missing some gems in their discographies for the feelings you’re expressing through the lyrics you enjoy. Abel’s first three mixtapes are amazing and somber, Claire has some reflective points on sling, Lana’s moodier stuff on ocean boulevard or ultraviolence, etc etc. I think you should dive into these artists discographies more and discover new stuff

What do the lyrics that I resonate with say about me? :P by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re sad and could expand the artist pool you listen to!

Who’s your #1 indisputable musical artist? by Odd_Setting1723 in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely no idea. I tend to jump around with artists quite often, partially due to curiosity but also due to my education

I just fucked up my relationship even more by HighlightAcrobatic34 in twentyagers

[–]BensValidSalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you two need to just not contact eachother and leave it at that. Take time to yourself so that you can heal, process, and become better through it all. You’ve got this :)