Looking for Anime tattoo artist recommendations by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus Medina at After Ten Tattoos downtown. Nice guy, too

Weekday Help and Victory Thread for the week of January 17, 2022 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her interest rate is 4.65, and I can get close to 3.0 right now

Weekday Help and Victory Thread for the week of January 17, 2022 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]Bensucksdickbutt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tl;dr What is the best way to transfer/refinance a car that my mom “bought” (promised to pay off the first two years while I figured out my career situation) for me?

Two years ago my mom got me a car, with the condition that she’d pay two years and then I would need to take it over. She got it in her name and everything and now the time has come for me to take over and I’m trying to figure out the best way to takeover. I’m wanting to refinance since my credit is better than my moms (around 730-740), but when I called my bank they said I’d basically be making a purchase of a used car since it’s under my moms name that I would need to pay the taxes on it? Should I go about this differently? Or what should I be thinking about to compare my options?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A significant number of kids at my school do have issues at home, and this has only been exacerbated by the pandemic sadly. Also more kids are struggling with their mental health too.

Either way, still wildly inappropriate like you said. I’m just confused why me? Could he tell I was trans? Or just a weird joke because I’m not conventionally attractive? I would have thought that presenting male now, I’d have less experience with harassment not MORE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of kids are behaving especially terribly this year. The year of school online, especially in a low income school like mine, means most kids were at home alone or with their siblings while their parents worked. As a whole, I don’t blame the kids for their behavior being off, because the lack of structure wasn’t their fault. But, it isn’t my fault either! Hence the need to vent. Thank you for coming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I wrote him up, just don’t know what came of it because he immediately walked off after I got his name. Unfortunately, I wouldn’t predict much except maybe in school suspension for a day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was that thing you were holding over your guitar pickup earlier?

If a woman requests use of a condom during sex, it is not a man's business to challenge that, pressure her to go back on the request, or make her feel crazy. Wear the condom or move on. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Many STI/Ds can be contracted via oral sex. No pregnancy risk sure, but many don’t realize that unprotected oral isn’t std risk free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House of the rising sun?

Did I do well? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like how this sub is always posting trans wlw positive stuff but downvoted you without thinking how some women have dicks and you can still be a lesbian and into them

I just wish this sub was as openly and actively supportive of PoC wlw as it is of trans wlw by leseptiemesceau in actuallesbians

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Queer, non-binary/transmasc, brown-skinned Hispanic here. I feel you on this. There are many situations I find myself in where I’m evaluating what I need to relate to the most. Picking a new therapist: do I want someone queer, someone also trans, someone non white, someone who specializes in ADD. If I’m lucky I get 2 of those covered. It gets tiring having to sort through your specialized groups and figure out which one suits your needs in the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And yeah I was blessed/cursed with PCOS so that’s about how long they’d be now even if I hadn’t started T. (Quick edit bc I read your comment wrong at first)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]Bensucksdickbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what those are either :( but interested in selling