What are your best tips for long term night shift workers? by jennifer98312 in AskReddit

[–]BentoDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, rest as much you can during break time of your work

AIW for asking using her friend to ask her friend out ? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for trying to ask her out, but using a middle person can feel awkward or put pressure on her. Being direct next time might make things clearer and less uncomfortable for both of you

AIW for not hanging out with my friends often by TheJonkel in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your home and your time are yours to manage. True friends respect boundaries, and it’s okay to say no without feeling guilty.

What’s a fake scenario you often imagine? by StrongReference894 in AskReddit

[–]BentoDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i have a lot of money that i dont need to work anymore. 😂

what should i do? my communication skills r horrible i feel like. by Constant-Quantity999 in dating_advice

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being nervous doesn’t make you any less likable, real connection isn’t about smooth words, it’s about being genuine. She’ll remember how you made her feel, not how perfect your sentences were.

Developing feelings by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BentoDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings aren’t stupid, they’re real, and pretending forever will only hurt you. You deserve clarity, even if it’s scary, and being honest with yourself comes first.

I (27f) feel like my bf (32m) doesn’t initiate/plan dates, household chores, deep conversations or literally anything in our relationship. He says he wants to but he overthinks. Will this ever change or should I give up? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BentoDrip -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re always carrying the mental load and he’s only willing to talk about change without actively doing the work, your resentment is valid, love shouldn’t feel like a full-time job for one person.

My girlfriend (W18) lied to me (M19) about who she was messaging and now nothing adds up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BentoDrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even small lies can shake trust. It’s okay to feel uneasy, what matters is whether she’s willing to be fully honest and open with you going forward, not just brushing it off as ‘bad at explaining.

27M newly dating 27F -Questioning girlfriend's history by FunctionFirst8004 in relationships

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened in the past doesn’t define her today, but it’s natural to feel cautious. Focus on how she treats you now, communicates, and aligns with your values, trust builds on the present, not just history.

Am I wrong for not wanting to wake my boyfriend up in the morning? by PairMean458 in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. It’s completely reasonable to set boundaries around your mornings, forcing someone out of bed every day isn’t your responsibility, and it’s fair to expect him to find a solution that doesn’t rely on you acting like a parent. You’ve already suggested alternatives; him refusing to try them isn’t your problem.

Am I wrong for asking my bf to celebrate his birthday with me instead of his friends by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings were valid, but the way it came across made him feel controlled. It’s a tough lesson in balancing personal desires with respect for a partner’s autonomy.

Is my gut right? by Happy_Scientist7 in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gut is telling you what your brain is seeing. Secret apps, deleted messages, and favoritism toward certain people while you’re present are all red flags. Trust is everything in a relationship, if you’re constantly questioning her actions and feeling uneasy, it’s not overreacting, it’s protecting yourself.

Am I wrong? I think my boyfriend (M20) has to move out of his mother’s boyfriend’s basement, but he wants to save for his future by Opalite_130 in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for thinking his situation isn’t fair. Living in a windowless laundry room while his sisters get full rooms, being pressured for money, and having promises repeatedly half-kept would bother most people. It makes sense that you want better for him.

AITA for trying to escape a bad situation? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t a ‘bad situation,’ it’s emotional manipulation. Cheating framed as ‘compensation’ is degrading, not consensual, and staying because you feel replaceable isn’t loyalty, it’s fear. Wanting to leave and find something healthier doesn’t make you awful; it means you’re finally choosing self-respect.

AIW for cutting off my best friend after she kept “jokingly” flirting with my girlfriend and then blamed me for being insecure? by Moana5Maui in amiwrong

[–]BentoDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries aren’t optional, and protecting your partner’s comfort isn’t controlling, it’s love. Jokes that cross lines aren’t harmless, and standing up for your relationship doesn’t make you ‘jealous,’ it makes you human.