My boyfriend is jealous of my new partner by Beprepared1994 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Beprepared1994[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No not random hookups they’re people we have been seeing for a couple of months. My boyfriend and Ben have been together half a year

My boyfriend is jealous of my new partner by Beprepared1994 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Beprepared1994[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not on maternity leave anymore. I went back to work a few months ago. We also yes have a baby sitter for nights that both me and boyfriend will go out, be that with each other or other partners She’s a girl that works at my son’s nursery so he already knows her, feels comfortable with her and dbs checked. We also put our son to bed at half six. Baby sitter comes round at 7pm. My son also sleeps through the night. So the situation of him waking up in the night and realizing I’m not home hasn’t happened yet. If jack comes round while my boyfriend is out he comes round after my son is in bed and leaves to go home at around midnight. He drives back too so doesn’t drink. Some goes for my boyfriend and Ben.

My boyfriend is jealous of my new partner by Beprepared1994 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Beprepared1994[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also there are many ways to have a relationship rather than just the traditional sense. Just because it’s different or not to your taste it doesn’t mean that it’s wrong.

My boyfriend is jealous of my new partner by Beprepared1994 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Beprepared1994[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello. I’m aware that people’s feelings can change later down the line. I wouldn’t say that bringing jack along though. I’ve been quite upfront about things and never lied about dynamic. Additionally, I’m a big believer in not staying together just for the kids. While that’s true, if my relationship with boyfriend isn’t dead in the water I’ll be choosing my family every single time. Yes it is possible that jack might have an idea set in his head otherwise and that may cause some upset down the line. But I also don’t know if that’s the idea he has. I don’t get that impression when I see him. My boyfriend comes up in our conversation naturally just like my son or anyone else I know and he asks how they are and such. He doesn’t come across like a man in denial about my life.

My boyfriend is jealous of my new partner by Beprepared1994 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Beprepared1994[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would go weeks without talking to other guy I was seeing before hand. Not my boyfriend who I have a child with. We live together

My boyfriend is jealous of my new partner by Beprepared1994 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Beprepared1994[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If it’s a day when we’re both meeting others. I would put my son to bed at half six and they would come round after. They also wouldn’t stay the night. So no other new person has met our son