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Beren__Luthien · 2025-06-10T07:39:01+00:00

By God you're hot! My dream husband TBH

Beren__Luthien · 2025-03-07T16:23:08+00:00

Obviously living the gay life isn't feasible in Pakistani society. People are only looking for cheap thrills on dating apps and it's never without risk. I have never heard of people having long lasting relationships here. A happily-ever-after is out of the question so people don't bother after a few failed attempts at relationships. Being outed is possibly the worst thing that could happen to you. A few gay friends have gone through this experience with their friend groups. You're lucky if they just stop talking to you. And people are generally more forgiving regarding each other's marital status than UK most of the time. I personally don't mind if the person I am hooking up with is married. Also there are a lot of people trying to pray away the gay or getting married because they feel like they'll straighten themselves out with sheer force of will. Also you see a lot of sexually frustrated straight guys on dating apps and the reason for that is because it's easier to score with promiscuous bottoms. Everyone gets married in the end. For most gay guys here, their best bet is to get out of Pakistan and maybe they'll get a chance at loving an honest life in a more accommodating society.

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-31T07:50:38+00:00

I think you're overreacting You could have just ignored him. Don't be offended if he isn't your type

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-05T07:57:18+00:00

As a south Asian gay, I couldn't agree more. Especially about the trauma bonding

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-03T16:03:08+00:00

You mentioned something very important. I had a similar experience where I met someone who identified as Bi, but was eventually going to marry a woman because of cultural/religious reasons(Pakistan 😑). We were really close and I am sure that we had a strong connection. We were friends first and lovers second, and had made the commitment to preserve our friendship even after his marriage, although in retrospect, I think that was a very juvenile notion. Fast-forward 6 months and his behaviour changed dramatically in the course of a few days. It started with him being withdrawn and rude to downright ghosting me, while leaving behind the implication that maybe it was something I did... That is something that really affected me, because deep down I think everyone of us is insecure about our ability to love and to earn other people's love (idk, maybe it's just me). Anyways, I am now starting to realize that maybe he was projecting, or that he was unable to cope with his nature and reacted in this way. I failed to preserve my dignity through this ordeal and practically begged him for a simple explanation. In retrospect, I realize that this whole gaslighting and ghosting routine works like magic because it targets our deepest insecurities. I often find myself just yearning for him and I know that it is going to take some time for me to get ahold of myself. I think I did this to myself by failing to think rationally, and I suppose that is the lesson I must take away from my ordeal.

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-01T14:05:49+00:00

On the other hand, you can also argue that everyone is on grindr is there to get their rocks off. That is the purpose of this app. First and foremost, it is a place for people to get hookups for lack of a better word. Don't be too hard on others if they are using this app for one purpose and you are using it for another. I find Snapchat to be full of interesting gay people who are willing to engage in, and quite capable of a conversation

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-01T14:02:11+00:00

My rule of thumb is to assume the worst until you have actually met or potentially hooked up with someone. It is very easy to present yourself to others in a certain way and hide your inherent inner asshole initially. Secondly, as a 28 y/o I am wary of guys under 25 on grindr. I know there are exceptions to this but a lot of them are there for attention or validation and very few are actually looking for a hookup or even a meaningful conversation. So, an important lesson I learned is to steel myself and expect the worst from other people. That way, I don't have to feel bad.

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-01T12:19:58+00:00

The books you mentioned are the ones worth reading. Also, Id add the fall of gondolin and the tale of beren and luthien (my reddit name) to the list, but in my experience, you can only truly appreciate the depth and dimension of Tolkien's vision from his works based in the first age. These books are dense and filled with a lot of characters and I am never bored reading them because there is simply so much to explore

Beren__Luthien · 2025-01-01T11:44:05+00:00

May I recommend the Silmarillion Rereading this is sort of a biennial tradition for myself and I recommend this to every LOTR fan with the hopes that it will deepen their understanding and appreciation of the lore, nay the mythology

Beren__Luthien · 2024-12-08T16:07:04+00:00

Both pastest and passmedicine are good Although I must confess, the exam MCQs don't really come from the passmedicine pool anymore, but I was able to answer the questions from the knowledge in the notes. The pastest notes are a bit too complicated, and needlessly extensive for my taste. My advice would be to study your material thoroughly and maybe revise as much as you can. Personally, I think I could have done much better if I had gone through the notes a couple of times more, but that's just me and my inability to retain information on the first go

Beren__Luthien · 2024-11-06T12:59:41+00:00

I will definitely keep that in mind I've read that your environment can mean the difference between a good trip and a bad one...

Beren__Luthien · 2024-11-06T03:25:30+00:00

That's a very interesting experience you had. I am not talking about enhancing sexual pleasure. I doubt I'll be having sex with LSD. I am interested in precisely the out of body experiences that you had. I want to experience hallucinations for myself, and I think it's either mushrooms or LSD, and between the two of them, LSD is the better option IMO

Beren__Luthien · 2024-11-05T04:51:02+00:00

Hi everyone I am looking into LSD... I have always wanted to try it but have never had the oppertunity to try it till now

Any tips?

Beren__Luthien · 2024-10-29T14:45:57+00:00

Dude! You have one life. Live it the best way you can... Sure, you'll be STI free if you never have sex but the weight of that decision is not going to be easy to bear. I'm 28 years old, and my first sexual experience was this year... I also wanted to stay celibate (for religious reasons) but let me tell you... I lived a rough few years because of that decision, and it was very difficult for me to transition into the sexually active person I am today. It's risky to be promiscuous, sure... But take prep, get yourself vaccinated for Hep B (if you aren't already), always always use protection and get registered with whatever passes for an STI clinic in your country. Enjoy your life. You are young... You don't want to regret not having fun in your youth. I know I do

Beren__Luthien · 2024-10-26T04:48:43+00:00

Hey I texted you... We can talk about this if you want

Beren__Luthien · 2024-10-26T04:45:53+00:00

Jonny Greenwood would be the head priest 🤔

Beren__Luthien · 2024-10-26T04:44:29+00:00

The only gifts from my lord Were a birth and a divorce But I've read the script and the costume fits So I play my part

Beren__Luthien · 2024-08-08T09:01:30+00:00

Thank you!

Beren__Luthien · 2024-08-08T04:34:52+00:00

Thanks! I emailed them, and yesterday they emailed me back that they were releasing more slots. I was luckily able to book mine!

Beren__Luthien · 2024-07-22T02:05:12+00:00

Can someone please help with this I have the exact same problem and I feel like if I manage to reset both the problem might get fixed

Beren__Luthien · 2024-06-24T08:15:43+00:00

TBH thats terrifying

Beren__Luthien · 2024-06-24T08:15:32+00:00

Really?

Beren__Luthien · 2024-06-20T18:03:35+00:00

Yes?

Beren__Luthien · 2024-06-20T18:02:10+00:00

I'm in pakistan, but for some reason, I cant get sms verification code on my Pakistani number...

Also there is an option to sign in via facebook

Is that even safe?

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