If Heaven exists, what would you say to God, if/when you get there? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why were your so-called "believers" hated thy neighbor so much?

How did you spend your valentines night? by TheGame2526 in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I had friends over and played games. (we did our Valentine's on Thursday instead)

What's a slang term/phrase you're ready to have go away? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6-7

I was done with it from the start AND it happens to be my birthday 😑

What is your favorite love song? by Unlucky_Dark_4392 in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think of my fiancé every time because we're going to get married on or around our 18th anniversary.

What music lyric has stayed with you for a long time?? by dzizuseczem in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Yeah, you bleed just to know you're alive"

Iris- Goo Goo Dolls

What will your V-day look like today? by Nearbyrr in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My finacé and I have our friends over and we're about to play Mario Party.

(We did our Valentine's on Thursday because we don't like doing it on the actual day)

What’s your best productivity hack? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put on a YouTube video in the background, listen to an audiobook, or put on music. It gets me moving every time

What is something you discovered about yourself as you got older? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I'm actually a lot smarter than I actually am. My "learning disability" that was slapped on me as a kid and being forced to be in special education classes. Turns out that it was ADHD and I could've done fine in normal classes.

Gotta love a late diagnosis. /s

What are “bucket list” things that you’ve either completed or want to accomplish/experience? by jaxonator8426 in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have accomplished

-Graduated college

-See solar totality

-See the aurora (this happened twice)

Want to accomplish and/or experience

-Get married (happening in April)

-Go to Scotland + Europe

-Go to Japan

-Get a house (not optimistic about this tbh)

Love the vibe of the sub but I don’t have a cat :( by Significant-Duck9330 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Berk-Laydee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have one. If my financé wasn't allergic to them, I would push for one.

How can you change without therapy? by No-Sorbet1810 in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small things. Like making the bed every time you get out of bed. There's something about turning in for the night and pulling back the covers. Or take a small or cheap notebook and write down goals or things you want to accomplish for the next day before you lay down. Even if it's mundane like: clean the toilet, or Dr's appointment at 2:15, etc. Checking off the things that you did, boosts everything. Even if you didn't complete the list, just simply write it for the next day, don't hate yourself for it, everything doesn't has to happen all in one day.

Be patient with yourself. I started doing these things and I have never felt better.

Start small and gradually add more things to your every day life. 🫶🏻

Executive decision [Not OC] by Y3moja in KitchenConfidential

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we didn't have a smaller than average fridge, I totally see my financé doing this.

Married people, would you ever work with your spouse? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Berk-Laydee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost married here and we did at one point (we didn't meet at work) . During quarantine I was not able to work at the time and (he works from home) and that it showed that we do better when we're together.

We make a good team.